do you prefer to be held, or holding someone, or having your head on their chest, or their head on your chest,.....or do you want to be left alone in your own space so you can move and thrash about, when you sleep?

Totally depends on my mood but usually i can't sleep all night cuddled up or even spooned, i love when she falls asleep with her head on my chest but dead arms etc usually mean we dont sleep like that.

In summary it varies in any night...but all of the descriptions are usually covered

That depends on my ever changing mood.

Since I have been sleeping alone for 10 months now- I must say that I would like to put my head on his chest for awhile - til I just start to fall asleep.
Some times being held til you fall asleep is good too.
While I am asleep I like to be left alone to sprawl out though.
A good snuggle til I fall asleep would be really nice though.
I have been snuggling with my pillows which is not the same.

I have to add that a good spork right before bed and/or right when you wake up is always good

More often than not, i prefer sleeping alone. C'mon guys, u know that after you've fucked you just want your bed back.

3121 said:

That is not just a guy thing....

shanti0608 said:

Really? that is reassuring to know. I dont feel as bad about getiing rid now.

The coldest thing i ever did was when i was about 22yrs old. I was running my 1st bar and it had an awesome living quarters above it. A friend of mine had come to visit and would be staying over with me one weekend night. We pulled two girls down in the bar and, as the bar closed, decided to retire upstairs with them. During this time i ordered a taxi for an hours time. We emptied our sacks and when the taxi arrived one said "i thought we were staying". We said "no dice'

I would like to know why most men expect women to sleep in the wet patch?

3121 said:

Well just remember what goes around comes around

shanti0608 said:

oh no, i never thought of that! does that mean i have the unfortunate event of a girl wanting to fuck my brains out with no strings and then pay for my cab home in my near future?
[Edited 7/20/07 4:55am]

3121 said:

I saw that
That might not help you pick up that babes though

3121 said:

Good luck with that.....
I am sure they are out there

I can't sleep like that .....love to cuddle ...but when I want to sleep I need my pillow (one to lie on and one to cuddle ) ..have to take that bloody thing everywhere

9 times outta 10 TR and I are touching in some manner most of the night

sometimes it's a spoon
sometimes it's hands on backs
sometimes it's just our feet

and sometimes I sleep alone

I most often enjoy his touch on my body as I sleep - when I sleep, which isnt much

99% of the time it's all about the spooning.

Ocean said:

I have 5 pillows

no space for anyone else!