onenitealone said:

have a few beers - problem fixed!

ZombieKitten said:

Awwww...

I am TERRIBLY cuddly after a few beers. That's when you have to run for the hills.

But I always have time for a Hello and Goodbye hug. You won't escape me when I meet you, Madam.

With my son, I am very cuddly.

With a boy I like, sure I am a bit cuddly when watching a movie or something.

After sex? Hell no. Don't touch me...let's sleep until it's time for the next round.

Erin's just reminded me of something...

This is probably TMI - and not something I've really shared with my real-life mates so GOD knows why I'm telling all you lot - but, especially recently, I've become super cuddly in bed. I've always loved that close physical intimacy - not when I'm sleeping ; I feel like I'm suffocating - but during/after sex, I completely crave being intertwined with someone. I enjoy it almost as much as sex itself. I think it's put a few blokes off, to be honest - they thought I was far more interested than I really was.

I know I have become less touchy-feely - and a little more distant - ever since that 'mate' of mine ripped me off financially and I am slowly working back towards how I used to be. But, sex-wise, I think that's the one area that has been unaffected by it - it's only been strengthened. Maybe I need that physical intimacy more than I realise??

I don't know, we all need human contact.

I need some right now

ZombieKitten said:

..purely platonic..but since you needed it, and I need one too..lol

me three

I love to be cuddled.

JustErin said:

Why 'Hell no. Don't touch me'...?

...Just curious

Ottensen said:

I'm usually hot and tired and I honestly can not fall asleep or rest comfortably with someone all over me.

JustErin said:

I used to be that way, but something changed. My most recent ex and I slept together amazingly well. I'd never been a cuddly sleeper before, in fact could never get to sleep practically with someone in the same bed but we even moved together in bed well. If I flipped one way he'd follow and vice versa.
I don't know if it will ever be that way again, but it was nice.
But I never let him come over to my house. It always had to be his bed.

CarrieMpls said:

I'll tolerate it for a couple of minutes if he wants to cuddle a bit (which surprisingly many guys wanna do)...but I honestly hate it. The WORST is when you are facing each other and can feel his warm breath on you.

I always turn away and get comfy all by myself on my side of the bed.

I'm not very cuddly. On the couch, sure we can cuddle...for 5 minutes. After that it just gets too hot and I get annoyed.

In bed, hell no. Leave me alone. Don't even come near me or else I'll get too hot and won't be able to sleep. You got your side of the bed and I got mine. Cuddling early in the morning when it's chilly, that's cool.

CarrieMpls said:

As much as I love to cuddle, I also love to sleep, and I used to wanna cuddle for a few minutes and then retreat to opposite sides of the bed until morning, but something with this one is different. . .we are often pretty much snuggled up all night. It is nice.

I love the whole idea of falling asleep in my loved ones arms. However, the reality involves about 4 quilts and 10 pillows, so it is actually physically impossible not to mention the fact that he falls asleep in about 1 minute and it takes me about 2 hours.

with a significant other, I can cuddle extremely well in private
publicly, not so much it really irritates me
except at restaurants if we both sit on the same side of the table

heartbeatocean said:

I like it in public within reason, not hands down pants and such

ZombieKitten said:

What if he drops his pants completely?

ZombieKitten said:

who would do that in public?!

EvilAlthom said:

I hate it when he does that!

especially when my parents are here

evenstar3 said:

You've never been to Australia

evenstar3 said:

you lead a very sheltered life

ZombieKitten said:

I get very self-conscious and feel weird. But then again, I tend to be hyper-private.

evenstar3 said:

I've seen it. Hand sliding down the ass.

heartbeatocean said:

heartbeatocean said:

I've seen it at bus stops and copped an eyeful

ZombieKitten said:

i've never seen anyone do that!

evenstar3 said:

I think you must live in a classier suburb then

JustErin said:

Yeah, she didn't seem to be wearing underwear or maybe it was a thong.

heartbeatocean said:

Ew.

I just can't do PDA. I nice little kiss goodbye, maybe holding a hand for a bit...but that's it.