Ok, so what I want to know you from you girls is...



You know how when you find a guy attractive and you flirt with him, but you're trying not to make it so obvious (but we know that you're doing it anyways).

Are you kind of non flirting in a flirting way, like thinking we're really not noticing, but that we'll be charmed by it? Or are you thinking we definitely know it's a game, and it's a challenge to see if we'll take the bait?


Cause the non flirting flirting is cute and all, but guys are simple creatures. We get our shit jacked up trying to figure that shit out.


Anyways, can I get an answer before noon my time today?

Thanks.



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[Edited 5/2/07 16:47pm]

Thanks for the Smiths t-shirt boo.

I mean, bro.





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[Edited 5/2/07 7:51am]

Puhlease, as if any woman would flirt with you either way.

Jacked on the first reply

Teacher said:

and there it is

Bev, do the damn thing!

It depends on the girl. They could also be non-flirt flirting cause they're shy and/or insecure and wondering if you'll flirt back and are afraid to really put themselves out there with overt flirting.

Or maybe they're really not flirting.

Fauxie said:

My first non-Miami invasion avatar will be dedicated to your hot ass.




Literally.

Well that all depends.

What time is is there now?

CarrieMpls said:

Yes but there's a real distinction between the UN-Flirt and just not flirting, and that could mean the difference between sacktime and a slap upside the head, right?


I mean, shouldn't there be more defined protocols?


Actually , no --that makes a girl look like a slut, right?

susannah said:

I'm not good at flirting - I'm too shy.

Imago said:

Allow me to explain: When we look like we are flirting is like "I am sort of flirting but I don't want to make it obvious (even thought it is) because what if the guy is not liking it or is not flirting back? It's a mystery! Other than that I don't think that we women should give away our flirting secrets! NEVER!

applekisses said:

But are you trying to UN-Flirt, or are you just not flirting?

Imago said:

It's mystery....

reading this thread actually made a chill go down my spine. no lie.

Imago said:

I guess I'm really trying to UN-flirt...but, I really do want to flirt, I just don't know how, exactly.

Anx said:

why?

CarrieMpls said:

yeah, it does depend on the person/girl because it could be anyone of all things mentioned. I think the safest way to go is to cut out the BS and just be direct.

Imago said:

Defined protocols for flirting? Like courtship rules?

Should a girl give you her handkerchief to signal she's interested?

CarrieMpls said:

That would be so cute!

applekisses said:

I'm generally too shy to also. I'm a subtle flirter. It usually means I end up having to slap the guy upside the head with, hey you! I like you! And they're generally clueless.

Paradisekiss03 said:

Imago said:

The thing with me is that some guys think that I am flirting with them but that is just how my personality is. I say hi to everyone, I ask everyone how they are doing, etc. I am nice with everyone I see in my classes. So I am just just a friendly person, but some guys perceive it as flirtatious. ( I am not intentionaly flirting with the guy).
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I will flirt with almost everyone. I mean profusely to the point that it's nauseating.


But I seldom mean anything more than to just make them laugh.


When I want to do the nasty, I just kind of let the situation take care of itself, or the drugs kick in.

Imago said:

Well, see there's that also. Completely harmless non-flirt flirting.

CarrieMpls said:

Maybe that should be the Lie-Flirt.

Where regardless if you're attracted to the person or not, you're going to flirt just cause you'd rather not talk about work or the weather--basically it's entertainment flirting.

I never flirt.. I just fuck..

REDFEATHERS said:

Does that mean you have to talk about work or the weather afterwords.


This shit gets complicated.

Imago said:

Oh hell no.. just leave the money on the side, I give myself a quick douche before I leave and then go shoe shopping!