I have a vivid imagination. I have a filthy and very talented mouth. Some women have to act like porn stars. Others just are.

Why is it men expect women to be porn stars in bed??

They do ?

Mach said:

That was my reaction as well.


Personally I expect men to be pornstars in bed, but I've never had anyone complain about/ask for more from me.

Sweeny79 said:

I can't tell you how many male friends I know that complain that the women they get with just lay there and make no effort at all. In fact, it's guys that pretty much do all the physical work.

God bless 'em.
[Edited 6/3/07 8:59am]

JustErin said:

It's true that men do do most of the hard labor involved, but women shouldn't be just a masterbation aid either. We should do some work.

JustErin said:

It's true that men do do most of the hard labor involved, but women shouldn't be just a masterbation aid either. We should do some work.

Sweeny79 said:

How so? I'm always on top, in some form or another. I burn more calories.

How so? I'm always on top, in some form or another. I burn more calories.

Mach said:

That was my reaction as well.


Personally I expect men to be pornstars in bed, but I've never had anyone complain about/ask for more from me.

xplnyrslf said:

Gah, I can't do that these days...well comfortably anyway. I'm far too insecure right now.

xplnyrslf said:

Maybe you need to vary your positions then and let him take you from behind..

Sweeny79 said:

I think this irritating xplnyrslf has a rather limited experience of men.
She should try and get out more.

JustErin said:

I never GOT what the big deal with being on top was until like a year ago, when I came for the first time on top.

I was SO proud of myself cuz before that I was only a bottom.

Woah.

Erin. STFU!

xplnyrslf said:

Maybe you need to vary your positions then and let him take you from behind..

xplnyrslf said:

Gah, I can't do that these days...well comfortably anyway. I'm far too insecure right now.

In bed,
I expect my porn stars to be women.

If I'm not allowed that,
well then,
I guess the terrorists have won.

In bed,
I expect my porn stars to be women.

If I'm not allowed that,
well then,
I guess the terrorists have won.

JustErin said:

Allow me to xpln.....after foreplay and you're really wet, roll him over and straddle. Get on your haunches. Slip it in. Go down so the head of the penis is on your cervix.(Kinsley couldn't be more wrong about women not getting stimulation from THERE) Just do circles so you feel comfortable with the position. Then start sliding it in and out. Whatever angle stimulates your clitoris. You can move forward or get up on it and position the pelvis for deep penetration and grind. Then just move up and down.....increasing the rhythm. and penetration....this starts out as slow and easy, then whatever suits the need. Along with it all, have breast stimulation. Being on top is great for that. you can take his hands and direct him.
Another idea, is put your legs straight forward, that feels great, too. Deeper penetration.... Or put them straight back and lay ontop of him. It's a matter of where the penis hits the cervix and clitoris...
Any questions??

JustErin said:

Allow me to xpln.....after foreplay and you're really wet, roll him over and straddle. Get on your haunches. Slip it in. Go down so the head of the penis is on your cervix.(Kinsley couldn't be more wrong about women not getting stimulation from THERE) Just do circles so you feel comfortable with the position. Then start sliding it in and out. Whatever angle stimulates your clitoris. You can move forward or get up on it and position the pelvis for deep penetration and grind. Then just move up and down.....increasing the rhythm. and penetration....this starts out as slow and easy, then whatever suits the need. Along with it all, have breast stimulation. Being on top is great for that. you can take his hands and direct him.
Another idea, is put your legs straight forward, that feels great, too. Deeper penetration.... Or put them straight back and lay ontop of him. It's a matter of where the penis hits the cervix and clitoris...
Any questions??
[Edited 6/3/07 15:45pm]

Illustrator said:

When's the last time you had a woman??

xplnyrslf said:

Yes, what do I do with the hard on I just got?

xplnyrslf said:

Yes, what do I do with the hard on I just got?

xplnyrslf said:

I know what being on top is all about, I am well versed in that position (but I must also say that slow and easy is never my style).

It's just that I'm not comfortable with the way I look right now so I don't like being up there on display like that.

But I think you just made quite a few orgers blow their loads on their computer screens.

xplnyrslf said:

When I was at a kegger/monster truck rally.
At least, I'm praying to God that it was a woman.
There's a slight chance that might have been that blonde guy from Brooks & Dunn.

JustErin said:

Well, never start out with a bang....! It doesn't matter how you look it's the FEEL and your partner will love you being in control and not thinking about how you look at all.. Men get off easy enough and if you want to extend the process, slow and easy does it. Fast and hard is where mutual orgasms occur after time being spent enjoying the sensations....

xplnyrslf said:

Well, my on top goes a little differently than yours. Even on top I am never in control. I've usually got my arms pinned behind my back, or being held by my hair while....ya...I better not say anymore.