Since it is summer and I am full of ideas. (No I am not getting married nor am I engagged). Plus, I want to know of other ideas.
For those orgers had had their dream weddings then what were those things that did go as planned?
As for me.
I hope to have a wedding in Mexico and of course include mariachis since its part of our wedding and big party traditions.

Never thought about it (but then, even though iam not macho at all, this is a girly thing only right?)

thesexofit said:

Even guys think about their future wedding right?

Screw the wedding, what about a fantasy divorce?

I seriously have never thought about what I would want my wedding to be like. I'm not getting married anytime in the near future. I need to find myself a man and then I'll think about it

EverSoulicious said:

All I know is Maceo is in the reception band.

Stax said:

Nice

jess555ja said:

yes! i'm not the only one! even when in relationships, i've never started concocting an idea of what i want it to be like. i have no clue.

evenstar3 said:

I don't have all the details of my fantasy wedding.

evenstar3 said:

Shame one of my ex's didn't think like you. She was probably the love of my life and she really wanted to get engaged, then married. We broke up and that was one of the main reasons because of it. We were 17 years old! Iam 21 and iam still waaaay too young to get married.

My fantasy wedding would be in Hawaii on the beach i would be marrying Prince. I always have this fantasy wedding in my dream.

evenstar3 said:

The only person that thinks about my future wedding is my mother. She has been annoying me lately, asking if I'm seeing anyone and if I'm ever going to give her some grandchildren. It is crazy to me 'cause I'm only 22. I just look at her like this .

"Do you, Beyonce Knowles, take ThreadBare to be your lawfully wedded husband, to honor, cherish, obey, to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live?"

B: "Absolutely. I do."

TB: "Yippeeee! Ditto on 'at, Reverend! I do, too!"

thesexofit said:

wanting to get married at 17 is nuts. it differs for everyone, sure, but i agree with you. i'm 20 and can't imagine being married at this point.

jess555ja said:

i'm so glad my mom doesn't bug me about things like that. she'd freak out if i told her i wanted to get married/have kids right now.

evenstar3 said:

Me either, but sometimes I like to just think about weddings.
[Edited 6/18/07 21:06pm]

Paradisekiss03 said:

i understand that. it's just that i've known so many girls who act like i'm nuts for not having every detail of my dream wedding dress/party/whatever planned

evenstar3 said:

Bridezillas? I think there is a show on cable tv about Bridezilla! lol! I would never turn into Bridezilla!

Paradisekiss03 said:

i've seen it; those chicks are CRAZY. i'd much rather elope than spend all that money and hassle on such a huge fussy ceremony.

evenstar3 said:

I think eloping is cool too.

Paradisekiss03 said:

Oh God! That show reminds me of my sister. She is engaged and I can see her turning into one of those women. I'm scared because I'm going to be the maid of honor at her wedding and I know she is going to be nuts

jess555ja said:

Are you getting a say in the bridesmaids dresses?
[Edited 6/18/07 21:22pm]

Paradisekiss03 said:

Thats cool. But my ex played the guilt card on me. The "if u love me, why wont u marry me? Are u cheatin' on me?". I had never seen that obsessive side to her. I thought we could work it out, but we never did.

Paradisekiss03 said:

We haven't gone very far into the planning, but I will make sure I do. I gotta look good!

thesexofit said:

that sucks you obviously weren't meant to be together though, and at least you figured it out that way.

evenstar3 said:

Yeah, I was 17 and thought I knew it all LOL. I assumed we would be together for a long time, but yeah, her heart was in the right place (she loved me at least), but that was waaaaay too heavy at the time. Even now it would be.

To quote def leppard, "love bites"

thesexofit said:

you always think you'll be with that first person forever. i was way fucking naive at 17.

evenstar3 said:

Yeah, those were the days. She was my first "real" relationship I guess. Though my first girlfriend was when I was about 11. Holding hands and the occasional awkward kiss was about the extent of it. Shame things cant stay as innocent as that LOL.

thesexofit said:

i only ever hugged my first boyfriend when i was 13. he used to walk me home from school, too.