Serious said:

I've had weird attention or lewd comments, but in very isolated situations. At first it's fun & novel, but day after day, even when you're feeling ugly or you're just trying to run errands, and from all guys no matter how gross, it's got to get very old!

Serious said:

Actually, no. I work in Chelsea so I get approached by other men a lot.

NDRU said:

The subway guy was towering over me. He must have been at least 6'5".

sextonseven said:

Okay. Still I think in general women have it far worse.

Serious said:

Oh, I'm not denying that women have it worse at all. I'm just saying it's happened to me multiple times. I should change the way I dress.

sextonseven said:

And how tall are you? I am 5'25, so I guess I am always the one who is not bigger and stronger.

NDRU said:

The subway guy was towering over me. He must have been at least 6'5".

sextonseven said:

Okay, so we finally agree .
You should not. Everyone should wear what he/she wants to and don't care too much about other people's reactions IMO. That's what I love so much about cities like London or New York. You can wear almost everything and nobody will even take a second look.

Serious said:

I'm around 5'9"/5'10". I wear a lot of boots with platforms to make myself taller which would explain why I attract certain men.

sextonseven said:

yeah, I'm not exactly a badass, but women can pretty much guarantee they're smaller, weaker, & less aggressive than any guy (I'm generalizing, I know).

I know I could intimidate at least some guy. Probably not the 6'5 one though

Steadwood said:

If it's a pretty one Oh my god....that reminded me of one time I was at the beach walking the strip at night and these British boys walking in front of us, wearing kilts flashed us. They had no underwear on ( bare ass and balls is all we saw) and my cousin actually snapped a picture of it. Nobody was offended though.....everyone who saw it died laughing. They were drunk, so I doubt they even knew what they were doing.

sextonseven said:

That may be a reason .

sextonseven said:

...and if ya flash, make sure yer drawerz are clean.

p.s. first!

That's not getting flashed. That's staring at her crotch 'till the inevitable happens.

See ladies, men CAN stop staring at your chests!

But getting back on topic, we men really do get a lot of pleasure out of voyeurism (did I spell that right?)

We got on the topic of aggressive men, but if a woman is being checked out in a public place and doesn't know it, I don't see any real harm.

And women, I know you get a lot of unwanted attention, but think of it this way. You are like walking sunshine in our lives. All you have to do is appear and we're mesmerized!

Serious said:

Coincidentally, my parents are from Trinidad so I know what your other experience was like too.

Steadwood said:

But getting back on topic, we men really do get a lot of pleasure out of voyeurism (did I spell that right?)

We got on the topic of aggressive men, but if a woman is being checked out in a public place and doesn't know it, I don't see any real harm.

And women, I know you get a lot of unwanted attention, but think of it this way. You are like walking sunshine in our lives. All you have to do is appear and we're mesmerized!

NDRU said:

This was the point I was trying to make before my thread became all pc.

Once when I was on the subway this pervert masturbated in front of me.

As soon as I noticed, I screamed and switched cars.

JasmineFire said:

See, in situations like those I can NEVER stop myself from doing what can be very dangerous - I infallibly laugh loudly and make a derogatory remark about the size of their dick. I'd do this even if the dude was hung like Dex is, according to people who've seen his. Now, when I was a teenager this creepy guy used to haunt our neighbourhood, riding around on a bike wearing nothing but a trenchcoat, and with a black doctor's bag on the wheel... I laughed at him once when he drove by and he got right mad and chased us all the way home my best friend's dad had to come chase him away with a baseball bat.

Oh yeah, and after this some of my friends decided to make the guy change hoods so they kicked him off the bike. They looked in the bag and it held a brick and a bible

I wear reflective sunglasses so I can sleep on the subway without most people noticing, but they also come in handy for occasions such as these. She was very tall, looked like she could have been a model, wearing a black mini-dress and she sat down directly opposite me in the subway car. She slouched a little so I noticed I would have had a perfect view of her panties, but she kept her legs closed and her hands on her lap at first. However after a few minutes she raised her hands to work her PDA and parted her legs and there it was, the cutest red and white vertically striped underwear between her thighs. It made my day!

God, it was probably so obvious that my eyeballs were straining against my shades trying to see her underwear that she finally decided to just give in and show it to me.

The point of this thread ladies, is to bring some happiness into other people's lives and flash them your underwear every so often.

People notice when men adjust their balls too, you know.

AnckSuNamun said:

Yes, but the reaction to that is more often than

Serious said:

Well, I'm just as shallow as other men, but I genuinely feel bad for women at times. It's like they're celebrities, but they didn't choose to be. Justin Timberlake chose that so who cares if people are watching every thing he does? But women don't choose to be ogled at every moment of their lives, they just are.

Of course, at times I'm jealous. There are moments I'd love the attention that women get.

but that 's gone. I already used it!
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NDRU said:

I guess I feel like women who wear revealing clothing ARE choosing to be stared at. When I wear one of my "boobie shirts" (or, as I think of some of them, "Karen shirts" ), I ain't gonna be mad at anybody for looking. I don't wear short skirts, but if I did, and people are willing to hang around just waiting for the gust that'll. . . well. . . fine.

NDRU said:

I guess I feel like women who wear revealing clothing ARE choosing to be stared at. When I wear one of my "boobie shirts" (or, as I think of some of them, "Karen shirts" ), I ain't gonna be mad at anybody for looking. I don't wear short skirts, but if I did, and people are willing to hang around just waiting for the gust that'll. . . well. . . fine.