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PrintableOh, Jess. Listen, you needn't resort to a thread to ask me. A simple e-mail or phone call would have sufficed...  | |
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ThreadBare said: Oh, Jess. Listen, you needn't resort to a thread to ask me. A simple e-mail or phone call would have sufficed...
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shanti0608 said: pardonme4livin said: Like an ocean away?  That's a pretty good physical distance...  Heck yeah...won't have to worry about bumping into one another..though we have been living 6 miles apart for 10 months now and never bump into each other. Thank goodness I remember the first time i stayed at your house and we went to the grocery store near where you used to live....you were a little worried we would bump in to him as we walked hand in hand around the store To tell you the truth i was really hoping we would so he could see how happy we were, i hated watching you hurt in those days when you were low. I guess i wanted him to see that you are loved.  | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: Heck yeah...won't have to worry about bumping into one another..though we have been living 6 miles apart for 10 months now and never bump into each other. Thank goodness I remember the first time i stayed at your house and we went to the grocery store near where you used to live....you were a little worried we would bump in to him as we walked hand in hand around the store To tell you the truth i was really hoping we would so he could see how happy we were, i hated watching you hurt in those days when you were low. I guess i wanted him to see that you are loved.  | |
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I did it, and now I'm married to him.  | |
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Why did you break up in the first place? How long ago? Have you learned something that would make it different this time? Has he?
I don't think it's a universal "no". . .just gotta consider the true reason why you'd consider it (ie. 'cause you really like him, or miss the sex, or are just bored/lonely. . .?), and any good reasons not to.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Why did you break up in the first place? How long ago? Have you learned something that would make it different this time? Has he?
I don't think it's a universal "no". . .just gotta consider the true reason why you'd consider it (ie. 'cause you really like him, or miss the sex, or are just bored/lonely. . .?), and any good reasons not to. Exactly..make sure it is for the right reasons. I went back to a relationship where the flame died long before we ended it the first time so the spark was gone. Never to be reignited- I think if the spark is still there and it is what you both really want then go for it! [Edited 7/11/07 15:37pm] | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Why did you break up in the first place? How long ago? Have you learned something that would make it different this time? Has he?
I don't think it's a universal "no". . .just gotta consider the true reason why you'd consider it (ie. 'cause you really like him, or miss the sex, or are just bored/lonely. . .?), and any good reasons not to. well, i a part of me just wants to know how he's been and what he's been up to. I know he just graduated from vet school and all. and there's the other part of me that wants something to spark back up. Things didn't end for any bad reason and we both really enjoyed each other's company. Anyway, if anything exciting happens I'll tell you all. Or maybe not.
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Anxiety said: this has always been a bad idea in my experience. unless you're just doing it for some nostalgic nookie, if you dropped it at the curb you should leave it at the curb.
Been that, done there, bought the souvenir wasted time. | |
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