LittleLostStar said:

If that is what they say, then it must be true!

When it's mutual it's ideal. When not, it's a nightmare.
Down to the brass tacks: be loved.
Loving someone when it's not reciprocal, is going to cause extreme emotional pain. Unless you're used to it.
Having someone love you, when your feelings aren't mutual, is a problem that needs to be dealt with. Being honest is the best approach.
The question actually is: do you like giving bad news or receiving it?.
[Edited 7/22/07 10:37am]

mdiver said:

I have and I co-sign that, it' both or nothing.

xplnyrslf said:

for this particular question (thread) I agree with xplnyrslf.

heybaby said:

We are totally on the same page....

Christina xx

MoniGram said:

Not if the person questions their worth
and cant handle it.

no contest- to love.

I honestly have no idea - although anything is better than unrequited love. If it's being reciprocated - to love, I imagine.

CynthiasSocks said:

CHIC0 said:

onenitealone said:

why ????


and 2 u 2!

I could do with *being* loved instead of it always being a one-way street.

CHIC0 said:

Because... I dunno. I'm sure you are very happy - or I hope you are - but... I don't know where I'm going with this.

Do you just mean neither is more important than the other or neither is important, full-stop?

live4lust said:

You need to find both....either way one way streets suck.

shanti0608 said:

LittleLostStar said:

Loved by family and friends but I dont have a man in my life that loves me, sad but true

LittleLostStar said:

To love. Nobody can take that away from you.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Yes they can

veronikka said:

Try to find fulfilment in loving the world AND yourself, who needs a man then? The quest for Mr Right is so... bestowed on your by urban legend. What a bullshit.

I have loved and been loved and still I am alone. Instead of mirroring myself to popular beliefs (Sex And The City, my ass), I just live my life that feels right, even if it goes against what is considered 'the right thing'.

Love AND life works differently for EVERYONE. Figure out what way works best for you. If dreaming of Mr Right is the thing for you, do so. I rather live my life and enjoy it as a single man, instead of pining after something that is not there...

shaomi said:

Get over it. Faint heart never won fair JustErin's heart.

I cannot help it I couldn't stop it if I tried
The same old heartbeat fills the emptiness I have inside
And I've heard that you can't fight love, so I won't complain
'Cause why would I stop the fire that keeps me going on?

'Cause when there's you, I feel whole
And there's no better feeling in the world
But without you I'm alone
And I'd rather be in love with you

Turn out the lights now
To see is to believe
I just want you near me
I just want you here with me
And I'd give up everything only for you
It's the least that I could do

'Cause when there's you, I feel whole
And there's no better feeling in the world
But without you I'm alone
And I'd rather be in love with you

And I feel you holding me

Why are we afraid to be in love?
To be loved
I can't explain it
I know it's tough to be loved

And I feel you holding me

Oh, oh
And when there's you, I feel whole
And there's no better feeling in the world
But without you I'm alone

And I'd rather be in love
Yes, I'd rather be in love
Oh, I'd rather be in love with you

And I feel you holding me, oh

veronikka said:

Those men are fools!!!!!

MoniGram said:

mdiver said:

Wtf is this shit?

JustErin said:

JDInteractive said:

Yeah i know but i don't care cuz she's in goddamn Canada & i'm in goddamn France so we'll never meet anyway.

That's a no brainer
To love, because then you can love yourself and that's the most important thing
I mean to truly love and accept, not be arrogant
and only then you can receive love from others, though at that point, it won't matter if you do