If you are not sexually compatible what do you or what have you done?

I have a very high barometer and very impatient with grown women who are not on my level, but I have learned to come to grips with life experiences that are just not the same. What do you do knowing the person you are with will just never be that freak you need them to be?

DexMSR said:

Either communicate it to them and see if you can release the inner freak or break up.

For me, pleasing is the most important. so I do change to adapt to the situation, and it does make me happier when she moans louder because of it

butt sex

I end it.

JustErin said:

Me too. I have tried teaching guys, using patience and all that and sometimes it just aint there. I must have sexual chemistry with my partner.

I have a hard time with people that are inhibited. I usually have to break it off.

Unfortunately I'm from the school of, "you either got it or you don't". You can't learn to be a freak. If I have sex with a non freak I tend to become non freakish myself. It spoils the moment.


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uh, get rid of them ... I mean, end it.

IAmNotSpats said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I prefer lovey dovey sex to straight out freak but a good combination of both is nice

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Do yo thang Supa!!!!!


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applekisses said:

I am naturally gentle. But when I'm asked to spank and bite, I do so with pleasure.

if dex gave up on everyone that wasn't as freaky as he is he wouldn't be getting much sex!

IAmNotSpats said:

I like a guy that likes to please...but I also love a guy that is selfish and goes for what he wants and really likes.

there is a (I guess) respectable amount of time you try and work with the person, to find out what and where their comfort levels are. But if they're just not into your level of freaky sex the yes, I think it's best to end it.

I don't have that kind of patience so it better be a small learning curve...either you're open to it or you're not, it's that simple.

DexMSR said:

some people shouldnt be freaky

JustErin said:

I can do that too if it pleases you

IAmNotSpats said:

Ok, I see what you're saying.

But you'll do ANYTHING they want, just to please them?

JustErin said:

for me selfish only goes so far. I can entertain it for a little while but when my needs are being neglected and flat out ignored, fuck that.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

some people only get turned on by being submissive

JustErin said:

Well, I've never reached my limits of nastiness. So I'm not sure what they are. But basically yes, I'd do anything to please. That's what turns me on, to see the woman enjoying, either the gentle touch or the pain.

It's only happened to me once that I wasn't sexually compatible with someone I was into, so it kind of caught me by surprise. As it turned out we never ended up being together anyway for other reasons so I'm not quite sure how much the lack of sexual chemistry alone would have affected our relationship.

IAmNotSpats said:

Or a shit in the mouth?

NastyPig said:

Definitely.

IAmNotSpats said:

A man after my own heart...

JustErin said:

Never been asked to do it, I don't think I can.
Wird that it's what you ask, because I was considering adding scat to my sentence as some of the stuff I'd probably stop at.

IAmNotSpats said:

IAmNotSpats said:

You're so inhibited.



Just kidding.

All that kinda stuff is not even romotely sexual to me, so it's a huge turn off.

I get bored to easily!

Especially if there is no sustainability...

I really don't understand how/why people get into these types of situations at all. An open dialogue on sex will determine if there is sexually compatability in the very beginning.