yep, when having sex on top, do you hop up and down, or sort of position yourself in a squat position and move your ass up and down (which reaps its benefits by being dominant and having your ass shaking at the same time)...???

Which technique (if you have one) is the best one?

Just wanted some clarification, i was having this conversation with some other female friends of mine.

Thanks for the input....

Im feeling too superior to answer

chillichocaholic said:

why?????

missfee said:

LOL I dont know

it all depends on what I'm working with, what I want him to feel, if I'm teaching him something and if he knows what he's doing

Women tend to go "up and down", 'cause that's what they've been taught men want. But it's much better for them if they rub their clit back and forth along the guy's pubic area. Let 'em do this at their preferred speed and they'll cum very quickly.

missfee said:

YES PLEASE!!! I'll be taking one of each in every color that you stock....THANX!!!!

Ace said:

really very interesting you say this. in my experience i have found that the "up and down" routine is sort of difficult. doesn't do a damn thing for me and i feel like i'm doing it wrong or something, but when i do it another way, "the ass shaker" i feel more comfortable with speed and with making him cum faster. but your suggestion sounds like a great idea. thanks for your input

GREAT RESPONSES FROM EVERYONE SO FAR, KEEP THEM COMIN'!!!!
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The up and down thing can be kind of dangerous, too.

I find I like to take control after a while, even on the bottom. Is that wrong?

NDRU said:

no, i've done that.

missfee said:

True, my girl will take some control when she's on the bottom, too. I guess it's natural.

Ace said:

I love that you're dominant even in in a generic discussion about it.

NDRU said:

Some girls start out a little timid and you have to grab their hips and and show them it's alright to rub their clit against you with the same speed and intensity as when they're masturbating.
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Up and down is freakin' boring to me. Circles, baby. Circles.

CarrieMpls said:

Didn't even notice that.

NDRU said:

if i am underneath, i like to grab the hips and thrust up, i want her to grind the fuck out of me...

i will put my back into it, but i want you to put your hips into it, its all about the grind...

are u taking note?

eraclito said:

I am!

jess555ja said:

do u want to be corrupted

lol

eraclito said:

eraclito said:

damn u better believe it!!!

jess555ja said:

then may i suggest you burn all those teddy bears and anything in pink
because once i have finished with you, your mind, your body and your soul will be opened in ways you never dreamed possible..

free your mind and your ass will follow...

eraclito said:

even though I don't have any teddy bears



Nice Funkadelic reference by the way!

jess555ja said:

you have good taste in music... what about the pink?

cos you ain't gonna be no lil girl no more ..

lol
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eraclito said:

I don't like pink . . . I like red

jess555ja said:

cool, i love red too..

so u coming over or what ?

eraclito said:

I'll see you in a couple of hours

Lothan said:

I don't do up and down either.

Do "most" women really do that?

jess555ja said:

dont forget to get your sleep on the plane, cos i plan on keeping u up..

CarrieMpls said:

i don't know, that's why i was asking.