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PrintableREDFEATHERS said: JDInteractive said: Its evened itself out in recent years.
yeah.. I would say in my 20s. dumpee and in my 30s dumper.. 
I hate both situations anyway Its worse being dumped for sure. There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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JDInteractive said: REDFEATHERS said: yeah.. I would say in my 20s. dumpee and in my 30s dumper..
I hate both situations anyway Its worse being dumped for sure. Yeah, especially when it is so unexpected..  I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F.  | |
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CalhounSq said: Never been dumped, but I don't give a lot of people chances either
 I don't really give to many chances either haha. I've been the dumper to all my boyfriends but one. I know that sounds bad, but I'm afraid of boys I guess. and I get bored easily.  | |
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I think I've only dumped like 3 of my bfs. The rest all gave me the boot...even when I was really unhappy I usually didn't break up with them. I'm not sure why that is. | |
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I've hated dumping each and every girlfriend... but that didn't stop me from doing it.
I tend to get dumped by not-yet-girlfriends -- though I've dumped a fair number of those, too.  [Edited 6/16/07 20:06pm] | |
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mdiver said: Given your rep i thought this was a scat thread
 OH SHIT! ME too!http://prince.org/msg/100/263154?&pg=2
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JustErin said: I think I've only dumped like 3 of my bfs. The rest all gave me the boot...even when I was really unhappy I usually didn't break up with them. I'm not sure why that is.
Give me a chance, and you can dump me and get the balance more even.  | |
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50/50 | |
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Just clicked to see if this thread went where I thought it would. | |
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I mastered the art of dumping thru getting dumped....I used to make minor changes to my attitude and disposition....became slightly aloof....or easily agitated....until they'd dump me...
...that way, I'd be out of a relationship...with the added advantage of being able to play the "wounded wolf" role, since I was always dumped.....  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above...
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reneGade20 said: I mastered the art of dumping thru getting dumped....I used to make minor changes to my attitude and disposition....became slightly aloof....or easily agitated....until they'd dump me...
...that way, I'd be out of a relationship...with the added advantage of being able to play the "wounded wolf" role, since I was always dumped..... i've done that | |
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onenitealone said: shanti0608 said: You seem pretty lovely to me. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want.
 Valory!!  Thank you. I forgot to mention that I have perfected the art of looking a million times' more confident than I really am (which sometimes scares guys away. I can't win  ). But if it happens, it happens. You can't force the situation.
Thank you, though. It is nice to see you so happy, too.  Alun, was disappointed not to see you on "Cardiff Singer of the World 2007" yesterday...Thought u'd be there, doing a rendition of "Lipstick, Powder & Paint" with a harpsichord and bassoon accompaniment
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i'm typically the dumper, and i hate it. i'd rather be the dumpee, because it's easier to impose my pain on other people and have them buy me drinks and dinners while spending lots of time calling my ex an asshole. as the dumper, i AM the asshole. that's no fun. no free drinks there. of course, there's that whole reclaimed freedom/autonomy thing, but whatever. autonomy's not going to take me out to dinner, is it? | |
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LittleSmedley said: Alun, was disappointed not to see you on "Cardiff Singer of the World 2007" yesterday...Thought u'd be there, doing a rendition of "Lipstick, Powder & Paint" with a harpsichord and bassoon accompaniment
did they have the wrong type of mineral water in your dressing room again? Smedley...
Yes, those cretins I pay to do these things painted my room the WRONG shade of white AGAIN. And they forgot the lillies and daschunds.  Idiots!!
They wanna come round my bathroom and hear my rendition of the Ballad Of Dorothy Parker... I'll be taking that title home next year. 
To be honest, I am sorta eating my words at the moment, after what happened Saturday night  - I am not just saying this, I honestly wondered whether posting on this thread cursed me.  All I can say is that pulling 22 years olds is NOT necessarily good for the ego sometimes. I have never felt as old and rancid in my entire life. Big mistake. | |
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Anxiety said: i'm typically the dumper, and i hate it. i'd rather be the dumpee, because it's easier to impose my pain on other people and have them buy me drinks and dinners while spending lots of time calling my ex an asshole. as the dumper, i AM the asshole. that's no fun. no free drinks there. of course, there's that whole reclaimed freedom/autonomy thing, but whatever. autonomy's not going to take me out to dinner, is it?
God, you sound like one of my mates who's joined an internet dating site. She has literally been on about 60 dates now and still not met anyone she liked.
I asked her what the worst aspect of it was and she said "Talking about the same things - "What do you do?" "What are you into?" "What music do you like?" - over and over again". I gotta admit, that sounds like some Groundhog Day-type hell to me. 
The best bit? "Free drinks and meals". 
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onenitealone said: Anxiety said: i'm typically the dumper, and i hate it. i'd rather be the dumpee, because it's easier to impose my pain on other people and have them buy me drinks and dinners while spending lots of time calling my ex an asshole. as the dumper, i AM the asshole. that's no fun. no free drinks there. of course, there's that whole reclaimed freedom/autonomy thing, but whatever. autonomy's not going to take me out to dinner, is it?
God, you sound like one of my mates who's joined an internet dating site. She has literally been on about 60 dates now and still not met anyone she liked.
I asked her what the worst aspect of it was and she said "Talking about the same things - "What do you do?" "What are you into?" "What music do you like?" - over and over again". I gotta admit, that sounds like some Groundhog Day-type hell to me.
The best bit? "Free drinks and meals".
. [Edited 6/18/07 6:20am] well, i'm very happy now, and i agree - i HATE blind date/first date scenarios. i was talking more about friends taking me out for dinner as a form of sympathy, then getting drunk and talking shit about the ex. see, when you're dumped people will do that for you. when you're the dumper, all you get is a bunch of hang-up calls! | |
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Anxiety said: well, i'm very happy now, and i agree - i HATE blind date/first date scenarios. i was talking more about friends taking me out for dinner as a form of sympathy, then getting drunk and talking shit about the ex. see, when you're dumped people will do that for you. when you're the dumper, all you get is a bunch of hang-up calls!
Sorry, I know.  It just reminded me of that.
I guess there is more sympathy reserved for the dumpee than the dumpers. YOU HEARTLESS BASTARDS!!
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