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Printableevenstar3 said: ArielB said: Oh, you're going to entertain me in bed. Kinky!  
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Celie
The more things change, the more they stay the same. [to Shug] He (Albert) beat me when you ain't here. He beat me for not being you. [to Albert] Nettie and my kids be comin' home soon, and when they get here we gonna' set around and whip your ass. [about Mister] Next time I put a lil Shug Avery pee in his glass....see how he like that. Sofia 
All my life I had to fight. I had to fight my daddy. I had to fight my uncles. I had to fight my brothers. A girl child ain't safe in a family of men, but I ain't never thought I'd have to fight in my own house! I loves Harpo, God knows I do. But I'll kill him dead 'fo I let him beat me. Sat in that jail, I sat in that jail til I felt like I's bout to rot to death. I know what it like to wanna go somewhere and cain't. I know what it like to wanna sing... and have it beat out 'ya. I want to thank you, Miss Celie, fo evrything you done for me. I 'members that day in the store with Miss Millie - I's feelin' real down. I's feelin' mighty low. And when I seed you - I knowd they is a God. I knowd they is a God. Oh... Sofia home, now. Sofia home. Things is gonna be changin' around here. Pass me them peas, boy. | |
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july said: Sofia
All my life I had to fight. I had to fight my daddy. I had to fight my uncles. I had to fight my brothers. A girl child ain't safe in a family of men, but I ain't never thought I'd have to fight in my own house! I loves Harpo, God knows I do. But I'll kill him dead 'fo I let him beat me. Sat in that jail, I sat in that jail til I felt like I's bout to rot to death. I know what it like to wanna go somewhere and cain't. I know what it like to wanna sing... and have it beat out 'ya. I want to thank you, Miss Celie, fo evrything you done for me. I 'members that day in the store with Miss Millie - I's feelin' real down. I's feelin' mighty low. And when I seed you - I knowd they is a God. I knowd they is a God. Oh... Sofia home, now. Sofia home. Things is gonna be changin' around here. Pass me them peas, boy.  [Edited 6/28/07 17:22pm] | |
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The guy who started this thread really in sticking to his guns!
I married a man who I know is a leader that makes very good decisions and puts the team's best interest first. My husband married his image. I look to him to make decisions when there is an issue that he is most knowledgeable about and he looks to me to do the same. When we both have strong opinions about an issue, we talk about the options and come up with a solution. We are both very fair. He is self employed and has more time at home than I do. If there is a mess, he cleans it up...just like I would. He knows how to cook, but I prefer to cook if I am around. He's always done is own laundry, but if mine is in the laundry room, he'll handle it for me (not the folding and hanging tho' ).
I am 100% confident that he can protect me! I trust him with my life. He once told me one of the things (of many) he likes about me is that he knows I will "beat a b*tch down." If some "ish" pops off, we will "Bonnie and Clyde" it. So mirrorbestfriend, to answer your question, it is about a partnership. Look into trying it. | |
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I fall more inline with the women behind the man, in the since that I stand behind him in a supportive position in his endeavors or decisions made as he is the head of our household. I've never held the view of I run the house like this is my domain or whatever, as with everything else in the relationship we're in it or do it together. But for me in order for us to get there we have to stand side by side first and far most.
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evenstar3 said: ArielB said: Oh, you're going to entertain me in bed. Kinky!
DIE already, gosh! If you want to kill me, you could try and fuck me until I have a heart attack. | |
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Anxiety said: are we talking about marriages in the amish community?
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lizlampkin said: The guy who started this thread really in sticking to his guns!
I married a man who I know is a leader that makes very good decisions and puts the team's best interest first. My husband married his image. I look to him to make decisions when there is an issue that he is most knowledgeable about and he looks to me to do the same. When we both have strong opinions about an issue, we talk about the options and come up with a solution. We are both very fair. He is self employed and has more time at home than I do. If there is a mess, he cleans it up...just like I would. He knows how to cook, but I prefer to cook if I am around. He's always done is own laundry, but if mine is in the laundry room, he'll handle it for me (not the folding and hanging tho' ).
I am 100% confident that he can protect me! I trust him with my life. He once told me one of the things (of many) he likes about me is that he knows I will "beat a b*tch down." If some "ish" pops off, we will "Bonnie and Clyde" it. So mirrorbestfriend, to answer your question, it is about a partnership. Look into trying it. 
See, that's what I'm talking about... An Equitable Relationship.  "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: I was having this discussion with a friend recently and it made me wonder what the general feelings are about this?
I was raised to believe that a woman should be BEHIND her man kinda watching his back ...as more of a support but not a complete equal to walk onside of the man? Now I am not talk about a lesser person but not as dominant role in every day decisions.....The man is the head and makes all Final decisions is what I was taught in Bible study as a baptist kid. it seems because women have jobs and are allowed to think openly in public in the last 30 years or so that many women feel an equal or MORE than man? I believe this is a major reason for the detioration of the family structure and high divorce race because you have man and woman thinkin they both are the lead..... wherever there are 2 chiefs and not enough Indians you have problems..... What do you think about this? Should be totally EQUAL....but I tend to make most of the decisions in our household!!!!!  | |
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statuesqque said: I fall more inline with the women behind the man, in the since I stand behind him in a supportive position in his endeavors or decisions made as he is the head of our household. I've held the view that of I run the house like this is my domain or whatever, as with everything else in the relationship we in it or do it together. But for me in order for us to get there we have to stand side by side first and far most.
you seem to get it! congratulations[b] | |
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Rhondab said: mirrorbestfriend said: but rhonda if u believe in the bible your whole purpose for being here is to be our playmate...we were lonely so GOD hooked us up.....he said nothing about being equal? if so please point me to the verse? Playmate? Oh good grief.. 
Go back and read your bible. Just because I may have a different ROLE doesn't mean I'm not a man's equal in marriage. Understand what equality means. That's all I need to say. We're basing a woman's place in society on a book of fairy tales??
Damn, the human race is overated. | |
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uPtoWnNY said: Rhondab said: Playmate? Oh good grief..
Go back and read your bible. Just because I may have a different ROLE doesn't mean I'm not a man's equal in marriage. Understand what equality means. That's all I need to say. We're basing a woman's place in society on a book of fairy tales??
Damn, the human race is overated. yup. | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: statuesqque said: I fall more inline with the women behind the man, in the since that I stand behind him in a supportive position in his endeavors or decisions made as he is the head of our household. I've never held the view of I run the house like this is my domain or whatever, as with everything else in the relationship we in it or do it together. But for me in order for us to get there we have to stand side by side first and far most.
you seem to get it! congratulations[b] wait I missed never in my post... "I've never held the view that I run the house etc..etc... so that may change your view. in any event that's always been my view but sadly I haven't had a serious relationship with a man where we connected in this area. they either want to be the man blah blah or are at the opposite end with you're your own person do whatever you want and so on...almost like a hands off approach, which doesn't work for me either. I hey my hope springs eternal.  | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: I was having this discussion with a friend recently and it made me wonder what the general feelings are about this?
I was raised to believe that a woman should be BEHIND her man kinda watching his back ...as more of a support but not a complete equal to walk onside of the man? Now I am not talk about a lesser person but not as dominant role in every day decisions.....The man is the head and makes all Final decisions is what I was taught in Bible study as a baptist kid. it seems because women have jobs and are allowed to think openly in public in the last 30 years or so that many women feel an equal or MORE than man? I believe this is a major reason for the detioration of the family structure and high divorce race because you have man and woman thinkin they both are the lead..... wherever there are 2 chiefs and not enough Indians you have problems..... What do you think about this? Dude are you for reaL?? This has gotta be some kind of character or something. All the shit this cat says....it's just unbelievable that someone actually believes a lot of this shit! | |
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guitarslinger44 said: mirrorbestfriend said: I was having this discussion with a friend recently and it made me wonder what the general feelings are about this?
I was raised to believe that a woman should be BEHIND her man kinda watching his back ...as more of a support but not a complete equal to walk onside of the man? Now I am not talk about a lesser person but not as dominant role in every day decisions.....The man is the head and makes all Final decisions is what I was taught in Bible study as a baptist kid. it seems because women have jobs and are allowed to think openly in public in the last 30 years or so that many women feel an equal or MORE than man? I believe this is a major reason for the detioration of the family structure and high divorce race because you have man and woman thinkin they both are the lead..... wherever there are 2 chiefs and not enough Indians you have problems..... What do you think about this? Dude are you for reaL?? This has gotta be some kind of character or something. All the shit this cat says....it's just unbelievable that someone actually believes a lot of this shit! I've said it all along, this guy is just playin' with our minds.. | |
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Flowerz said: july said: Sofia
All my life I had to fight. I had to fight my daddy. I had to fight my uncles. I had to fight my brothers. A girl child ain't safe in a family of men, but I ain't never thought I'd have to fight in my own house! I loves Harpo, God knows I do. But I'll kill him dead 'fo I let him beat me. Sat in that jail, I sat in that jail til I felt like I's bout to rot to death. I know what it like to wanna go somewhere and cain't. I know what it like to wanna sing... and have it beat out 'ya. I want to thank you, Miss Celie, fo evrything you done for me. I 'members that day in the store with Miss Millie - I's feelin' real down. I's feelin' mighty low. And when I seed you - I knowd they is a God. I knowd they is a God. Oh... Sofia home, now. Sofia home. Things is gonna be changin' around here. Pass me them peas, boy.
[Edited 6/28/07 17:22pm] Well, if you'd seen the movie. It makes perfect sense. Sofia has a lot of  | |
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guitarslinger44 said: Dude are you for reaL?? This has gotta be some kind of character or something.
All the shit this cat says....it's just unbelievable that someone actually believes a lot of this shit! I'm pretty sure you'll find this line of thinking at more conservative websites. | |
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guitarslinger44 said: mirrorbestfriend said: I was having this discussion with a friend recently and it made me wonder what the general feelings are about this?
I was raised to believe that a woman should be BEHIND her man kinda watching his back ...as more of a support but not a complete equal to walk onside of the man? Now I am not talk about a lesser person but not as dominant role in every day decisions.....The man is the head and makes all Final decisions is what I was taught in Bible study as a baptist kid. it seems because women have jobs and are allowed to think openly in public in the last 30 years or so that many women feel an equal or MORE than man? I believe this is a major reason for the detioration of the family structure and high divorce race because you have man and woman thinkin they both are the lead..... wherever there are 2 chiefs and not enough Indians you have problems..... What do you think about this? Dude are you for reaL?? This has gotta be some kind of character or something. All the shit this cat says....it's just unbelievable that someone actually believes a lot of this shit! no this is what i was taught as a child ...awoman is behind the man and the feminist movement putting her on the side destroyed they traditional family | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: guitarslinger44 said: Dude are you for reaL?? This has gotta be some kind of character or something. All the shit this cat says....it's just unbelievable that someone actually believes a lot of this shit! no this is what i was taught as a child ...awoman is behind the man and the feminist movement putting her on the side destroyed they traditional family me too which is why I do get it but I was also taught to be my own person and how to stand on my own from the men in my family... I still get refreshers from the males to this day. | |
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mdiver said: mirrorbestfriend said: But it is a proven and scientific fact that men are stronger and smarter which would seem to me to ordane us as the leader.....
Spats? I know, right? I was thinking the same thing....
Mirrorbestfriend, how do you feel about sacktime and what is your stance on girls' facial expression while performing fellatio? Oh and the literal answer to your question is that the man, if he is a gentleman, should always walk on the curbside (closest to the street) of the sidewalk, beside the woman. | |
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DevotedPuppy said: mdiver said: Spats? I know, right? I was thinking the same thing....
Mirrorbestfriend, how do you feel about sacktime and what is your stance on girls' facial expression while performing fellatio? Oh and the literal answer to your question is that the man, if he is a gentleman, should always walk on the curbside (closest to the street) of the sidewalk, beside the woman. when they doing felatio the lights have to be out so she doesnt embarass herself trying to deal with 19 inches | |
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DevotedPuppy said: mdiver said: Spats? I know, right? I was thinking the same thing....
Mirrorbestfriend, how do you feel about sacktime and what is your stance on girls' facial expression while performing fellatio? Oh and the literal answer to your question is that the man, if he is a gentleman, should always walk on the curbside (closest to the street) of the sidewalk, [b]beside the woman.[/b] that's right... | |
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Christaro said: Is a woman's place behind or on the side of a man?
Well, I am not a woman. Therefore I cannot answer your question. What I do know is that the best place for a man to be is inside a woman. No argument there.  | |
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MsLegs said: Christaro said: Is a woman's place behind or on the side of a man?
Well, I am not a woman. Therefore I cannot answer your question. What I do know is that the best place for a man to be is inside a woman. No argument there. i agree | |
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DevotedPuppy said: mdiver said: Spats? I know, right? I was thinking the same thing....
Mirrorbestfriend, how do you feel about sacktime and what is your stance on girls' facial expression while performing fellatio? Oh and the literal answer to your question is that the man, if he is a gentleman, should always walk on the curbside (closest to the street) of the sidewalk, beside the woman. Hehehehehe i still do that...my s/o always looks at me like "where are you going" when we swap sides of the street | |
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With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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shanti0608 said: Serious said:  You and Valory can both be very happy that you found each other .
Having said that that thread is both very funny and sad .I feel blessed....
TY Serious 
 to you and your man!With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: shanti0608 said: I feel blessed....
TY Serious
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shanti0608 said: Serious said: You and Valory can both be very happy that you found each other .
Having said that that thread is both very funny and sad .I feel blessed....
TY Serious the whopper beat the BIG MAC! [Edited 6/29/07 0:42am] | |
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I decided to keep my mouth shut [Edited 6/29/07 2:14am] With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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