it was a sweet answer

it seems because women have jobs and are allowed to think openly in public in the last 30 years or so that many women feel an equal or MORE than man?

Y'all so smart that you can't even spell ordain.

Yeah, a woman's place should be in the front ass up. Or on top. On top.
On the side. leg up. Men and women should try all the possible positions.

I have always thought very slightly behind and to the right, only because it is my job as the man to protect. However i have learned that the best and only way is beside. I need protecting as much as my other half does from the shit in this world. It is a partnership and now i am letting go and allowing myself to be weak as well as strong....it works. She is just as capable of protecting as me. I like that.

As far as decision making goes well i have a simple idea that the way it works is like this.

In a relationship my focus is her and hers is me.

That way i get my desires fulfilled because she thinks of me and i get my need to give fulfilled because she allows me to give. If we put that in to practise we remove selfishness. Hopefully anyway. That way i truly think any choice can be talked through and a choice made that keeps both happy and secure.

The 50-50 aspect means that long term that is how it works out. I had this exact conversation with Valory last night...how its not 50-50 hour by hour or day by day or even year by year....but in the end..when we are old and grey, we will look back and know we gave as much as we got.

At least that is what i hope and

In answer...i am proud and happy to have an equal by my side.

disgusting .. mama's boys .. who wont grow up and be men ..looking for a female to be their 'mother' ..

why would i want a woman who IS NOT at least as good as my mom?
a woman who gonna have my food on the table
wash and fold my clothes
and fix my lunch in the morning?

You mean you don't share the housework?

A lot of men I know cook, clean, and fix their lunches.

You want a servant or a slave?

of course when i'm off ....but monday -friday the woman is suppose to do that stuff...she gets weekends off

spats buddy, i missed you!

In the kitchen. the answer is in the kitchen.

despite this being a silly troll thread, let me just say that i'd rather be dead than ever let a man control me in any manner even vaguely resembling this again.

I agree. Now go get me a beer, woman!

sure! as long as you don't mind a little something extra in it

That's a Swedish brand of beer, right?

yeah! make sure you drink it all

I like you. you really know how to take care of a man's needs.

Now where's the remote?

you won't be needing to watch tv soon.

No trust me I got this... It is as I said exactly.