evenstar3 said:

I bet you gushed.

Spookymuffin said:

i didn't! i was very quiet about it. i just got an "...oh." in response.

evenstar3 said:

don't let it keep you from saying it again, if you mean it. you'll regret it if you don't

evenstar3 said:

BlackAdder7 said:

oh, i know.

evenstar3 said:

Ignore that. Wait for them to say it, or you say it but make sure you're awesome enough that they implicitly acknowledge it by way of 'things'.

The people I date usually say it first because.. I'm 15? and haven't been in love yet.


The guy im "with" now said it first too.
but it means more because we're friends. so its friend love i guess lol

SaraWright10 said:

Wait.

You're 15?

Fauxie said:

Where have you been?

off topic- but sara
ur avi

I think it has always been me. I'm a very decisive sort.

I've had a couple of people confess their crushes on me first, though. I find that part harder, 'cause I'm so clueless about people flirting and stuff.

I've always said it first. Big frikkin' mistake. Never again.

I said it first. I don't remember what he said but it's lasted 3 years so I guess he loves me too.

Lothan said:

I've had times where I've thought that, but then I'm like, if it's TRUE, I'd rather just put it out there and let things end up where they're gonna end up.

I don't remember ever saying I love you first, maybe I did and don't remember because luckily it was recipocated. Have only been there a couple of times, and once absolutely head over heels where it affected every cell in my body, that was crazy, but good.

shaomi said:

thats not love....thats lust!!!

Equal number of both I guess....there have been those that have said it to me and I've been like where the fuck did THAT come from?...

....coldest slam I got when I broached the subject first?.....laughter....I'm talkin' .....

..but I'm much better now!!!...

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Well, you know me: when I fall hard. I know right away if I deem that person worthy of my love. Unfortunately, it is not reciprocated most of the time or the other person does not want to say it for some dumb assed fear of some dumb assed thing. Recent developments have shook my faith in love anyways.

Him, always

I think it was him but I'm not sure. I can't remember Ask him.

Is "I love you" something couples say to each other?

On my last relationship she confessed her feelings first. And also she a bit of trouble gettin' it out. But I knew what she was sayin' and how she felt.

Lothan said:

Cynicysm isn't your best color, babe. But I do understand.

Especially about the dumbass fear of some dumbass thing. Life is SO too short for that crap.

prb said:

Thanks! kinda catchy.

JustErin said:

No, it's actually the oldest joke known to humanity.

i can't remember if my high school boyfriend told me first or if i told him first...being that i was a more shy person back then than i am now, he probably told me first, but with my current boyfriend, i told him first. I have balls....

missfee said:

reneGade20 said:

U didn't even laugh at my "thieves in the temples" hint

I mentioned this recently. I was being dumped by my last girlfriend and I said "I thought we loved each other?!" She was completely silent and I realized I was the only one who had said "I love you!"