xplnyrslf said:

REDFEATHERS said:

I NEVER said sex is crap. Far from it. I'm not refering to active physical sex.....the preliminary atmosphere...
Women do more. Something as simple as a sexy thong with chains, a heart on the backside, or whatnot.. Men love the IDEA of sex but woman do alot more for the stimulating factors. I'm obviously on another planet...sheesh

xplnyrslf said:

I dont agree

REDFEATHERS said:

I dont see many music videos where men are dancing around in sexy thongs....back to the necrophilia....

xplnyrslf said:

you DO realise music videos and porno movies arent real life dont you?

xplnyrslf said:

REDFEATHERS said:

True dat...
I'm sure the makers of Cristal champagne and jay-z would disagree...


Jay-z had a dispute with an executive/owner of Cristal, so he no longer displays that champagne in his videos. If he had a dispute with a woman, would he eliminate the babes in his videos?? Hell No!
[Edited 6/2/07 0:54am]

xplnyrslf said:

I think you are taking it all out of context.

I so need to get laid.....SOON!

abierman said:

Sexy lingerie, chocolate sauce, handcuffs, karma sutra possitions and all that good stuff dont strike me as Porn Star things...just normal things in the course of foreplay, sex and titillation.....that being said, when it comes to guys wanting things that appear in these movies like threesomes, orgies, the old double adaptor and sticking their penis up ure butt nevermind a vegetable and all the un-necessary panting and screaming " Oh god yes oooh oooh ahhh"( As opposed to the realistic moaning and screaming lol) if he even touches u, that can stay in the damn movie!!!

I'm different, I expect them to be porn stars on the floor.

Hell, I expect myself to be a porn star in bed so I hadn't even thought about THEM

not all men do. those who need fantasy to escape the pressures of life do.
there is a sense of lack of inhibitions exhibited by porn stars. the willingness to do "anything, anywhere, anytime", versus the morals and ethics of society. escapism into porn fantasies allows the viewer to suspend the stress of mortgages, work, even interacting with one's wife/partner.
Another aspect has to do with the "oh yeah baby do that oh god your so good"
dialogue porn stars are given to recite. Men project themselves as being those fantastic lovers, desired by "hot" women. Again, to make them feel good about themselves. Porn involves nudity, and what better way to feel accepted, than when nude...?...when totally naked and exposeD?...it's a self image thing.
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Mach said:

I'm sorry, but that right there sounds like just about the TASTIEST sex a person could ever have. You are blessed, Darlin'

xplnyrslf said:

Then honey you might need to get a different partner!

...gosh you just brought memories flooding back of this tasty Japanese man I loved once...WHOO GOOD GOD that man was talented between the sheets! Now that I reminisce on those moments, do you know that to this DAY I still remember...

ok whatever, excuse me while I go have a cigarette break

Ottensen said:

Ottensen said:

I am deeply blessed ( out of the bedroom as well !! ) I know I am and I am very greatful

Thank you

REDFEATHERS said:

No, I'm not. Many music vids have poolside scenes with hot women in bikinis drinking champagne. It's believable that musicians actually have had a pool party or two. Hugh Hefner does and he's eleventy.....

chillichocaholic said:

Yes, and those things develope over time. If you stopped doing those things, would your partner notice??
I draw the line on swinging from the ceiling, as seen in "Sex and the City".

Ottensen said:

That's the healthiest attitude posted.....

jerseykrs said:

You'd probably like the swingset in the bedroom....

xplnyrslf said:

Again thats not the norm.. musicians videos/lifestyle, porno movies and hugh hefners lifestyle and parties is not how the everyday person lives
Trying to compare ones sex life to what you perceive theirs to be, is very unheathly and totally unrealistic.

xplnyrslf said:

1)Change who you're having sex with because I've been with men and I didn't have to move. They took care of me
2)Somethings are done by women because men, in some cases, are more visual so to get him fired up, a woman who wants to turn him on....puts on the thong. 1+1=2. I will say again that I know men that bring the handcuffs....feel me.

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JustErin said:

Gotta go with Erin on this one. There are quite a few like that.

evenstar3 said:

I love that video That and the Sin video

Rhondab said:

Hello! That's What I'M talking 'bout !!!


I mean, um, yeah... what she said

evenstar3 said:

Oh god yes.

I have a vivid imagination. I have a filthy and very talented mouth. Some women have to act like porn stars. Others just are.