Seasons change, time doesn't stop, people age, AND GAIN WEIGHT!!

How will you confront the issue of your spouse/partner getting well...OUT OF SHAPE??

I'd convince them to play tennis and swim with me regularly. If that shit can tone me down the way it did, it can help anyone.

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seriously though TR is a thinner man

I"M THE FATTY

Murder/suicide.

JustErin said:

INSATIABLE said:

Pics please.

Mach said:

JustErin said:

I'll go with more sex, please.

DexMSR said:

You think she's joking

I'm not too concerned about weight issues but recently I saw someone I used to bang around with and he gained probably 50 - 75 pounds and I don't give a shit about an extra 20 or 30 but I couldn't barely hug him anymore and it kind of tripped me out But he still had a hot beautiful face

Lothan said:

Come play. When I come to Chicago I'll bring my racquets. It's good sweaty fun and feels great. The only reason I stop my sessions is when my lungs can't take it anymore. Why did I buy a gym membership?

INSATIABLE said:

I actually dig tennis even though I suck at it.

I can think of more interesting ways you and I can work out.

If you really love them, it shouldn't matter how much they weigh. If it affects their health, then you need to talk about it.

Ive always had a big Ol' butt, whether Im 100lbs or 150lbs. My butt will never go away, which is a problem. If I dont walk, or workout in some way, well lets say, someone has to follow me with a red wagon!!!

Well, here is what NOT to say. "I love you and you are almost perfect, but I can never marry you because I think you are only going to get bigger and I won't love you anymore."

Thanks for reminding me. It is time to move his body again!!

The guy who said it right said something like, "I hate working out and I need you to support me and motivate me to go to the gym. It would really help me stay focused if you would workout with me until I get into a good routine." Forty pounds later and lighter I was ADDICTED to the gym. He can still cash in a "coochie coupon" whenever he wants just for giving me a jump start.

Lothan said:

Water polo?

INSATIABLE said:

You are ruining my horniess.

Lothan said:

I can think of nothing that makes me hornier than wet balls

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

JediTodd said:

I like big butts and I can not lie
You other brothers can't deny
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
And a round thing in your face
You get sprung
Wanna pull up tough
Cuz you notice that butt was stuffed
Deep in the jeans she's wearing
I'm hooked and I can't stop staring
Oh, baby I wanna get with ya
And take your picture
My homeboys tried to warn me
But that butt you got
Make Me so horney

mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said:

I think that's the real issue that's the deal breaker. Don't know many into big jiggly belly.

MBlaineEverywhere said:

"coochie coupon"... I'm gonna print some out

CalhounSq said:

love and support is always a good thing.

sex is good exercise and I'm always thinner in a relationship.....

and I'm single....so you do the math

I never had any complaints, as a matter of a fact my ex thought I was more attractive as I got older and wider.....Go figure

I'm not taking it too well.

We're going to start going swimming soon. That's the most sensitive I get.

EverSoulicious said:

Now where do I find a partner like that

veronikka said:

He's single now.....want his number?

EverSoulicious said:

I totally missed that it said ex

morningsong said:

However do you really want someone who is bean pole thin? Someone who can litterally fly away with the wind if it blows to hard. I am all for being healthy, and proper weight. However, in today's society there is way to much pressure on women to look as thin as possible and ya know what that is not healthy either. This shit get fed into our brain starting at a young age and it warps little girls image of their bodies. Its no wonder we have so many cases of young girls and sometimes older women with eating disorders. My best advice to you Dex is to be gentle and tackful because for lots of women this can be a very sensitive subject. Also you know what she has curves, who cares, embrace her for what she is and support her when she feels the need to better herself.

DexMSR said:

I don't have a man right now, but I gained 4 pounds.

Paradisekiss03 said:

Ohh heaven forbid...4 pounds....just kidding.

mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said:

i agree totally.. more ounce to the bounce