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Dumper/Dumpee? In your life, have you been mainly dumped from relationships, or do you do the dumping?
in my teens and early twenties I was invariably dumped. This distorted my musical tastes to the point where I started buying Rollins Band albums. And boy, did they feel good. then towards my late twenties, it flipped over, I suppose as I got more confident. I tend to do the finishing these days So, on balance its about 50/50 for me, dumped/dumper. u? | |
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Given your rep i thought this was a scat thread | |
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Me too | |
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shanti0608 said: Me too
And yet we both clicked | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: Me too
And yet we both clicked It must have been the "bye-bye poops" | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: And yet we both clicked It must have been the "bye-bye poops" | |
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I've always been the dumper cept for one time.
Both suck. | |
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mdiver said: Given your rep i thought this was a scat thread
i have a rep for scat?! | |
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LittleSmedley said: mdiver said: Given your rep i thought this was a scat thread
i have a rep for scat?! More for bad threads | |
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mdiver said: LittleSmedley said: i have a rep for scat?! More for bad threads oh that's ok then i don't want my penchant for scat coming out at this stage | |
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LittleSmedley said: mdiver said: More for bad threads oh that's ok then i don't want my penchant for scat coming out at this stage | |
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Dumpee. | |
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It is 50/50 for me | |
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Dumped- 5
got dumped- 2 Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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Never been dumped, but I don't give a lot of people chances either | |
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Honest answer? (I would much prefer to write out a full-blown essay with all the details as, that way, I wouldn't come across as an arrogant, pompous cock; but I don't have time for that).
So, in short: mostly the 'dumper'. But that's a horrible term. I have never 'dumped' anyone as such; we have just brought this to a close, I guess. And always remained on good terms. And I've never been dumped; just had people I like not interested in me. And that's not the same thing, is it?? The fools. . [Edited 6/16/07 5:47am] | |
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CalhounSq said: Never been dumped, but I don't give a lot of people chances either
Scrap my last answer - you just said it for me. | |
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Always been dumped. and I'm not going to change that. | |
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onenitealone said: CalhounSq said: Never been dumped, but I don't give a lot of people chances either
Scrap my last answer - you just said it for me. Me too .... | |
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shanti0608 said: onenitealone said: Scrap my last answer - you just said it for me. Me too .... I know I have rejection/trust issues. And a skewed sense of self-worth. (Hey pops! ) Plus I can be incredibly shy when I like someone. But I also don't meet the types of guys I go for. And I will not 'settle' for just anything - I'd rather stay single, in that case. Complicated. | |
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onenitealone said: shanti0608 said: Me too .... I know I have rejection/trust issues. And a skewed sense of self-worth. (Hey pops! ) Plus I can be incredibly shy when I like someone. But I also don't meet the types of guys I go for. And I will not 'settle' for just anything - I'd rather stay single, in that case. Complicated. You seem pretty lovely to me. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want. | |
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shanti0608 said: You seem pretty lovely to me. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want.
Valory!! Thank you. I forgot to mention that I have perfected the art of looking a million times' more confident than I really am (which sometimes scares guys away. I can't win ). But if it happens, it happens. You can't force the situation. Thank you, though. It is nice to see you so happy, too. | |
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onenitealone said: shanti0608 said: You seem pretty lovely to me. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want.
Valory!! Thank you. I forgot to mention that I have perfected the art of looking a million times' more confident than I really am (which sometimes scares guys away. I can't win ). But if it happens, it happens. You can't force the situation. Thank you, though. It is nice to see you so happy, too. Well I would have been much happier if I had the chance to meet you while I was on holiday. Hopefully someday soon I will get to meet you in person and give you a great big hug!! I would not be so hard on yourself- you are a great person and you deserve the best | |
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Ex-Moderator | about 50/50. |
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CarrieMpls said: about 50/50.
You've dumped 50 people and been dumped 50 times??? Slut | |
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Ex-Moderator | ArielB said: CarrieMpls said: about 50/50.
You've dumped 50 people and been dumped 50 times??? Slut i.. er... |
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shanti0608 said: Well I would have been much happier if I had the chance to meet you while I was on holiday. Hopefully someday soon I will get to meet you in person and give you a great big hug!!
I would not be so hard on yourself- you are a great person and you deserve the best Thank you - I really do appreciate the kind words. And I *really* hope we get to meet next time you're over! Thanks, love. | |
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onenitealone said: shanti0608 said: Well I would have been much happier if I had the chance to meet you while I was on holiday. Hopefully someday soon I will get to meet you in person and give you a great big hug!!
I would not be so hard on yourself- you are a great person and you deserve the best Thank you - I really do appreciate the kind words. And I *really* hope we get to meet next time you're over! Thanks, love. well we need to make it happen | |
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Its evened itself out in recent years. There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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JDInteractive said: Its evened itself out in recent years.
yeah.. I would say in my 20s. dumpee and in my 30s dumper.. I hate both situations anyway I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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