My gurlfriend.

everyone knows i'm gay. everyone but my boyfriend. it would devastate him

pretty much everyone knows. people i know, people i barely know, dogs... yes, everyone

tackam said:

WHAT POLY MEAN

LIKE POLYSTYRENE?

YOU LIKE PLASTIC HUH

I actively told friends and family. If anyone else knows or finds out, I don't care either way.

This is one odd question.
Most of my family has no idea, not because I don't wanna tell them, but because I think it is none of their business who I sleep with.
Most ppl who meet me on the street just think that I am a snazy dresser.
All of my co-workers and employees know, I don't hide it. If it becomes a problem in the work place, I get real happy to be in upper management. "If all you have to do is stand around and gossip about who I am fucking then I guess you don't have enuf to do. How bout I put you on the schedule for the next 2 weeks str8, 3rd shift. "
I lost a couple of friends when I came out, but only came to realize that they were not my friends in the first place. If you judge someone soley upon who they go to bed with then you are less of a person than they are. Judgement is bad and reserved for no one. **ASIDE FROM ME & DORA**
I was outted by my hairdresser to my aunt. My X & I went to the same hairdresser for about 6 months. My aunt moved to my hometown from Ohio, hadn't seen me since I was 6, I took her to get her hair done, and my hairdresser asked me where my "husband" was. Soo not cool, but suprisingly my aunt took it better than I thought. Then she gave me those words that broke my heart. "I already fucking knew u sucked dick, y couldn't you tell me tho?"... If you already knew then y didn't u tell me.
But in general. I don't think it is anyones business who anyone else sleeps with.

I tried to come out to my family, but, for the most part, they are homophobes. Only my bi and gay friends know.

most people , although i dont run through the streets with a pink flag screeeming : i'm queer , i'm queer!! everyone!