For those of you who already know about this crush I have on a woman at work, My "girl crush" has invited me to a wine festival this weekend (you know I love my wine). I've said in past posts that this is the first time that I have ever been attracted to a woman and I think that she might have figured me out.

Lately, she's has made some efforts to make sure that she sits next to me at meetings, and always wants to come with me when I have to go anywhere away from the office; Even if I don't need any help or anything.

A few weeks ago she was asking me about how I have been dealing with my 5 years of celibacy..... (perhaps she wants to end my streak????)

Anyway I told her that when the mood suits me, I masturbate and think about who'd I like to do. She played innocent with the whole, "do you do this or do you use that" kind of questions. She asked me who I'd like to do and I said nothing. I looked at the ground and smiled. So this weekend I plan to make my move.

Uh, any suggestions on what move I should make?

I am laughing so hard as I am typing this because I can remember some heated discussions with some homosexual orgers about whether ..ah well forget it.

Annywho, I like keeping you all posted because this is not a subject that I am comfortable with the idea of mentioning to anyone I am particularly close to.
[Edited 5/14/07 17:43pm]

Wait! What if she see's you as a potential best friend? I mean it could be possible. This is confussing even to me!

Wowie wow wow wow. She seems to be interested in you, but I'm just a horny guy so alot of things seem that way to me.

did u imply that u think of her when you jack it?

do you think you have been celibate because you weren't attracted to men and didn't know if being gay was an option?

i have a deep and abiding interest in this thread.

Paradisekiss03 said:

i don't want to be her best friend. I have a best friend. i want to suck her clitoris until my jaw hurts.

And what is worse is she is always complaining about how men are always just wanting to sleep with her and never want to get to know her. She's a little on the puritanical side. She's 29 and has only had sex with 2 people.

So now I am no better than these men. I don't want to use her just for my own satisfaction. I honestly want to make her cum until she just can't anymore. She is so sweet and has told me that both her sexual encounters were dissatisfying. So, uh, I am really trying to uh, help this girl.

live4lust said:

lol. I have nooooo idea how to answer this question!!!!!

I was really hot for my kid's dad. He made me feel beautiful and sexy and he used me and he has been dead for 4 years. Maybe I feel to this woman as a way what?>>>dealing with hurt feelings from that relationship?

alwayslate said:

you in deep, girl! gotta love crushes.

alwayslate said:

At least you know what you want

live4lust said:

I can tell.

she has to be interested in you. i wouldn't act like that with another girl unless i was.

evenstar3 said:

That is what I am thinking...sounds good to me.

evenstar3 said:

evenstar3 said:

I think she might be interested in you.

live4lust said:

guys

I will keep my x rated comments and experiences to orgnotes.

Paradisekiss03 said:

Yeah...or hella curious!

Since this thread is on the cusp of getting hot,
I will be busting my "Suscribe to this topic" cherry wid it.

But don't worry about me getting my hopes too high y'all.
I'm mature enough to know that it may very well end with the same dissappointing results as when I had my "material" one popped.
[Edited 5/15/07 17:57pm]

ThreadCula said:

Yup.

live4lust said:

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Illustrator said:

Illustrator said:

damn, i just got pwned. my response was about how i didn't understand yours.

alwayslate said:

wow.....i gotta take care of something.....

late night phone call..... well well well.

alwayslate said:

what happened?!

alwayslate said:

Do tell...hehehehe

So you never actually saw the look in her eyes at this moment?


I don't know, I would be cautious about this, it is your workplace and if your wrong things could get really uncomfortable for both of you.

Next time make sure you look in her eyes to see if is lust or curiosity of lifestyle on her mind.

Just be careful of mixed signals here.

1) this is one of the hottest threads ever on this org.
2) she's interested in you..she's flirting. perhaps she's bi/gay curious herself
3) ask her if she would want to hang with you this weekend..go shopping..go to starbucks..whatever. let things develop as they will..i wouldnt script it out too much, because then if you go off script you'll be unhappy
4) inaction will lead to a life filled with coulda/woulda/shoulda