SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

birds of a feather...

liberation said:

si.

I'm not interested or anything.

um...i had a guy try to give me a massage once at a party.

liberation said:

i dont think anyone was worried you were.

relax.

I think women are beautiful, I am a straight, married women, mother of 4.
But, I admire a beautiful women from afar, I do not want to have sex with them. But I do think "Damn, that women is beautiful!"

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

This brings up another question. How/why are lesbians attracted to them?

I hope it's not offensive to ask, but it's something I've always wondered. You (not you specifically) like women supposedly, but date a woman that could nearly pass as a man.

perhaps we just don't fit into neat little categories
[Edited 5/30/07 11:55am]

NDRU said:

I've wondered the same many times myself, why do some gay men like other men dressed as women who could pass as women?

NDRU said:

bingo.

cborgman said:

yep I knew as much.

funny you should mention the mistaking the sex thing, as that happens often to me. You catch someone out of the corner of your eye, prepare to give them the sexy stare, and it's a guy

oops maybe I should actually look at a person before deciding to flirt with them

I was backpacking in Thailand ten years ago with a friend and one day we went to a Full Moon beach party - after hours of dancing and drinking a lot of dodgy cocktails with cough syrup, Thai whisky and other crap in them, I needed to chill out. My friend went off chatting up some Swedish girl and I went off down the beach for a walk, away from the crowds, lights and music, sat down for a cigarette and must have dozed off.

Next thing I knew, I was woken up by FOUR ladyboys around me feeling me up. Surreal. I'm not into guys, however 'ladylike' they are, so after a couple of seconds for my drunken brain to realise what was going on (it was very dark) and a bit of shouting, I ended up running back down the beach with my 'entourage' in pursuit. Luckily I ran into my friend and the group we were with and the chase ended.

I have heard of a couple of guys on different occasions being taken in by them, getting blowjobs and then being asked to reciprocate to a newly revealed penis. Thankfully I missed out on that. Rule to self: never sleep with a woman with a penis. Especially if it's bigger than yours.

The impression I have gotten in the past is that most women consider it a turn off when they find out a guy has experimented. They like their men to be manly. Is that true?

Made out with two of my friends on separate occasions. It was "meh" at best.

I thought I'd give it a go and see how it went, it did nothing for me.

sextonseven said:

I was first gonna answer "yes" then I decided to answer "no", now I dunno what to answer.

JustErin said:

Erin I think we need a lot more details. Was there petting involved? What really went down. Did you really get the full experience? Maybe you would like it with the right girl.

sextonseven said:

depends on the woman. i know of several that actually love to watch guys going at it.

cborgman said:

But would they date one of those guys?

cborgman said:

Me too. One of my best friends in my early 20s had a boyfriend that was obsessed with me but of course he was "straight". She put the idea out there, and I totally played along that we should do it while she watched. He would always stare glazed eyed and like this but always said no. Damn taboos!

sextonseven said:

most of the ones i know are married to that guy.

sextonseven said:

depends on the woman. for me, that's definitely not true.

sextonseven said:

Not all of us. Open mind, open legs.

sextonseven said:

I've told women my story, and it never turned them off. But it's not like I had sex with a man. That might get a diferent reaction.

jaimestarr79 said:

No sex, not even really much at all, just making out. I don't think it matters who it is, I just wasn't into it. I was also drunk, but it wasn't an attention thing, we were alone when it happened.

INSATIABLE said:

JustErin said:

who initiated the sex.? who put the strap on first?

jaimestarr79 said:

Ok, can you read?

JustErin said:

Yes. RIF ( Reading is Fundamental) Just messing with ya today.

I once slept with supa in the back seat of a car.

ArielB said:

How in the HELL did I not save that picture for proof!

This really happened folks!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

yup, there's a photo of it. how kinky

Who took the photo?