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PrintableHereToRockYourWorld said: NDRU said: 
This brings up another question. How/why are lesbians attracted to them? I hope it's not offensive to ask, but it's something I've always wondered. You (not you specifically) like women supposedly, but date a woman that could nearly pass as a man. perhaps we just don't fit into neat little categories [Edited 5/30/07 11:55am] I'm bi, so this doesn't exactly answer your question, but. . .I tend to be attracted to people of both genders who are towards the middle/androgynous end of the spectrum.  it makes sense, though. I've seen a lot of lesbian couples who seem to have "male/female" roles, and often the ones in the "female" roles have dated men also. So they may be attracted to more masculine types, sometimes both male and female, where you're attracted to androgynous types, and I was once attracted to a man who appeared to be a very feminine woman. Maybe we're attracted to personality/physical types just as much (if not more than) pure gender. [Edited 5/31/07 14:56pm] My Legacy
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I think that the closest I've ever come to a gay experience
is, after dating me, a couple of girls went lesbian. I tell ya, life's rough.  | |
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Fauxie said: So this is the best I can come up with... aged 15 or 16, went to a sleepover at a friend's house...
excellent, already sounds very gay... so anyway, there were about 5 or 6 of us there. As on previous occasions we brought whatever alcohol we could find, chatted, drank, watched movies, and sometimes watched porn. It was straight porn, but we did all openly jack off in the same room this one time as we watched. Thing is, it was my friend Neil's parents' house and his older sister Claira actually came in and watched with us this time (the start of the movie, before the wanking commenced) - which I found a little weird (watching porn with her brother?)- but anyway, after she left and we were all merrily masturbating, in truth I was just so horny thinking about Neil's sister (ignoring the movie - hey, she was fiiiiine!) that it didn't even occur to me that what we were doing might be considered homo-erotic or something. I'm not even sure it was, but it's the only thing I could think of that might even qualify, besides Imago related stuff. 
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sextonseven said: meow85 said: Can't speak for other women, but I find it more a turn on than anything else. Bisexuality is where it's at. 
I love a man who's not afraid to try things out, even if it turns out fellas are not his cup of tea. You are a very special woman.  So I've been told. 
Most everybody I know is either queer friendly or some variation of queer, so I guess I just got used to the idea to the point that I'd count it as a bonus now. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: NDRU said:
This brings up another question. How/why are lesbians attracted to them? I hope it's not offensive to ask, but it's something I've always wondered. You (not you specifically) like women supposedly, but date a woman that could nearly pass as a man. perhaps we just don't fit into neat little categories [Edited 5/30/07 11:55am] I'm bi, so this doesn't exactly answer your question, but. . .I tend to be attracted to people of both genders who are towards the middle/androgynous end of the spectrum. Me too, more or less. There've been exceptions wherein I'm attracted to a girly girl or a butch guy, but more often than not I tend to gravitate to those whose gender isn't clear from a distance. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Christopher said: Fauxie said: So this is the best I can come up with... aged 15 or 16, went to a sleepover at a friend's house...
excellent, already sounds very gay... so anyway, there were about 5 or 6 of us there. As on previous occasions we brought whatever alcohol we could find, chatted, drank, watched movies, and sometimes watched porn. It was straight porn, but we did all openly jack off in the same room this one time as we watched. Thing is, it was my friend Neil's parents' house and his older sister Claira actually came in and watched with us this time (the start of the movie, before the wanking commenced) - which I found a little weird (watching porn with her brother?)- but anyway, after she left and we were all merrily masturbating, in truth I was just so horny thinking about Neil's sister (ignoring the movie - hey, she was fiiiiine!) that it didn't even occur to me that what we were doing might be considered homo-erotic or something. I'm not even sure it was, but it's the only thing I could think of that might even qualify, besides Imago related stuff.
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meow85 said: HereToRockYourWorld said: I'm bi, so this doesn't exactly answer your question, but. . .I tend to be attracted to people of both genders who are towards the middle/androgynous end of the spectrum. Me too, more or less. There've been exceptions wherein I'm attracted to a girly girl or a butch guy, but more often than not I tend to gravitate to those whose gender isn't clear from a distance. That's a great way to put it. 
And yeah, there are exceptions. For example, my long-term imaginary love affair with Kiefer Sutherland. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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Christopher said: Fauxie said: So this is the best I can come up with... aged 15 or 16, went to a sleepover at a friend's house...
excellent, already sounds very gay... so anyway, there were about 5 or 6 of us there. As on previous occasions we brought whatever alcohol we could find, chatted, drank, watched movies, and sometimes watched porn. It was straight porn, but we did all openly jack off in the same room this one time as we watched. Thing is, it was my friend Neil's parents' house and his older sister Claira actually came in and watched with us this time (the start of the movie, before the wanking commenced) - which I found a little weird (watching porn with her brother?)- but anyway, after she left and we were all merrily masturbating, in truth I was just so horny thinking about Neil's sister (ignoring the movie - hey, she was fiiiiine!) that it didn't even occur to me that what we were doing might be considered homo-erotic or something. I'm not even sure it was, but it's the only thing I could think of that might even qualify, besides Imago related stuff.
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Fauxie said: So this is the best I can come up with... aged 15 or 16, went to a sleepover at a friend's house...
excellent, already sounds very gay... so anyway, there were about 5 or 6 of us there. As on previous occasions we brought whatever alcohol we could find, chatted, drank, watched movies, and sometimes watched porn. It was straight porn, but we did all openly jack off in the same room this one time as we watched. Thing is, it was my friend Neil's parents' house and his older sister Claira actually came in and watched with us this time (the start of the movie, before the wanking commenced) - which I found a little weird (watching porn with her brother?)- but anyway, after she left and we were all merrily masturbating, in truth I was just so horny thinking about Neil's sister (ignoring the movie - hey, she was fiiiiine!) that it didn't even occur to me that what we were doing might be considered homo-erotic or something. I'm not even sure it was, but it's the only thing I could think of that might even qualify, besides Imago related stuff. Okay, I seriously read this EXACT same story over at a gay torrent site, posted by one of the members - included the entire scenario - the sister, everything. One of the friends in your little 'circle' there weren't gay were they?  | |
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Imago said: overall I realize my sexuality is pretty fluid. though I find men somewhat fuckable and stuff I don't identify with being bi. bisexuals don't have a preference I believe whereas contrary to popular belief I prefer women.
Actually, that's not true... Bisexuals can be very fluid - not caring about gender at all but then you have the other end of the spectrum where say a bi person might enjoy full relationships with one gender only but still enjoy casual sex with the other, and so forth. | |
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I had a lesbian sex experience, does that count? | |
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jerseykrs said: I had a sometimes straight sometimes gay orger lust after me. He is also challenged when it comes to hairdressers and owns a kayak
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alwayslate said: I don't know what the hell I am anymore.
You were experimenting! Trying! I've done it, it's fun. Same thing, for some reason there was just one guy. Any other bloke and I'm "Nope, take me the right hole" but this guy  | |
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alwayslate said: I don't know what the hell I am anymore.
we want an update! "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." |
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bboy87 said: alwayslate said: I don't know what the hell I am anymore.
we want an update! I am still seeing her.I'll leave it at that. you greedy lil thang, you.  | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: meow85 said: Me too, more or less. There've been exceptions wherein I'm attracted to a girly girl or a butch guy, but more often than not I tend to gravitate to those whose gender isn't clear from a distance. That's a great way to put it.
And yeah, there are exceptions. For example, my long-term imaginary love affair with Kiefer Sutherland.
My fave character in X-Men is Wolverine, and not because he's Canadian.  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: HereToRockYourWorld said: That's a great way to put it.
And yeah, there are exceptions. For example, my long-term imaginary love affair with Kiefer Sutherland.
My fave character in X-Men is Wolverine, and not because he's Canadian. Is it because he's hairy? | |
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sextonseven said: meow85 said:
My fave character in X-Men is Wolverine, and not because he's Canadian. Is it because he's hairy? He's hairy and grumpy and a guy. It's very rare I actually find that appealing, but Wolverine is the hotness. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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alwayslate said: bboy87 said: we want an update! I am still seeing her.I'll leave it at that. you greedy lil thang, you. I can dream..... "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." |
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