Diva said:

Diva, I truly do adore you, ya know!

sag10 said:

I don't miss any male friends.

this isn't true of all females, AzureStar. only the shallow selfish ones. i'm sorry you feel this way

XxAxX said:

No, XxAxX, but it has been proven, yet once again, in the same day to me! Go figure!

AnotherLoverHolenYoHead said:

As I adore you (((AnotherLoverHolenYoHead)))

A real friend is some1 who'd stick with u even after he seen your worst!


[This message was edited Wed Sep 25 6:10:00 PDT 2002 by starbuck]

Hey I got this in an email the other day!

Unfortunately it is true with some girls. Most of them are the jealous ones though. And I say FUCK THEM! You're lucky if you have one good friend, and I'm fortunate to have 2 that I can honestly trust with my life.

Women are very very catty, and mostly just out of jealousy. Shame shame.

I've been betrayed/insulted/hurt by both men and women, but women have a much more passive-aggressive way of doing it.
Like CarrieLee said, they (we) are catty.

I've found that my real girl friends are ones that I have had since I was in high school or college, because they don't judge me for doing stupid things. (because they've seen me to do MANY stupid things before and still love me for it!) Meeting quality girl friends after that has been quite a chore, though.

I have found that my best friends have been ones where we never feel the need to compete because we don't have the exact same taste/interests/whatever. Especially in men. Sad, isn't it?

Most of my friends are guys. They don't care about the petty bullshit. I've been this way since highschool and I just have more fun with the guys.

But my friend Jessie, she's is truly my best friend. Wherever we go we always find the fun in it and I have not had one argument with her in our 10 years of friendship. She had gone through some tough times with drug addictions, I was always there and she always listened to me. She may not have agreed with me, but she always listened and tried to see my side. She's like the sister I've never had and more...

i don't know Azure, i have had the diabolical pleasure of entertaining both the bad and the Ugly...

people are people they will justify their deeds according to their true motivations...
if they mean u harm they will do their damndest
some can kill ur gullible ass with kindness (if thats what we call it)
some have no aspirations about u at all and u never hear anything different

some just like the drama - and this is refering to both men and women... keeps ur enemies close - ur friends closer and people just because U are related Doesn't mean they won't spade ur ass***

purplek said:

I agree with you 500%.

Its very hard, imho, to find a woman friend that is loyal and that will not back stab u. they DO exist. i am one of them. i consider myself to b a loyal, caring, honest person when it comes to girlfriends. however i have found only one such friend, and she moved away years ago, and we dont speak any more. the others i've known i couldnt trust further than 20 feet of me. i had a friend i really liked and knew from college for years, we went out together to clubs, babysat each others kids, had lots of good times/laughter together (and even though i knew she was "hot 2 trot" 99% of the time and she wasnt very picky with her choice of men either), i still liked her alot and ignored the fact that she was "a slut", however she didnt really care if she crossed over on my territory, as she made a play for my soon to b ex. of course she didnt get anywhere. if it's one thing my ex was it was "faithful" (he used 2 pride himself on that alot, and with all his other faults, i'd have rather had him cheat instead). so it really didnt affect our friendship. i still like her. but yes i find women to b out 4 themselves mainly & tend 2 b disloyal. (4 the most part) men can b the same if u cross them or u r the one who breaks the relationship 1st. they can b very revengeful.

CarrieLee said:[quote]Most of my friends are guys. They don't care about the petty bullshit. I've been this way since highschool and I just have more fun with the guys.

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ive always known alot of girls like that rather hang out with guys...they always said the same thing other girls were to much drama or they get jealous and trip over petty stuff lol.

I find it interesting that so many women here claim to be such a great friend to their female friends. "Oh, I'm not like that"...lol...I challenge you to really take a good look at yourselves, and think about if there have been female friends you've said less-than-complimentary things about. More than likely, none of us is so innocent.

Right or wrong, when I see women who primarily have male friends, my first inclination is to think that male attention is the most important thing to them rather than the depth of friendship...

mrchristian said:

AnotherLoverHolenYoHead said:

Anotherlover!!! Most of my friends are male! I don't seek attention from them, I just find them more laid back and more fun to hang out with. But then again, I love sports and beer...

The girls I grew up with were way too high maintenance and catty for me. The 2 girlfriends I do have I CHERISH and would do anything for them.

So count me as an exception!

CarrieLee said:

I know girlie, I'm not saying that any of the women here are necessarily like that And this thread has taught me that I should consider that it may be due to bad past experiences that some women prefer male friends. My main points were meant to be that: 1. I think many of us need to think about how good of a friend we really are to others before we accuse others of being disloyal--most of us have faults in that department and 2. sometimes women prefer the company of men because they get more out of male attention than female companionship.

I know you R A W K, CarrieCeeLee!

I must have missed this first time around. What a warm funny thread.

2the9s said:

It's true, men tell it like it is, guess you have to respect them for that.

AzureStar said:

Especially that tramp 2the9s I just don't trust that girl.

Lleena said:

That little ya-ya is the worst!

I've had just about enough of her and her sanctimonious bullshit!