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The Top likes to call the shots—sexually, at least. In real life, they may not show any signs of wanting or needing to be in control, but to achieve erotic fulfillment, The Top needs not only to give orders but also to see them carried out. Their sexual pleasure is of the psychosexual variety, which means that they intellectualize sex more than most of the other erotic types. They are often partial to leather and the accoutrements of bondage, and they frequently reward those people they can bend to their will. They may even like to deliver a bit of physical pain, but only if they know the recipient will enjoy that pain.    [Edited 5/16/07 19:57pm] "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
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The Top likes to call the shots—sexually, at least. In real life, they may not show any signs of wanting or needing to be in control, but to achieve erotic fulfillment, The Top needs not only to give orders but also to see them carried out. Their sexual pleasure is of the psychosexual variety, which means that they intellectualize sex more than most of the other erotic types. They are often partial to leather and the accoutrements of bondage, and they frequently reward those people they can bend to their will. They may even like to deliver a bit of physical pain, but only if they know the recipient will enjoy that pain. "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." | |
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The Risk-Taker needs an adrenaline rush to know sexual excitement. If it’s verboten, The Risk-Taker is first in line to give it a try. Defying social conventions turns this erotic type on like nothing else. If it’s liable to get them fired, divorced, or ex-communicated, their sexual juices flow fast and furious. They’re not likely to “listen to reason” because level-headedness is at odds with their needs. Most of them practice some form of this risky business in their daily lives, but some of them only fantasize about it. Either way, it is the notion that intrigues them above all others. Danger is an aphrodisiac to The Risk-Taker, and they are drawn to it regardless of the consequences. | |
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um ok I'm not saying since nobody else got the same as me  | |
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a bull elephant ... sounds like its got me spot on... are you ready for submission
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CarrieMpls said: 
The Romantic Being the object of someone's desire is your reason for being. You are happiest when someone goes to great lengths to help, save or please you. The Romantic can think of nothing more erotic than being saved from peril. They are not necessarily helpless people, but the notion of being saved makes them feel desirable and sexy. The Romantic needs to feel sought-after and practically worshipped before sex can be on the agenda. They imagine partners who not only make passionate love to them soon after saving them, but they imagine those partners will know how to please them without any instruction whatsoever. Their lover’s sexual finesse inspires their own, heightening their capacity for sexual pleasure. The Romantic is especially fond of people who can read their minds and deliver the sexual excitement that they secretly desire. I demand a recount. I got that too  | |
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The Top
Dominance pushes you into erotic territory. You might be into delivering pain but only if you know the recipient enjoys it. 
I usually don't wear that outfit though.  | |
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CarrieMpls said:
The Romantic Being the object of someone's desire is your reason for being. You are happiest when someone goes to great lengths to help, save or please you. The Romantic can think of nothing more erotic than being saved from peril. They are not necessarily helpless people, but the notion of being saved makes them feel desirable and sexy. The Romantic needs to feel sought-after and practically worshipped before sex can be on the agenda. They imagine partners who not only make passionate love to them soon after saving them, but they imagine those partners will know how to please them without any instruction whatsoever. Their lover’s sexual finesse inspires their own, heightening their capacity for sexual pleasure. The Romantic is especially fond of people who can read their minds and deliver the sexual excitement that they secretly desire. I demand a recount. Yeah, I'm this one also! I love being desired... who doesn't? However, I'm not sure I'm into the whole damsel in distress scenario. | |
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The Escapist! | |
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Tonylover said: CarrieMpls said:
The Romantic Being the object of someone's desire is your reason for being. You are happiest when someone goes to great lengths to help, save or please you. The Romantic can think of nothing more erotic than being saved from peril. They are not necessarily helpless people, but the notion of being saved makes them feel desirable and sexy. The Romantic needs to feel sought-after and practically worshipped before sex can be on the agenda. They imagine partners who not only make passionate love to them soon after saving them, but they imagine those partners will know how to please them without any instruction whatsoever. Their lover’s sexual finesse inspires their own, heightening their capacity for sexual pleasure. The Romantic is especially fond of people who can read their minds and deliver the sexual excitement that they secretly desire. I demand a recount. Yeah, I'm this one also! I love being desired... who doesn't? However, I'm not sure I'm into the whole damsel in distress scenario. Thinking about it more objectively now, it is kinda fitting.  I took it again and got escapist. I think I'm some combo of romantic, escapist and bottom. |
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I took it again too
This time I got The Wanderer You are at your sexiest when you hit the road. You can be adventurous, mysterious, wild, or flirtatious -- everything you can't be when you're home. The Wanderer finds it difficult to let loose in locales where people might know them. The allure of new places, situations, and people flips their erotic switches because they represent sexual freedom. The Wanderer is often quite sexually adventurous and may be a variety of other types, as well, but their overriding need is to get out of town before they can let their hair down. Strange, exotic places deliver the anonymity and permission that The Wanderer needs to flirt, be outrageous, try new activities, and expand their sexual repertoires. The Wanderer does have sex at home but makes most sexual discoveries while on vacation or even traveling on business.  | |
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The wanderer  | |
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TOP here
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The Top
Dominance pushes you into erotic territory. You might be into delivering pain but only if you know the recipient enjoys it. The Normal Whores Club | |
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The Bottom
Abandoning yourself to your lover is your path to sexual nirvana. You like the idea of surrender and prefer to let your partner call the shots. Read more about being A Bottom. Many people find they are a combination of types. This one seems to be your primary one but you may be another, as well. The book's quiz will help you clarify your true type. Wow. I thought I was a versatile top. M [Edited 5/18/07 9:08am] MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: The Bottom
Abandoning yourself to your lover is your path to sexual nirvana. You like the idea of surrender and prefer to let your partner call the shots. Read more about being A Bottom. Many people find they are a combination of types. This one seems to be your primary one but you may be another, as well. The book's quiz will help you clarify your true type. Wow. I thought I was a versatile top. M [Edited 5/18/07 9:08am] The answers were kind of skewed, I think. The answers I would have given to a lot of the questions weren't given as options. For example, fantasizing about your lover enjoying someone else (hell to the no) was a choice, but fantasizing about just your lover, or you and your lover together, wasn't. The Normal Whores Club | |
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FunkMistress said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: The Bottom
Abandoning yourself to your lover is your path to sexual nirvana. You like the idea of surrender and prefer to let your partner call the shots. Read more about being A Bottom. Many people find they are a combination of types. This one seems to be your primary one but you may be another, as well. The book's quiz will help you clarify your true type. Wow. I thought I was a versatile top. M [Edited 5/18/07 9:08am] The answers were kind of skewed, I think. The answers I would have given to a lot of the questions weren't given as options. For example, fantasizing about your lover enjoying someone else (hell to the no) was a choice, but fantasizing about just your lover, or you and your lover together, wasn't. i got romantic, which really isn't me. | |
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"The Risk-Taker needs an adrenaline rush to know sexual excitement. If it’s verboten, The Risk-Taker is first in line to give it a try. Defying social conventions turns this erotic type on like nothing else. If it’s liable to get them fired, divorced, or ex-communicated, their sexual juices flow fast and furious. They’re not likely to “listen to reason” because level-headedness is at odds with their needs. Most of them practice some form of this risky business in their daily lives, but some of them only fantasize about it. Either way, it is the notion that intrigues them above all others. Danger is an aphrodisiac to The Risk-Taker, and they are drawn to it regardless of the consequences." I don't know. It's not wrong, but I think I'm more of an escapist. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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Your Erotic Personality Is
The Risk-Taker If it's liable to get you fired, divorced, or excommunicated, your pulse races. You are intrigued by the prospect of challenging societal rules and ignoring taboos. Hee hee! Occupy Alphabet Street!
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The Student
You see the sexual realm as one big Petri dish with you as the scientist. Learning is as exciting as doing and very little is out of your scope of investigation.  | |
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The Student doesn’t care a whit about sexual boundaries or conventions. New, unexplored, and even unusual sexual experiences motivate this erotic type. Learning is just as exciting as doing, so even research involving no involvement of the flesh can be as arousing as sex itself. The Student possesses an insatiable curiosity about all things sexual and appreciates others who share that curiosity, although they don’t always need that quality in a mate. The Student is compelled to experiment with new sexual pastimes out of a sincere desire to experience whatever pleasure they offer. The Student will often delve very deep into a sexual topic or activity to ensure the experience is complete.  that picture cracks me upAll of me I give 2 thee down at your feet
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The Romantic
The Romantic can think of nothing more erotic than being saved from peril. They are not necessarily helpless people, but the notion of being saved makes them feel desirable and sexy. The Romantic needs to feel sought-after and practically worshipped before sex can be on the agenda. They imagine partners who not only make passionate love to them soon after saving them, but they imagine those partners will know how to please them without any instruction whatsoever. Their lover’s sexual finesse inspires their own, heightening their capacity for sexual pleasure. The Romantic is especially fond of people who can read their minds and deliver the sexual excitement that they secretly desire. | |
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