So, I met this girl at a screening awhile back. And we've hung out a few times, sometimes with friends and sometimes just us. She calls and messages me alot. But...

While I like her, I'm not physically attracted to her in the slightest. She actually reminds me of a family member and that thought is stuck in my head whenever I see her. She hasn't said anything that would make it clear she wants to go out with me in a serious way--just a vibe I get from talking to her and her insistence on hanging out together. And we're supposed to see "Knocked Up" tomorrow night, which is a date film if ever there was one.

My question is: Should I somehow make it clear that we're just friends and a relationship is never gonna happen or never address the subject and hope she gets the picture? I've never had a girl come after me like this. Usually it's the other way around.

make it clear that you're friends. bad things usually happen if you don't.

Ask her..."what do u want from me?!"

ThreadCula said:

It's almost getting to that point.

live4lust said:

Make sure your pecker's tucked neatly away when you ask that question

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Tucked away where?

ThreadCula said:

I have a few suggestions but lust aint attracted to me either

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I am an attention whore, though.

live4lust said:

HA HA! Thats the problem. She knows u like the attention. So she's giving it to ya. Be careful,soon Big Mama will be your wife.

ThreadCula said:

live4lust said:

lol U said she reminds u of a family member,Grand Ma,Auntie Bertha...Big Mama came to mind....sorry

I wouldn't bother bringing it up.

Just enjoy her company and if you're not into her or attracted to her nothing that you don't want to happen will happen.

JustErin said:

good point.

evenstar3 said:

I agree.....prehaps do it in a round about way though ....maybe mentioning how nice it is to have females (such as herself) as friends
She won't feel like she has been rejected that way (which will help the continued friendship) and u will know she knows u don't think of her in that way

live4lust said:

Been that, done there.

The latter.

evenstar3 said:

oh hes already had the morning after im sure

Update:

Things went fine. I didn't bring it up except in passing i called her my movie buddy. BTW, line cutting is big at the Grove. Almost thought there was gonna be a throwdown there. Bastids.

Judd Appatow was actually there to see the reaction to his film, I guess. My friend ran into him in the hallway.