i usually ain't into astrology, this motherfucka hit me spot on!!!

Deal-breakers by Sign
By Simone Butler
Provided by Tarot.com


opposites is what makes the game of love so much fun. Our differences, however, can inadvertently -- and unforgivably -- offend our partner. What may be perfectly acceptable to an Aquarian -- such as canceling a date at the last minute to help out a friend -- could be a deal-breaker for a Cancer, who takes it personally and concludes you don't care. If you're a Capricorn who insists on escaping into your cave rather than talking things out, your Gemini partner -- to whom communication is everything -- may see no choice but to give you the boot. Some things are universal deal-breakers: paralyzing addictions, psychosis, physical abuse. Beyond that, here are some specific no-no's for each sign.

Aries (March 20 to April 19)
The Ram can laugh off a lot of things -- like teasing -- that might offend more vulnerable types. But if this sign feels they've been relegated to last on your list, they may end up looking for greener pastures. Remember that Aries has to be No. 1 -- whether it's by winning a triathlon or receiving your loving attention. If your Aries woman thinks you are no longer turned on by her, she's apt to call it quits. And, never compare your Ram unfavorably to other men you've been with, no matter how mad at him you are -- he may never be able to let it go.
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Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
Don't ever lie to a Taurus. They're the most honest folks around, and expect the same from you. Unless their birthday is involved (in which case little white lies will be forgiven), it's essential to be straightforward. The Bull's keen instincts will sniff out untruths, anyway, so there's really no point in trying. A little mystery is intriguing to this sign, though, so you don't have to share every detail. But when it comes to the big stuff -- like the fact that you've been seeing someone else or you charged that big-screen TV on their credit card without asking -- failure to own up could have serious consequences.
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Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
For a sign that shares everything -- often obsessively -- Gemini's living hell is being left in the dark. What is he really thinking? What did she mean by that? These are the kinds of questions that keep the Twins up at night. So, if you want to keep relations smooth, don't assume your Gemini knows what's up. They want to hear it from you, directly. Your consistent unwillingness to change or be flexible may also send this sign packing. And, being too possessive -- infringing on their freedom to come and go as they please -- can also be a deal-breaker.
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Cancer (June 21 to July 21)
Wounding a sensitive Cancer's feelings is an unforgivable sin. And, unfortunately, it's easy to do, as this sign takes everything to heart. They may let little things -- like not complimenting their new outfit -- slide, but don't ever forget their birthday or ignore them all night at a party. The moonchild needs a nurturing touch, which they willingly give in return. Whatever you do, never let your frustrations build to the point that you unleash a nasty torrent on this person's head. Once attacked, they will withdraw into their shell, and may never trust you again.
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Leo (July 22 to Aug. 22)
The Lion needs a partner who makes him look good. So, always be at your best when you're out together. Never embarrass this person in public or with close friends. Drunken displays, one-upping him or loudly proving how wrong he is can be grounds for dismissal. And, be careful not to wound her pride by flirting with an old girlfriend or keeping her in the corner while you monopolize the spotlight. Let the Lion think he's in charge -- even though the opposite may be true -- or you run the risk of permanently alienating him. Also, never use sex as a reward or punishment.
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Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)
Poor hygiene is a deal-breaker for this fastidious sign. Two showers a day and regular teeth-cleanings are a must or Virgo just won't be comfortable with you. And, a messy, dirty home or car could turn her off for good. Cleanliness is truly next to godliness for this person, and that includes your thinking. Don't stay stuck in a cesspool of negative thoughts or go off on tirades about the government or global warming without taking action to change things. Those who are willing to clean up the mess win Virgo's respect; couch potatoes get left behind.

Libra (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22)
No one is more attuned to the subtleties of human relationships than Libra. Therefore, rudeness and insensitivity will seriously offend this person, to whom harmony and fairness are everything. Avoid off-color jokes and language. And, pushy behavior or a me-me-me attitude are apt to send your balancer running in the opposite direction. Make an effort to practice the niceties for your Libra partner's sake. Thank you notes, promptness, and sincere apologies when necessary will keep socially savvy Libra from crossing you off their list.
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Scorpio (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21)
Betraying your eagle's trust is the ultimate deal-breaker. Because they've been betrayed so often in the past, however, Scorpios often unconsciously set up situations in which it will happen again (such as accusing you so often of infidelity that you're actually driven to do it). Or, they end up feeling fatally wounded by an inadvertent gaffe. Still, if you want to avoid getting tossed on the trash heap, be upfront in all your dealings and stay committed for the long haul. You can still preserve some independence -- just make sure you're scrupulously honest as well.
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Sagittarius (Nov. 22 to Dec. 20)
Never try to fence a Sagittarian in. Possessiveness, jealousy, constantly checking on their whereabouts -- these are deal-breakers for the sign that's all about freedom. The Sagittarian sweetness you find so delightful can easily turn to vinegar if this person feels trapped. Instead, trust your archer implicitly -- even when he or she is late or off on an adventure without you. If you try to clamp down, it's ultimately going to backfire. It helps to be very secure to start with, or you may end up watching Sag's backside as he hits the road.
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Capricorn (Dec. 21 to Jan. 19)
Just because Capricorn doesn't show his feelings much, he still gets wounded -- especially if his dignity is involved. Therefore, never take your seagoat to task in public or do anything that would jeopardize his status or image. This includes discussing your private life with his workmates or employees, and flirting with others right in front of him. Caps need time to process things before making a decision. Forcing the issue or impatiently insisting on talking things out before he or she is ready can be a real deal-breaker.
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Aquarius (Jan. 20 to Feb. 17)
The Water-bearer is on a mission. Tossing your candy wrapper out the window may equate to tossing out the relationship where this staunch environmentalist is concerned. Neglecting an animal in any way would be a serious deal-breaker, too. Aquarius usually has lots of friends of all different sorts. You'll need to make allowances for these people -- and the amount of time your partner spends with them -- if you hope to have a rewarding relationship. An iron grip doesn't cut it with these freedom-loving souls.
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Pisces(Feb. 18 to March 19)
Fishes love to give, but don't take advantage of their good nature or you may end up dog-paddling alone. A little reciprocity goes a long way with this sign; if he's been taking you out to expensive restaurants, make him a special meal in return. If she always cooks, be sure to help with the dishes. Pisces also has strong spiritual beliefs: if you don't share them, it could be a deal-breaker. And, though this sign appreciates an artistic touch, if you're all style and no substance, they'll ultimately leave you behind.
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About the Author
Simone Butler is an intuitive astrologer with more than 20 years of experience in helping people engage with the mystery of their lives. She has taught many astrology classes and workshops. Her daily forecasts are featured in the Starscroll, and her articles have appeared in The Mountain Astrologer magazine. She has worked with 12 Signs, Inc. since 1992. Simone lives in a rural hideaway in Escondido, Calif. with her cat, Queen Bess.
[Edited 5/8/07 9:10am]

Fury said:

I am a Scorpio!
[Edited 5/8/07 9:26am]

This is the damn truth...


Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
Don't ever lie to a Taurus. They're the most honest folks around, and expect the same from you. Unless their birthday is involved (in which case little white lies will be forgiven), it's essential to be straightforward. The Bull's keen instincts will sniff out untruths, anyway, so there's really no point in trying. A little mystery is intriguing to this sign, though, so you don't have to share every detail. But when it comes to the big stuff -- like the fact that you've been seeing someone else or you charged that big-screen TV on their credit card without asking -- failure to own up could have serious consequences.

I don't believe any of this stuff, but they got me half-right as a Virgo. Though, I bet most people could fit the descriptions in one way or another.

Fury said:

My biggest pet peeve is unkindness. I couldn't date someone who was rude or unkind really ever.

Fury said:

FunkMistress said:

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
Don't ever lie to a Taurus. They're the most honest folks around, and expect the same from you. Unless their birthday is involved (in which case little white lies will be forgiven), it's essential to be straightforward. The Bull's keen instincts will sniff out untruths, anyway, so there's really no point in trying. A little mystery is intriguing to this sign, though, so you don't have to share every detail. But when it comes to the big stuff -- like the fact that you've been seeing someone else or you charged that big-screen TV on their credit card without asking -- failure to own up could have serious consequences.

I wish a certain ex of mine from this site would have read this YEARS ago... I ALWAYS knew when he was lying and let me tell you that was a LOT...

Fury said:

ha! just another loser posing as an astrology know-it-all. notice how this individual singles out Leos for the nastiest breakdown of all. ha! whoever wrote this is clearly mentally challenged and WAY out of touch with reality.





*j/k
[Edited 5/8/07 10:47am]

Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)
Poor hygiene is a deal-breaker for this fastidious sign. Two showers a day and regular teeth-cleanings are a must or Virgo just won't be comfortable with you. And, a messy, dirty home or car could turn her off for good. Cleanliness is truly next to godliness for this person, and that includes your thinking. Don't stay stuck in a cesspool of negative thoughts or go off on tirades about the government or global warming without taking action to change things. Those who are willing to clean up the mess win Virgo's respect; couch potatoes get left behind.


The hygiene part is very true but not 2 showers a day unless you really need it

Cleanliness, well I am not the cleanest of people but I do like it when the opposite sex is clean

And couch patatoes, yeah I dont need someone to be lazy with me , I need someone who will keep me moving
[Edited 5/8/07 10:40am]

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
For a sign that shares everything -- often obsessively -- Gemini's living hell is being left in the dark. What is he really thinking? What did she mean by that? These are the kinds of questions that keep the Twins up at night. So, if you want to keep relations smooth, don't assume your Gemini knows what's up. They want to hear it from you, directly. Your consistent unwillingness to change or be flexible may also send this sign packing. And, being too possessive -- infringing on their freedom to come and go as they please -- can also be a deal-breaker.
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DAMN that's creepy accurate, I can just hear my best friend now... "Obviously she's met you"

Fury said:

Couldn't be further from the truth. There aren't that many people I call "friend". I'm very choosy about friendship. When I call someone friend, that means they're family to me.

and the one about "Caps" is on the money

Cancer (June 21 to July 21)
Wounding a sensitive Cancer's feelings is an unforgivable sin. And, unfortunately, it's easy to do, as this sign takes everything to heart. They may let little things -- like not complimenting their new outfit -- slide, but don't ever forget their birthday or ignore them all night at a party. The moonchild needs a nurturing touch, which they willingly give in return. Whatever you do, never let your frustrations build to the point that you unleash a nasty torrent on this person's head. Once attacked, they will withdraw into their shell, and may never trust you again.



Yep thats me!

FunkMistress said:

double

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
For a sign that shares everything -- often obsessively -- Gemini's living hell is being left in the dark. What is he really thinking? What did she mean by that? These are the kinds of questions that keep the Twins up at night. So, if you want to keep relations smooth, don't assume your Gemini knows what's up. They want to hear it from you, directly. Your consistent unwillingness to change or be flexible may also send this sign packing. And, being too possessive -- infringing on their freedom to come and go as they please -- can also be a deal-breaker.
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oh my...that's so true

JustErin said:

right on the money.

I can't stand Aquariusesus!
Buncha goddamned water-bearers.

ThreadCula said:

me2

Wasn't there a soccer coach (France) I think, who had to have all Leos on his team because he was that into astrology? Oh, he didn't want Scorpios on his team.
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Illustrator said:

This is so true!

Aquarius usually has lots of friends of all different sorts. You'll need to make allowances for these people -- and the amount of time your partner spends with them -- if you hope to have a rewarding relationship. An iron grip doesn't cut it with these freedom-loving souls

I even have friends who can't stand me!

Anyone else a Scorpio? I don't want to feel alone here!

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
For a sign that shares everything -- often obsessively -- Gemini's living hell is being left in the dark. What is he really thinking? What did she mean by that? These are the kinds of questions that keep the Twins up at night. So, if you want to keep relations smooth, don't assume your Gemini knows what's up. They want to hear it from you, directly. Your consistent unwillingness to change or be flexible may also send this sign packing. And, being too possessive -- infringing on their freedom to come and go as they please -- can also be a deal-breaker.

Paradisekiss03 said:

Aries (March 20 to April 19)
The Ram can laugh off a lot of things -- like teasing -- that might offend more vulnerable types. But if this sign feels they've been relegated to last on your list, they may end up looking for greener pastures. Remember that Aries has to be No. 1 -- whether it's by winning a triathlon or receiving your loving attention. If your Aries woman thinks you are no longer turned on by her, she's apt to call it quits. And, never compare your Ram unfavorably to other men you've been with, no matter how mad at him you are -- he may never be able to let it go.
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This is very accurate!
[Edited 5/31/07 5:39am]

jess555ja said:

It is, isnt it?
Thats why I bumped it

Taurus here too ... and very true. I find lying almost unforgiveable.

REDFEATHERS said:

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
For a sign that shares everything -- often obsessively -- Gemini's living hell is being left in the dark. What is he really thinking? What did she mean by that? These are the kinds of questions that keep the Twins up at night. So, if you want to keep relations smooth, don't assume your Gemini knows what's up. They want to hear it from you, directly. Your consistent unwillingness to change or be flexible may also send this sign packing. And, being too possessive -- infringing on their freedom to come and go as they please -- can also be a deal-breaker.
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This is so me!