In your life, have you been mainly dumped from relationships, or do you do the dumping?

in my teens and early twenties I was invariably dumped. This distorted my musical tastes to the point where I started buying Rollins Band albums. And boy, did they feel good.

then towards my late twenties, it flipped over, I suppose as I got more confident. I tend to do the finishing these days

So, on balance its about 50/50 for me, dumped/dumper.

u?

Given your rep i thought this was a scat thread

Me too

shanti0608 said:

And yet we both clicked

mdiver said:

It must have been the "bye-bye poops"

shanti0608 said:

I've always been the dumper cept for one time.

Both suck.

mdiver said:

i have a rep for scat?!

LittleSmedley said:

More for bad threads

mdiver said:

oh that's ok then i don't want my penchant for scat coming out at this stage

LittleSmedley said:

Dumpee.

It is 50/50 for me

Dumped- 5
got dumped- 2

Never been dumped, but I don't give a lot of people chances either

Honest answer? (I would much prefer to write out a full-blown essay with all the details as, that way, I wouldn't come across as an arrogant, pompous cock; but I don't have time for that).

So, in short: mostly the 'dumper'. But that's a horrible term. I have never 'dumped' anyone as such; we have just brought this to a close, I guess. And always remained on good terms.

And I've never been dumped; just had people I like not interested in me. And that's not the same thing, is it?? The fools.


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CalhounSq said:

Scrap my last answer - you just said it for me.

Always been dumped. and I'm not going to change that.

onenitealone said:

Me too ....

shanti0608 said:

I know I have rejection/trust issues. And a skewed sense of self-worth. (Hey pops! ) Plus I can be incredibly shy when I like someone. But I also don't meet the types of guys I go for. And I will not 'settle' for just anything - I'd rather stay single, in that case.

Complicated.

onenitealone said:

You seem pretty lovely to me. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want.

shanti0608 said:

Valory!! Thank you. I forgot to mention that I have perfected the art of looking a million times' more confident than I really am (which sometimes scares guys away. I can't win ). But if it happens, it happens. You can't force the situation.

Thank you, though. It is nice to see you so happy, too.

onenitealone said:

Well I would have been much happier if I had the chance to meet you while I was on holiday. Hopefully someday soon I will get to meet you in person and give you a great big hug!!
I would not be so hard on yourself- you are a great person and you deserve the best

about 50/50.

CarrieMpls said:

You've dumped 50 people and been dumped 50 times???

Slut

ArielB said:

i.. er...

shanti0608 said:

Thank you - I really do appreciate the kind words. And I *really* hope we get to meet next time you're over!

Thanks, love.

onenitealone said:

well we need to make it happen

Its evened itself out in recent years.

JDInteractive said:

yeah.. I would say in my 20s. dumpee

and in my 30s dumper..



I hate both situations anyway