Oooh! Now THIS is what I'm talking about!

From 2the9's (who was too stubborn to post here):

"This is what I'm saying. You don't stop.

Just stop sniffing around...that's all I'm asking. Stop yapping at my heels.

I dont think you're a strong woman (abrasive does NOT equal strong) nor funny nor particularly bright. And "controvertial" is a word you keep using to describe your own worth when it really just describes a consensus opinion that you annoy people without furthering intellectual debate.

Why you keep trying to jump in my sights is beyond me since obviously you feel the same way about me. Let it go.

I think your superiority complex is completely unwarranted and is just a defense mechanism for a conventional mind.

I alreeady interact with the people I find interesting.

You now know (like you didn't before ) how I feel about you.

I rather would NOT have said all this, since I assume you already know it and I don't like interacting with you on any level: to win a point, to get the upper hand, to "debate," whatever. But you asked on another thread for opinions about you and you solicited mine in particular.

Please note: I am not reciprocating. I do not care nor want to know what you think about me.

Do what the rules here tell you to do: when there are differences respond to ideas and not people."

He's right, I don't stop. But then again, why should I?

I really don't know what he's talking about, I've engaged him, maybe three times. I wouldn't call that "yapping at anyone's heels", would you?




The problem is that I am one day very strong, and the next, very introverted. So what I think one day doesn't pertain to the next day. I've never really given him the impression that I dislike him, although I don't like to be talked down to or told what to do.

Lothan said:

It's okay.

Yeah....I wish everyone could try to get along.

Maybe you's would have a lot in common. You both seem to have the traits that I mentioned earlier in this thread.....strong beliefs, and stuff....

gemini13 said:

isn't it against the rules to post personal e-mails/orgnotes?

Maybe sarcasm comes across incorrectly on the web?


What I think is sarcasm might not look right to people when it's written?

Why are you so mean? I guess only you can answer that. I am curious as to why you called my thread bait, yet start a bait thread of your own. You call people victims, yet here you are playing the victim role, looking for sympathy in an "oh why me? " type of way.

I don't actually think you are mean, I think you are an angry, hateful, hate-filled person.

On occassion, race threads come up. Every single time, you post to those threads. You once told me that you thought I was using my race as an excuse. When I told you I was a successful black woman, you then picked fun of my weight: obviously because you have no actual debating skills. Do I truly believe you are racist? Yeah I do. I may be wrong but some of the things you say about black people on here are fucked up.

In a thread I started in site discussion, I said that I didn't think the N word should be used on a thread. I made reference to another thread when another Orger said the word. Your exact words were : all he said was nigga. You may not have said it to have racial undertones but to say it to get a dig at me is fucked up. It speaks volumes about you. And to say I am jealous of two ideal white women to try to say I speak ill of white people is all kinds of wrong.

I really don't give a fuck that you don't like me and a few other people on this site but there are a lot of people who have nothing to do with this BS so you may want to consider what they think of you when you post. Or not.

gemini13 said:

isn't it against the rules to post personal e-mails/orgnotes?

This wasn't an orgnote. 9's was tired of Gemini's attack on lothan on another thread in P&R.

Shorty said:

Pride is a BIG part of it. I have a superiority complex, and I look down upon a lot of people here. I can't help it. I read most of this crap and I just roll my eyes. People tend to rehash the same old arguments, arguments that will never be agreed upon. Why? What's the point?

gemini13 said:

you do not have to choose to read what rubs you the wrong way

you do not have to choose to act out on your thought of superiority through written words

you do not have to choose to look down on fellow humans because you as well, are imperfect

Serious question here...why do people have such an intense reaction to what I say or do?

SOME people choose to, some don't

also you may assume they do cuz you cant hear their tone and in some ways our outter reactions reflect back to us perhaps how we are reacting to others ?

Well, I've even had physical threats of violence made toward me here.

Lothan said:

No, this is not a sympathy thread. I guess I'm just tired of people reacting so strongly to what I post as opposed to someone else. I encouraged people to be honest with me in an effort to understand how I am perceived.

I can be very hateful, but that's just stubbornness and defensive behavior. You yourself can be hateful, but you would never admit to it.


I have a very strong opinion on race issues. I don't appreciate being called a racist, as you have no idea how long or how greatly I have been fighting against racism in my world. I have a very racist father. I know you and some others don't like to hear about these kind of things, but my first EVER friend at three years old was black. In other words, my first introduction into friendship was with a black girl. My mother, thank God, was more liberal than my father. I've had to listen to the most hateful things from my own family member, and when I began dating black men in my teens, the shit hit the fan in my house. Even now, when I hear that word, I go off. So.....for you to even think for a second that I am a racist, it pisses me off more than you know.

However...I will always fight for the right to free speech above anything else. We were talking about the slang word, and you guys took it and ran with it, implying something completely different. I didn't defend that word to take a "dig at you". That's your own defensiveness. I get the impression that you have a secret hatred for white women, or maybe just women in general, because it seems that you get along much better with males.

I don't hate you, I just don't like how you make such a concerted effort to get people banned for saying someone that makes you uncomfortable. People have the right to say what they want, and I will never go against that.

gemini13 said:

ANYONE that has this happen here needs to document it and share it with Ben and or Mods

Mach said:

It was reported to mods and the person was banned. He was joking but apparently no one should take anything seriously on a website unless it is aimed at her highness.

Lothan said:

I really think you'll find the last blonde joke I posted funny:

A beautiful blonde walks up to a casino's craps table, strips completely naked and places $100K on the table. "Roll 'em!" she tells the astounded table manager and various male bettors.

The table manager rolls the dice and the blonde jumps up and down, breasts jiggling and screaming "I won! I won!" She scoops up her winnings and leaves.

Only then do the men at the table realize she crapped out.

Who said all blondes were dumb!

I appreciate what you are trying to do Rodeo. I'm gonna play nice now.

Lothan said:

By the way, didn't you find that joke funny?
[Edited 7/12/07 10:03am]

RodeoSchro said:

No.

Lothan said:

But it was the blonde's revenge! I thought for sure you'd like it!

Well, tell me what kind of jokes you like and whenever you want one, I'll post it. I have millions of them.