what would be the worst thing u could be remembered for? i know im a good mother,

i love my kids with all my heart, so i would say id would hate to be rememberd as

being a bad parent.... just something i was thinking about today, id love to hear

what other people think

Arsenal fan

do you mean an actual "thing" that happened or an imagined thing others may think of you ?

Mach said:

can be imagined i guess, like i said i know im a good mother but i guess in my mind i always have doubts that i dont do enough... u know

Those closest to me would say that I spent my life alone and I didn't open up or allow others in to see and experience the all of my goodness. I know this because that's what they're saying now and I'm not even gone yet.

If I'm gone, I won't be able to care.

I am more concerned about those I love and who love me KNOW how cherished they are... right here and now as opposed to when it's too late

Watch a guy friend being sad and me making him more sad with my silly character

My epitaph on my gravestone will read : "See ya later"

I want to be remembered as a good wife and mother and loyal friend and always had a smile on my face and generous with a precious gift - her time.

Steadwood said:

what would happen to ur trolls steadwood? would they have to go out into the world and fend for themselves, stealing little bits of chicken from wheelie bins to survive? I'm concerned

LittleSmedley said:

I'm not going anywhere... the little buggers are stuck with me

.. You got a point there though... What would happen to them