HereToRockYourWorld said:

I'm starting to believe that men = drama.



well, drama and UTIs

I am so happy for you, Melissa.

Ok, I told my non-org peeps. As expected, Mom was like, "so, you won't really actually be married, right? Well, as always, whatever makes you happy makes us happy."



Well. That's better than what a lot of people would get from their parents under these circumstances.

Mazel tov, beautiful - to the both of you.

But, Melissa, don't forget what happened to the woman who suddenly got everything she always wanted...

Excellent news!!!

I am so happy for you both - it's lovely to read about two people so madly in lover with each other. I wish you a long and happy future together.

Where's my place in all of this?

Aww, that's wonderful, Melissa! Congrats to you!

HereToRockYourWorld said:

ouch.

JasmineFire said:

Wait, it gets better! Here's what my best guy friend said:

"Well, my inclination is to question it, given the less-than-stable past. Last time I did that, however, the person got married and hasn't really spoke to me since. Instead, I'll suppose that since I can't hold my own relationships together, than other people must know something I don't. Also, who says it's always more clear looking from the outside in?--perhaps at times it's more readable with all the gooey emotions. So if it makes you happy, then congratulations! (If it doesn't make you happy, picture me giving you a strange look)."




This is why I told the org first.

Cloudbuster said:

Wanna officiate?

Anxiety said:

We don't know.

First of all, I have to get divorced.

See, this is where the people who know me laugh, and the ones who don't go .

Martin and I are both lazy fuckers who don't care that we're married (never really have) and haven't felt like dealing with the paperwork and expense. Now I for real have to deal with it, even just for a Washington domestic partnership. We suck. I hate being a grownup.

The other thing is, we're going to have to decide whether we are going to wait around and attempt some kind of legal status in Massachusetts, or Canada, or whatever. I don't expect WA to take forever and ever to legalize gay marriage, but. . .probably a few years.

So, yeah. I'm guessing next spring or summer sometime in WA or OR, w/o legal recognition, but we'll see. I will certainly let you know.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

awwwww... all thing considered, it's still nice, though.

never ever would i have dreamed that the thread title "i'm in love with my co worker" would have led us down this road.
just goes to show you that if you want it, make it happen!
congratulations to you both




and a for getting divorced too

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Me in a position of responsibilty?

The two don't mix.

Damn baby!

You SO deserve to be loved into infinity I hope more than anything that this all works out for you and that you can find lasting happiness. I sure the hell am looking for it myself

If you need bridesmaids, am I in?

HAve you cleaned my pic yet?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Thank you.

Yes, if we have bridesmaids, you can be one.

Or YOU could officiate, since that's too much responsibility for Cloudy.