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What do you do/say when... ...a boy/girl, man/woman is looking at you, at your own eyes, like if he/she was sayin': "I just think that you're sexy-beautiful "...
I mean, what do you do in those situations, when you REALLY KNOW that a stranger (which you find also sexy) thinks that you're sexy-pretty or something like that? I say this because it has happened to me several times and I've never known what to say. It has always been a problem to me, not a pleasure. I've always felt flattered/embarrassed/frightened at those situations. I just don't know what to say. The first line it always comes to my mind is "Hi, I've seen that you were looking at me"? And yeah, I know it: that would be ridiculous. Another choice would be: "Hi...hummm...so...would you like to... ???" But no, that would be too brutal I would receive a well owned slap in the face So, what do you do at those situations??? Do you say something to him/her? Or do you keep silent and embarrassed (though flattered), as I do? | |
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Ex-Moderator | Say hello. |
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99% of the time I ignore them. the boldest i'll ever get is to return eye contact. | |
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So you're just that hot, eh? | |
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evenstar3 said: 99% of the time I ignore them. the boldest i'll ever get is to return eye contact.
But do you do it because you're embarrassed, of just because you're not interested in them? | |
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JustErin said: So you're just that hot, eh?
I haven't said that | |
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Say Thanks an walk away. | |
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JoeTyler said: evenstar3 said: 99% of the time I ignore them. the boldest i'll ever get is to return eye contact.
But do you do it because you're embarrassed, of just because you're not interested in them? a little of both, usually. | |
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CarrieMpls said: Say hello.
makes sense and sounds like a winner to me. | |
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Ignore them even if I like them | |
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Just smile at them, they will then do the rest!! "I may not agree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it"
Be proud of who you are not what they want you to be... | |
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You've GOT to smile back, son. You'd be a nutter not to. If she's as bashful as you are and you don't react at that first "look", her shyness may not give you another opportunity "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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JoeTyler said: ...a boy/girl...man/woman...he/she...
Are we talking about hermaphrodites? | |
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I shove my tongue down her throat,
have hard sex with her, smoke a cigarette, then introduce myself. | |
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"wanna order a pizza and fuck?" | |
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simple. if you're interested, merely smile back, making it plainly obvious that you are looking and smiling directly at that person. when a little bit of eye contact has been made, then do whatever it was you were doing with the knowledge that the ball is now firmly in their court. at the very least, someone smiled at you and you smiled back. ain't that nice? | |
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usually when i get the "sexy" looks, i get them from guys i'm not interested in, i just smile and say hello. the rude ones usually yell back "damn girl you got a man? you fine as hell, gatdayum"....and this is the part when i want to start running.
the sexy guys that i give the "sexy" looks to usually smile and keep on walking. i've never had it happen where it was mutual on both sides, the guy who did it to me i thought was sexy as hell and likewise. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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fathermcmeekle said: JoeTyler said: ...a boy/girl...man/woman...he/she...
Are we talking about hermaphrodites? I don't think anyone appreciates your goofiness. | |
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I've caught someone I've known for years look at my body in a lustful manner. I'll never forget the look in his face. At the time, I was disgusted. I suddenly turned, and there it was. I was in shock with the idea he thought about me that way. I'm still not sure if it was deliberate, to get my attention. | |
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Thank you for your advices!! | |
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