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jess555ja said: alxndrstff said: Deep down Jess, you'll probably find you've already made a decision, but may be worried about the consequences of it either way. Don't let anyone tell you it's wrong, because in such cases where "right" is largely subjective I reckon your instincts and emotions are all you can rely on.
I guess you just have to ask yourself what course of action you could live with over the longer term. Apologies if my advice doesn't help! I do fear the consequences . . . we have been friends for such a long time and I had a big crush on him when we were in high school, but right now, I am disgusted with him. I really hate that I will be losing a friend, but I really do not trust him right now. As I said, I reckon you already know what you want or have to do. You're probably just too nice a person to really want to do it. Like you, despite everything, I'd hate to lose a friend like that as well, but if you can't trust them anymore and see them hurting and using others around you, the friendship would never be the same anyway, would it? So look into the mirror, do u recognise some1? Is it who u always hoped u would become, when u were young? | |
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MissMe said: jess555ja said: 
I really want to give him a chance, but I really do not know his intentions. He could be genuine or he might be looking for some ass (which he won't be getting from me  ). Luckily I still have some time to think of what I am going to do.Give him that chance, that's cool. I would too. I have lost contact with friends and met up with them again many a time. Stay aloof, and allow him to come to you, as a friend. Explain that as it has been such a long time, you feel overwhelmed, and yet confused, as it is too much too soon and would like to remain just friends right now. You have told him you want to maintain the friendship, his behaviour in future messages should give you your answer. This is brilliant advice. And separated isn't divorced. Until that paper is signed there is still a marriage there somewhere. Stick to your guns. | |
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Mars23 said: jess555ja said: Hey, do you have the links to Moni's threads or do you remember the titles? I would like to check them out.  http://www.prince.org/msg/100/231917 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/232133 Thanks! I'll check these out | |
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alxndrstff said: jess555ja said: I do fear the consequences . . . we have been friends for such a long time and I had a big crush on him when we were in high school, but right now, I am disgusted with him. I really hate that I will be losing a friend, but I really do not trust him right now. As I said, I reckon you already know what you want or have to do. You're probably just too nice a person to really want to do it. Like you, despite everything, I'd hate to lose a friend like that as well, but if you can't trust them anymore and see them hurting and using others around you, the friendship would never be the same anyway, would it? You are right . . . it wouldn't. I still need to sit down with him and hear what he has to say. I wouldn't feel right if I just didn't speak to him at all. I'll see what happens after that. | |
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Ocean said: Lets try that again
Thank you Ocean | |
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jess555ja said: Mars23 said: Thanks! I'll check these out My threads of when I had my own men problems. LOL! Jess, I will be more then happy to tell you how that all ended. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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MoniGram said: jess555ja said: Thanks! I'll check these out My threads of when I had my own men problems. LOL! Jess, I will be more then happy to tell you how that all ended. Yes! Please tell me what happened!  | |
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it taskes alot of work and therapy for a tiger to change his stripes.
men mostly think with their penises (unless you find another name from Ottensen's thread that you prefer more). This guy probably has lusted after you, and now thinks he has a chance to score with you. I feel you should stay away from him. From the heart, BA | |
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jess555ja said: MoniGram said: My threads of when I had my own men problems. LOL! Jess, I will be more then happy to tell you how that all ended. Yes! Please tell me what happened! Well Jess, after many tears,(on both sides), yelling, saying horrible things to each other, and him actually breaking it off, only to call me 45 mins later to tell me he can't be without me. We are slowly trying to get past what he did. Now don't get me wrong...the trust has to be earned back. BIG TIME! He knows this. He pretty much has been eating a HUGE plate of crow the last couple of weeks. When I ask him to why he lied, he said this to me. " I am not sure why I lied, but I regret doing so. I hurt the one person who truly takes me as I am, and that was my mistake!" He could have been giving me a line, or he could have been talking from his heart. But right now, as the fool I am, I am willing to take that chance. But like I said to you before...you have to follow your gut, only you can decide to do about this young man. But...if you do decide to see him, friends or other wise, keep your mind open, and your eyes wide. Hope that helps some. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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