MoniGram said:

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Just use him for sex, forget about anything else with him. Use him until something better comes along.

JustErin said:

Let's just say..we started out as great friends...and in the last year became more. That was my mistake!

JustErin said:

I like the idea of that...I have no complaints in that area!

MoniGram said:

Problem solved!

You know you deserve better so be open to meeting better people, but use him up in the meantime.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Men always do that, but we women somehow most often, accept it as our fault.

JustErin said:

MissMe said:

Exactly!!!! Why is that??

MoniGram said:

No, no. That's not a male thing...that's a people thing. Females do it just as much.

JustErin said:

You really think so?

MoniGram said:

i agree with justerin. women can be just as manipulative in relationships.

MoniGram said:

Absolutely.

JustErin said:

Men, Women, who ever does it...all I know it SUCKS!

because that is in most men's nature to be selfish assholes. And then when you call them out on it, they try to make you feel like YOU are the crazy and deranged one. Child, thats the oldest trick in the book and men are still playing that card.

Sounds like you need to drop his ass, he got way too much drama going on. And if he still wants to deal with his ex, hey let him, then he will be her problem. It's not worth all the stress.

i'd rather be by myself than to stay with a guy who disregards me.

I want to thank each and everyone of my fellow orgers, who gave me some straight up advice, but kind enough not to make me feel like a fool! to you all! I will take every piece of advice I got, and try to get this all figured out!