But then I realized that I should wait until it's the right time. If I decide that I would have children now, then I would be sooo unprepared. I won't even think about the prospect of that until I am mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially prepared for it.

Another thing I thought about was this: we live in a pretty fucked up world, honestly. I don't wanna introduce my own flesh and blood into a world of pain and suffering. But it may all change tomorrow.

But for now I've still got some growing up to do myself. There's still so much to learn and see and do in the world.

I think you need to find a partner and have sex first

So I guess my recent statement of my relationship and loss of virginty went over everyone's heads, eh?

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[Edited 6/13/07 14:10pm]

recent statement where? when? what, here on the org? is there a link? cause I totally missed that news

statuesqque said:

Well if you missed it then...too bad. But that's the word, yo.

Well, well well¨... Mr. Can't-Get-Laid got laid AND a girlfriend?
Congrats man!

I guess this means that there IS hope for ME.

NWF said:

I'm trying to figure out how I missed it? Last I read it was still the twelve page I can't get laid thread... jus sayin... but mad props to ya...

statuesqque said:

I stated in one of these threads somewhere that I'm too lazy to look up now that I'm no longer a virgin for the record.

But that's besides the point of THIS thread. I'm talking about why I won't have children.

NWF said:

true, having children is not something to be taken lightly and if you feel your not ready just than you shouldn't. but you know, sometimes having children can make people grow into the role when they never thought or didn't think they ever would.

NWF said:

My world would crumble if I had to take care of a child now. I don't hate kids, I'd just feel overwhelmed having to have a life in my hands. Maintaining my own life is scary.

Do yourself a favor and don't do it.

I dont want children and people think I'm crazy;like I'm SUPPOSED to have them.

I have NEVER wanted children. I thought about it for a second.Then thoughts of my child becoming a criminal helped me change my mind again.

I'll tell you a secret, you'll never be totally ready for children the best thing to do is have them before it's too late and learn as you go like everybody else. Never say you don't want to bring a child into this messed up world, because that child may someday become a great leader.

NWF said:

there are so many ppl who dont know this.. you have the insight already to see the responsibility of family and dont let anyone.. not even family ... pressure you into having kids.. or getting married..

wlcm2thdwn said:

u never know anything about this world. there are too many variables. i didn't know how many couples wanted children and couldn't have any or it cost up to $50k to get an egg fertilized (i know some orgers would do it for free ). it was weird at times when couples found out we had three in 5 years and they just wanted to have 1.

it is a mission and u do things because of love. for some, it is the hardest thing in the world. i love my "Anamaniacs"

I wouldnt mind kids. I think I've done enough partying, boozing etc.. to last me a lifetime. But you know, gotta find someone first.

There is nothing better then hearing my little 4 year old, in her little 4 year old voice say "Hi! Best Mommy in the world!" when I come home from work each day.

I think it's a very personal choice for each individual deciding to become parents.

NWF said:

Glad you are thinking about the whole picture before having them, very important

NWF said:

wooooah slow down, Thw Wavester, slow down..! u don't need to think about kids yet

one boff and he's off

NWF said:

Impossible What woman would put up with your whiny ass?

I still think NWF is Digital Lisa

wlcm2thdwn said:

Couldn't have said it better myself.

ThreadCula said:

What in the sam hell??

REDFEATHERS said:

I'm sorry but that cracks me the HELL up every time I read it.

Red...

Flowerz said:

RodeoSchro said:

agreed..you can never be completely prepared in every aspect of your life for having children..but like WTTD said...it's a learn as you go..and you do..I know I do everyday..as a parent to a total of 6, it's always something!!

NWF said:

See what happens when I'm away from the org for two weeks? I miss all the good stuff.