We don't know.

First of all, I have to get divorced.

See, this is where the people who know me laugh, and the ones who don't go .

Martin and I are both lazy fuckers who don't care that we're married (never really have) and haven't felt like dealing with the paperwork and expense. Now I for real have to deal with it, even just for a Washington domestic partnership. We suck. I hate being a grownup.

The other thing is, we're going to have to decide whether we are going to wait around and attempt some kind of legal status in Massachusetts, or Canada, or whatever. I don't expect WA to take forever and ever to legalize gay marriage, but. . .probably a few years.

So, yeah. I'm guessing next spring or summer sometime in WA or OR, w/o legal recognition, but we'll see. I will certainly let you know.

Thank you.

Yes, if we have bridesmaids, you can be one.

Or YOU could officiate, since that's too much responsibility for Cloudy.

OMG, I would LOVE to lead your wedding

You know I'd only get halfway through before I drowned both of you with my tears

Wow, this is great news! Your (future) wife is a lucky lady, she's caught herself a very smart, sweet and funny woman. I hope you'll both be very happy.

That would be the cutest thing ever. I'll talk to Mary.

You don't even know how true your words really are. Melissa is the type of girl that has made me wish I could love girls in the way I love men. I would make her my girlfriend in an instant if my dick would cooperate You know the love that you get from her is the most real and the best love there ever could be And she's a goddamned Einstein to boot. Who doesn't love a brilliant girl?

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Thank you, dear. You know I'm with you on that. . . if your dick would cooperate, I've no doubt that you and I woulda been married years ago.

I think it definitely could have been true When I met you at Karen's for the first time, my heart was literally bursting at the seams

Mine too, I was ecstatic.

ouch.

Wait, it gets better! Here's what my best guy friend said:

"Well, my inclination is to question it, given the less-than-stable past. Last time I did that, however, the person got married and hasn't really spoke to me since. Instead, I'll suppose that since I can't hold my own relationships together, than other people must know something I don't. Also, who says it's always more clear looking from the outside in?--perhaps at times it's more readable with all the gooey emotions. So if it makes you happy, then congratulations! (If it doesn't make you happy, picture me giving you a strange look)."




This is why I told the org first.

How is he taking all this? And yes, I was wondering about this issue

Oh my gosh lady!