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PrintableCynthiasSocks said: MissMe said: That is a very good answer. 
If you come across as an unloving person, it can be hard to expect others to love you. [Edited 7/21/07 16:03pm] My replies aren't always "dick."  
I know. 
They are "dick", or "orange".  Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.
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shaomi said: shanti0608 said: I have been in instances that it was one or the other - on both sides of that coin.
It does suck either way when it is not balanced and both ways. There is nothing worse than loving someone that does not love you- makes you feel alone and empty because you give and you get nothing back in return. Although it sucks too to have someone that loves you and you do not feel the same. [Edited 7/21/07 15:53pm] I remember this friend, back in 2000. i loved her, we had sex once but she wasn't in love with me. I had great times listening 2 "i can't make u love me" & it was great 2 love her anyway, sad as i was Yes that is why my answer stays if I HAD to pick one or the other. Even though a person does not love you back I know it brings them a little joy to know they are loved in some way. being on both sides of it I choose to be the one to love. I hate telling someone I do not love them. That sucks.... I am glad I found a giver and a taker finally. Balance  | |
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MissMe said: CynthiasSocks said: My replies aren't always "dick."
I know.
They are "dick", or "orange".  You said orange!Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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shanti0608 said: shaomi said: I remember this friend, back in 2000. i loved her, we had sex once but she wasn't in love with me. I had great times listening 2 "i can't make u love me" & it was great 2 love her anyway, sad as i was Yes that is why my answer stays if I HAD to pick one or the other. Even though a person does not love you back I know it brings them a little joy to know they are loved in some way. being on both sides of it I choose to be the one to love. I hate telling someone I do not love them. That sucks.... I am glad I found a giver and a taker finally. Balance I love your replies.  Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.
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If you are going to start loving somebody you'd better start by loving yourself. There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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JDInteractive said: If you are going to start loving somebody you'd better start by loving yourself.
You mean like, " never go out with a loaded gun"?  | |
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mdiver said: JDInteractive said: If you are going to start loving somebody you'd better start by loving yourself.
You mean like, " never go out with a loaded gun"? I don't believe in violence. There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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JDInteractive said: mdiver said: You mean like, " never go out with a loaded gun"? I don't believe in violence. Tough crowd | |
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retina said: MissMe said: Oh interesting reply. But you can be loved, and if you don't feel the same, I don't think that is a good feeling at all. I would much rather love. I think. Yes, I love. Unreciprocated love can be very painful though. Kind of takes the joy out of it. i know  kinda makes u not wanna love again | |
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sexinthesummer said: retina said: Unreciprocated love can be very painful though. Kind of takes the joy out of it. i know kinda makes u not wanna love againProcrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.
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JDInteractive said: If you are going to start loving somebody you'd better start by loving yourself.
Yes...learning to love yourself, is the greatest love of all!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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JDInteractive said: mdiver said: You mean like, " never go out with a loaded gun"? I don't believe in violence. No but when i'm saying gentle things u puke | |
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sexinthesummer said: retina said: Unreciprocated love can be very painful though. Kind of takes the joy out of it. i know kinda makes u not wanna love againThe best (when possible) is 2 never EVER fall in love with someone u're not already with. I'm trying 2 stick 2 this rule though it ain't always possible. | |
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MoniGram said: JDInteractive said: If you are going to start loving somebody you'd better start by loving yourself.
Yes...learning to love yourself, is the greatest love of all! Unless you are narcissist. Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.
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JDInteractive said: If you are going to start loving somebody you'd better start by loving yourself.
 very true Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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It is better to be loved. | |
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Without reciprocation both can be agonizing. Unless it's mutual, I'll take neither, thanks. |
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Lothan said: It is better to be loved.
yup. Like Rick Springfield said, love hurts when only one's in love. | |
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Lothan said: It is better to be loved.
this i agree with. but my motives are selfish. let the other be in the position to feel something as painful as rejection. for me its more satisfying to brush that shit off and move on instead of pining for someone like a baby | |
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heybaby said: Lothan said: It is better to be loved.
this i agree with. but my motives are selfish. let the other be in the position to feel something as painful as rejection. for me its more satisfying to brush that shit off and move on instead of pining for someone like a baby Have you considered burying your feelings deep deep down so as not to let them tear your soul apart? | |
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CarrieMpls said: Without reciprocation both can be agonizing. Unless it's mutual, I'll take neither, thanks.
Good answer, I was thinking the same thing, what good is it if you love and they dont love you back. And what good is it if they love you and you dont love them back. It would just be painful Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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heybaby said: Lothan said: It is better to be loved.
this i agree with. but my motives are selfish. let the other be in the position to feel something as painful as rejection. for me its more satisfying to brush that shit off and move on instead of pining for someone like a baby
I gave my answer because I am tired of being the one doing all the loving all the time. | |
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i want to be loved I'm cute, and I don't care who knows it, I got a job to do. | |
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Lothan said: heybaby said: this i agree with. but my motives are selfish. let the other be in the position to feel something as painful as rejection. for me its more satisfying to brush that shit off and move on instead of pining for someone like a baby
I gave my answer because I am tired of being the one doing all the loving all the time. i know why you said it . thats why i said my reasons are purely selfish | |
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Imago said: heybaby said: this i agree with. but my motives are selfish. let the other be in the position to feel something as painful as rejection. for me its more satisfying to brush that shit off and move on instead of pining for someone like a baby Have you considered burying your feelings deep deep down so as not to let them tear your soul apart? you are an ass | |
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LittleLostStar said: i want to be loved
me too Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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veronikka said: LittleLostStar said: i want to be loved
me too Awwww Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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veronikka said: LittleLostStar said: i want to be loved
me too you must be loved, you are gorgeous I'm cute, and I don't care who knows it, I got a job to do. | |
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LittleLostStar said: veronikka said: me too you must be loved, you are gorgeous that's what i thought! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: LittleLostStar said: you must be loved, you are gorgeous that's what i thought! i am gorgeous too though well thats what people tell me [Edited 7/21/07 18:59pm] I'm cute, and I don't care who knows it, I got a job to do. | |
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