what is porn?

i prefer nature flicks..2 or more humans going at it ..is soooo NATURAL!

2ndRevolution said:

Yes, I did generalize. I don't know of anyone who is into porn that has been able to maintain a long-term relationship. And so far, no one here has said they've been able to, either.

I'm telling you porn cheapens sex, and sex is supposed to be love, so if you inject porn into the equation, you cheapen love.

L4OATheOriginal said:

What EXACTLY is the difference between said "Nature Flicks" and pr0n?

RodeoSchro said:

Porn doesn't cheapen sex, people do. When I was in a relationship, I didn't even look at pr0n. Why look at it and pay for it when I can get it anytime I want and for free, nawmsayin'?

evenstar3 said:

Why would anyone watch porn? For the jokes? The intricate plots? The inspired acting?

Porn is watched because the watcher is lacking either love or, more likely, self esteem.

2ndRevolution said:

Well, it seems you're agreeing with me in some respect. When you're in a healthy relationship, you don't need porn. I think we both agree on that, no?

RodeoSchro said:

Well, it depends. Some couples enjoy watching or making their own together. But my ex...Jesus..I was sinfully attracted to him. There was nothing I could find in porn that turned me on as much as him. But now that I don't have him, porn will do.

RodeoSchro said:

to get off. come on. and let me prove you wrong here by saying that i have been in a long-term relationship that wasn't affected at all by porn. what's more interesting to me here is why you feel the need to belittle other people for enjoying themselves physically. what does self-esteem have to do with anything?

RodeoSchro said:

Have you ever watched porn with a "plot" The "acting"..oh lord...why? As soon as I put the tape or dvd on, there should be ass in my face within the first 4 seconds, or less. If I wanted porn with a plot i'd watch Showtime or Cinemax at night.

2ndRevolution said:

evenstar3 said:

I think this is more about personal demons he has battled in regards to porn than anything else.

You know how some people think that simply because they went through something, everyone else MUST be going through or has gone through it as well?

evenstar3 said:

Hell, does Cinemax even exist anymore? Didn't they get rid of it in the late 90's or something?

RodeoSchro said:

So say WHO? YOU???

How dare you take resonsibility to be the moral authority for everyone on this board, or in the world for that matter.

JustErin said:

OOH!!!!

BURRRRRN!!!

JustErin said:

yup. & i'm just waiting for the 'god says porn is the devil' aspect to pop up, too.

evenstar3 said:

If someone brings that up, I want some distinction, dammit. I want to know if God says making it or watching it is the devil. Shit.

2ndRevolution said:

the simple difference of watching humans mate is not PORNOGRAPHIC ..it's just simple NATURE

L4OATheOriginal said:

Yeah! We've ALL seen the Discovery channel at 4 in the morning.

evenstar3 said:

No disrespect intended, but if you're 20, you haven't been in a long-term relationship.

2ndRevolution said:

time of day makes no difference

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

It is about personal experience. And from the responses everyone has given, it only solidifies in my mind that I am right.

Everyone is free to do what they choose, and I am not being judgemental, just observant. I do truly believe porn cheapens love, and makes a fulfilling longterm relationship pretty much impossible.

And if one doesn't have a fulfilling longterm relationship, where does one end up?

Alone.

Ottensen said:

Yes, so says me. I have been down that road and I know where it leads.

You are free to choose your own road. I am just offering my experience and hope it helps you make a good choice.

evenstar3 said:

You'll have to bring that up yourself, because I won't.

2ndRevolution said:

LOL, you really think someone could be in a longterm relationship by the age of 20? Maybe in Tennessee or Kentucky, I guess...j/k.

JustErin said:

Particularly if they have the gall to begin a sentence with the phrase, 'I'm telling you..'in which case the only thing one is telling me is that they are speaking from slanted, biased, blinded experience without the benefit of enlightenment .

Ottensen said:

Define "enlightenment" with respect to watching porn.

RodeoSchro said:

Okay -

RodeoSchro said:

Yeah, my grandparents who've together since they were 17, and are now 89 and 90, God Bless them.

RodeoSchro said:

i suppose it depends on what you consider long-term. care to define? also, care to answer the other questions?