ZombieKitten said:

mwahaha...That's funny. Guys are so lame. I remember once getting an ex-BF to be in one and the whole time his main worry was "if his Mr Johnson touches the other guys!!"
Hilarious.

uh, no...never even though one of my ex's tried to get me to. he said I could pick the guy as long as it wasn't one friend in particular...anyway, I said no, not interested but it didn't stop him, he kept asking like it was his mission to have me experience this but I never would agree to it. It was crazy strange because for a while there, I was getting all kinds of propositions from "Friends" to be apart of a threesome, I was like what the hell is going on with you people.

Anx said:

oh my

Anx said:

I hope not! You wouldn't want to enter into a threesome with something guaranteed to be hung-like-a-donkey!

Felixxx said:

If you're gonna have one, make sure you know beforehand exactly what you want to do and be vocal about it while it's going on. My one time was a big letdown. I didn't take charge and it was apparently all about me, but I didn't realize it at the time.

fathermcmeekle said:

I've been asked way too many times by guys I was involved with. I've even been approached by couples I didn't know on two separate occasions. Weird.

It's just not my thing. I only want one on one.

I've had several....they're okay but I prefer 1 on 1.


M

My wife has had a few. My wife, me, and one of these:

Teacher said:

JediTodd said:

I just bought me one of those, its multi functional.

Felixxx said:

Not always,.. I had a threesone with two men, it was wild and exciting

I would never have a 3some with a partner though thats just stoopid

I enjoyed it and dated one of the guys afterwards for about 10 months, but I doubt I would have one again

then again.. who knows???

statuesqque said:

And here she thought she was only going to be getting back massages with it.

JediTodd said:

I thought the same thing but I was sooooo wrong.

statuesqque said:

Felixxx said:

i'm trying to remind myself that even though you are the same age as my niece you are also about the same age i was when i had my "almost" threesome

vanilla ice cream is awesome.

it's soothing, you know what you're getting when you dig into it, it's familiar, it's sweet, it's reliable, and it goes well with little touch-ups like chocolate sauce, sprinkles or caramel syrup.

that said, sometimes i like to try the freaky flavors like tomato peanut butter peppermint crack rock chip or whatever. if it's some interesting combo, i want to try it. i may hate it. it may be less interesting than it's being made out to be. i may want to eat it all the time for a while. but life is short and damn it, I LOVE ICE CREAM!

and sometimes, i want a banana split with vanilla, chocolate AND strawberry. so THERE!

but yeah. you know. vanilla by itself is good too.

i've had a few, and for the most part they were quite fun.

fathermcmeekle said:

Anx said:

Oh yes, I love eating the cornet especially.

To post or not to post... that is the question.

Um, I'm with Erin on this one. Not literally - although you look STUNNING in that new picture you posted; those men must be crazy where you live.

Tried it, didn't really like it... possibly for the wrong reasons but I felt incredibly self-conscious and was waiting for the cheesy saxophone straight out of a 70's porn movie to strike up. It wasn't the best experience. Maybe I should try it again.

There again, the guy I pulled didn't tell me he had a boyfriend. So I came as a complete surprise when he took me back to their place. And they'd never experimented - or so they said - that way before. Oh, and they had an argument. And we all went for coffee in the morning. It was very civilised.

But this was years ago, literally...

And the one time I tried a foursome, my tv fell on the floor, the volume 'down' button fell out and, for years, I had to turn it down using the inside of a pen. But it always reminded me of that night when I was watching a loud programme.

Okay, enough.

onenitealone said:

i think fate is trying to tell you something, and i'm not sure if it's a terribly liberating message.

emm said:

Hehe. I hate to break it to you Emm, but you may be suprised to learn just how much your niece knows!!LOL. Off topic slightly, even though you mention you had similar experiences at this age, i think it's fair to say that my generation is quite unabashed about sex - experimental sex in particular. With all of the imagery, videos, internet and everything else my generation grew up with, I think it's not suprising. I guess that's kind of unfortunate as it means we're probably doing too much too soon.

What's even funnier is that I think the girls of my generation are more confident with experimentation etc., even more so than the guys. I don't want people who started the whole free love thing 30+ years ago jumping down my back saying I don't know what I'm talking about, I'm just making a point about so called Gen Y.

Then again, I'm a bit of a unique case too...heehee.
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Anx said:

I've seen the future and it will be >

Okay, I can't believe I am going to post this but my last post dredged up something from the recesses of my mind...


YEARS ago, I'm talking about ten years ago here, I had this guy twice my age after me. I knew him quite well - he was an absolute sweetheart of a guy - but I wasn't interested that way. Every time I'd go out, he would make a beeline and flirt shamelessly. I was flattered but didn't really know what to do with the attention. We were just friends as far as I was concerned...

Anyway, this one night, I was in this bar and these two unknown guys were in town. I cannot remember the whys and the wherefores but - somehow - I got chatting to them and they invited me back to the place they were staying. I got into a taxi with them (idiot ) and we drove off. One of my abiding memories of that night is looking out of the back window and seeing the older guy that liked me getting soaked in the rain, waving at me with this sad look on his face...

Anyway, I didn't know where the HELL we were going. Eventually, we pulled up at this large house and it turned out it was a VICARAGE. Thet were staying with their vicar friend in the next parish. To cut a long story short, I had my pick of all - or one - of them. One was a vicar (of course), the other was a hairdresser and the other was an embalmist. I chose the embalmist. (It was just dirtier and sexier as a profession, for a start. Plus, he was dirty and sexy ).

The next morning, I ordered a taxi and - as I was about to leave - the vicar was in his garden feeding his chickens. (I am not making this up ). He sort of made this lascivious eyebrow raise and asked if I would like to come back and visit again soon. I thanked him for the offer, left and put it down to experience. I still can't believe it happened, in some ways.


Typing all that out, I realise I was a lot stupider/braver in my youth than I am now.

Yeah. . . three-and-more-somes. . .you know. . .pretty much what Anx said. It's worth having the experience. But I'm currently indifferent to the idea of having it again.

one major rule of thumb is that all parties have to be interested in each other sexually.
i was once with two girls, who showed no interest in each other what so ever.

i had to work twice as hard that night

onenitealone said:

I remember the last time you mentioned this and just like then my mind immediately went to the embalmist as I thought of David Fisher from 6 Feet Under.

I've been in a 3-some several times, plus a 4-some of sorts twice...

I was actually in a 3-way relationship that lasted for a few months, twice, with the same two guys.