alwayslate said:

what happened?!

1) this is one of the hottest threads ever on this org.
2) she's interested in you..she's flirting. perhaps she's bi/gay curious herself
3) ask her if she would want to hang with you this weekend..go shopping..go to starbucks..whatever. let things develop as they will..i wouldnt script it out too much, because then if you go off script you'll be unhappy
4) inaction will lead to a life filled with coulda/woulda/shoulda

alwayslate said:

what happened?!

evenstar3 said:

I was on the phone for about an hour. The only highlight was this after about 55 minutes of talking about nothing at the very end of the conversation:

She was talking about her college days. Some jock that she wishes she'd slept with.

Me: Why didn't you?
Her: I ended up with another guy, yada yada yada yada... didn't wanna be a ho, etc etc... (reference to disappointing sexual experiment) Brothers are so trifling. Blah blah blah..... frustrated.... etc etc..
Me: Instead of looking for Mr Right, why not just find someone you can trust to perhaps get you off? just so you can clear your head.You're so "all over the place."

Her: I can't trust these (n-words) 'round here.
Me: Maybe not an (n-word)
Her: I don't know about no white dudes
Me: (taking a deeeeep breath, shaking in my boots) Maybe not a dude. Somebody that'll hook you up and keep her mouth shut about it.
Her: uh *laughter* a woman? I've never been with a woman. I don't think I could go down on a woman.
Me: Well, I've never been with a woman either but, what if you could get one that will only want to do that to you?
Her: If there was such a woman sure but please, Nooooobody, male or female would do it and not expect a return on the favor. (she's laughing now- I think she was baiting me- i HOPE she was anyway)

Me: (Getting Prince-ified for courage- and trying to interject some humor) Well, we can discuss my rates at the wine festival on Saturday.

Annyway, I didn't quite say that I wanted to but, I'm trying to warm her up for Saturday.

evenstar3 said:

I was on the phone for about an hour. The only highlight was this after about 55 minutes of talking about nothing at the very end of the conversation:

She was talking about her college days. Some jock that she wishes she'd slept with.

Me: Why didn't you?
Her: I ended up with another guy, yada yada yada yada... didn't wanna be a ho, etc etc... (reference to disappointing sexual experiment) Brothers are so trifling. Blah blah blah..... frustrated.... etc etc..
Me: Instead of looking for Mr Right, why not just find someone you can trust to perhaps get you off? just so you can clear your head.You're so "all over the place."

Her: I can't trust these (n-words) 'round here.
Me: Maybe not an (n-word)
Her: I don't know about no white dudes
Me: (taking a deeeeep breath, shaking in my boots) Maybe not a dude. Somebody that'll hook you up and keep her mouth shut about it.
Her: uh *laughter* a woman? I've never been with a woman. I don't think I could go down on a woman.
Me: Well, I've never been with a woman either but, what if you could get one that will only want to do that to you?
Her: If there was such a woman sure but please, Nooooobody, male or female would do it and not expect a return on the favor. (she's laughing now- I think she was baiting me- i HOPE she was anyway)

Me: (Getting Prince-ified for courage- and trying to interject some humor) Well, we can discuss my rates at the wine festival on Saturday.

Annyway, I didn't quite say that I wanted to but, I'm trying to warm her up for Saturday.

This is so confusing to me. No offense, I just can't comprehend.

Are you straight? or bi? or gay?
the woman sounds to me like shes most likely bi if not gay.


hmm, if i understood more i think id have more to say..

This is so confusing to me. No offense, I just can't comprehend.

Are you straight? or bi? or gay?
the woman sounds to me like shes most likely bi if not gay.


hmm, if i understood more i think id have more to say..

SaraWright10 said:

WHO CARES - LET THEM FUCK!

Spookymuffin said:

LOL! i didnt say they couldn't i just don't understand! sorry!

SaraWright10 said:

don't mind ben, he's just looking for something to get off to

SaraWright10 said:

don't mind ben, he's just looking for something to get off to

evenstar3 said:

I'D GET OFF TO YOU IF YOU WEREN'T WELDED SHUT!



omg.

SaraWright10 said:

WHO CARES - LET THEM FUCK!

never know till you make the move!

who knows? if it was me I'd want to know if she was open to it before I tried anything. She might just want to be your friend, and she might be a tease who enjoys leading you on.

But if she's gazing in your eyes after a wine or two, there's your answer.

NDRU said:

so you are saying to get her blind fucking drunk, it always works

eraclito said:

blessed alcohol!

alwayslate said:

THIS THREAD IS AMAZING.

For those of you who already know about this crush I have on a woman at work, My "girl crush" has invited me to a wine festival this weekend (you know I love my wine). I've said in past posts that this is the first time that I have ever been attracted to a woman and I think that she might have figured me out.

Lately, she's has made some efforts to make sure that she sits next to me at meetings, and always wants to come with me when I have to go anywhere away from the office; Even if I don't need any help or anything.

A few weeks ago she was asking me about how I have been dealing with my 5 years of celibacy..... (perhaps she wants to end my streak????)

Anyway I told her that when the mood suits me, I masturbate and think about who'd I like to do. She played innocent with the whole, "do you do this or do you use that" kind of questions. She asked me who I'd like to do and I said nothing. I looked at the ground and smiled. So this weekend I plan to make my move.

Uh, any suggestions on what move I should make?

I am laughing so hard as I am typing this because I can remember some heated discussions with some homosexual orgers about whether ..ah well forget it.

Annywho, I like keeping you all posted because this is not a subject that I am comfortable with the idea of mentioning to anyone I am particularly close to.
[Edited 5/14/07 17:43pm]

The latest conversation doesn't make me feel quite as good. Tread carefully.

live4lust said:

Yeah, almost lost my nerve with that. I was trying to think of a way to test her to see if a "proposal" would offend her. I admitted my attraction to her yesterday over lunch (kind of). I couldn't take it anymore. I asked her if that made her uncomfortable. I asked her if she ever checked out women .She admitted her own girlie curiosities but did not necessarily give me the green light at that point.
I wondered if we'd still go to the festival since the weather reports are now calling for rain. and got this...."maybe i'll just... let you take....advantage of me instead."
So then things got heavy a lil bit when she asked me if I would really do that (you know what that is) and I told her that if she wanted me to I would do it (I wanted to beg her). So after we got over our disbelief that we were "negotiating" a liason, we agreed that we'd both satisfy our curiosities and never speak to anyone about.....ever. She wants to do it tomorrow night. But uh, I gotta find a sitter!

So I am sitting here like a kid on Xmas Eve. This shit is really going down (pun intended).

live4lust said:

Yeah, almost lost my nerve with that. I was trying to think of a way to test her to see if a "proposal" would offend her. I admitted my attraction to her yesterday over lunch (kind of). I couldn't take it anymore. I asked her if that made her uncomfortable. I asked her if she ever checked out women .She admitted her own girlie curiosities but did not necessarily give me the green light at that point.
I wondered if we'd still go to the festival since the weather reports are now calling for rain. and got this...."maybe i'll just... let you take....advantage of me instead."
So then things got heavy a lil bit when she asked me if I would really do that (you know what that is) and I told her that if she wanted me to I would do it (I wanted to beg her). So after we got over our disbelief that we were "negotiating" a liason, we agreed that we'd both satisfy our curiosities and never speak to anyone about.....ever. She wants to do it tomorrow night. But uh, I gotta find a sitter!

So I am sitting here like a kid on Xmas Eve. This shit is really going down (pun intended).

live4lust said:

Yeah, almost lost my nerve with that. I was trying to think of a way to test her to see if a "proposal" would offend her. I admitted my attraction to her yesterday over lunch (kind of). I couldn't take it anymore. I asked her if that made her uncomfortable. I asked her if she ever checked out women .She admitted her own girlie curiosities but did not necessarily give me the green light at that point.
I wondered if we'd still go to the festival since the weather reports are now calling for rain. and got this...."maybe i'll just... let you take....advantage of me instead."
So then things got heavy a lil bit when she asked me if I would really do that (you know what that is) and I told her that if she wanted me to I would do it (I wanted to beg her). So after we got over our disbelief that we were "negotiating" a liason, we agreed that we'd both satisfy our curiosities and never speak to anyone about.....ever. She wants to do it tomorrow night. But uh, I gotta find a sitter!

So I am sitting here like a kid on Xmas Eve. This shit is really going down (pun intended).

alwayslate said:

OMG!!@!@!!!!

live4lust said: