I took these pictures of my friends babies. They're so damn cute and a HANDFUL! I guess my clock is starting to tick...I'm posting baby pictures.

Lilly in my bandanna posing.


Eva Diva...she is a serious handful...and stunning; gorgeous


Lilly posing again. She has the best comedic timing for a 6 yr old.

Well I think they're cute

they are too cute..

KatSkrizzle said:

awww... they are adorable.

My nieces and nephews astound me with their cuteness all the time.

But then I go out with friends who have babies and ALL they talk about are their babies and I realize it's not for me.
Don't get me wrong. I feel the clock. Biology can be incredibly powerful sometimes. I just have to keep reminding myself I wouldn't make a very good mother.

CarrieMpls said:

I'm starting to get uncomfortable around my friends who talk about their kids. The guys normally don't do it often, but when their wives are around, thats ALL that seems to get spoken about.


oh, and those ARE cute kids.


If any of you ladies feel the clock ticking and need some help my yahoo is thevoid888

Imago said:

My one friend is usually ok if I visit with her and her husband but if any of our other friends who have babies join us I may as well go home. Last time it happened I tried in vain for hours to bring up other topics of conversation and they'd smile and nod and make one comment or another and it would go right back to sleeping schedules and mommy and me classes.

Imago said:

CarrieMpls said:

Yes you would! I've been told I need to stop faking the funk and become a soccer mom. Maybe in a few years. I just had an Absolutely Fabulous moment....

"I'm going to have a mixed race baby! It's the hottest accessory! A mixed race baby is the chanel of babies!!"

CarrieMpls said:

It's very alienating. But of course they couldn't relate to shit I like to talk about either And I've noticed my single friends getting more desperate as we near or pass our mid 30s


One of the things I loved about the Maimi Invasion was seeing all these grownups talk about shit I could relate to. It was nice to talk about references that were important to me and not constantly about chasing ass or sports, etc. I could really relate to your stories ... well, for the most part

KatSkrizzle said:

omg, I love her.

Imago said:

I don't know the last time I was called a grownup.

But yeah. Perhaps that's why I love my gays. We still do and like all the same things and they'll never leave me for a baby.

CarrieMpls said:

Yeah, but a gay man will leave your ass stranded on the highway for a piece of ass, so always carry a cellphone and some cash with you

I've lost touch with all my gay friends of late, and most of my straight ones. This last year and a half has been sort of isolating. But in a strangely good way.

They are adorable and yes a handful
My baby is now 13 and I think OMG if I have another one I would be starting all over, tough one, especially when kids are so darn cute. When my friends bring their little ones around I cant help but carry them

Imago said:

Other than a handful of friends, I only see most of my crew on birthdays and holidays now. Sometimes I get sad, I really do miss a lot of them, but I don't make the effort either really, so I guess that's just what's meant to happen. I find myself spending more and more time alone the older I get too.

CarrieMpls said:

In fact, in about 5 years I should finally make it to "crazy cat lady" status.

CarrieMpls said:

This is my first year living alone. I am isolating myself more too. But I am also getting back into the social scene. All I need is my sister, my man, and my best friends scattered all over the country. I make a point to visit my friends at least once a year...but it gets expensive. Then sometimes I feel slighted when some of them never come out and I'm doing all the work.

Gay friends? I didn't have a lot of them...the ones I did were full of DRAMA and I kind of backed off. I didn't need that in my life. I was young...sure I attracted DRAMA straight or gay