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Thread started 04/25/07 2:29pm

JDInteractive

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Moral Dilemna

Ok so Im in a bit of a moral dilemna. My camera broke yesterday and today I needed to buy a new one (although I couldnt really afford it) for my travels. Apparently foreigners cant take out a certain amount of money from the banks in Argentina due to the economic collapse that the country went through. I wasnt to know this and I was running around until I came to one bank...

I was in a queue behind a woman and when it came to my turn the screen on the ATM machine presented me with a number of options, one of which to withdraw cash. I thought this was odd as normally you put your card in first of cause. As such, I took out the right amount of money that I required and low and behold the woman who had left the banks card came out of the machine. I ran out after her but I couldnt find her, so here I was with the money that I needed for the camera and her card...

As such, I gave the card to one of the bank security cards but not the cash because I dont speak spanish and wouldnt know how to explain what had happened. I bought the camera because I do need it but I feel awful in case the woman cannot retrieve her lost funds if that is the case...

I think I might go back to the bank tomorrow and try and explain. Although I should maybe thank my look and let it go. What would you do? Has this happened to anyone else? confused
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Reply #1 posted 04/25/07 2:30pm

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This has only happened to me before whereby I ran after a woman to return her handbag she left on a bench. Maybe I should stop worrying and forget about it.
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Reply #2 posted 04/25/07 2:31pm

Mach

omg was there a security camera ?



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you might get busted
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Reply #3 posted 04/25/07 2:31pm

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stay zipped
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Reply #4 posted 04/25/07 2:31pm

fathermcmeekle

JDInteractive said:

...Has this happened to anyone else? confused

Exact same thing happened to me, except I wasn't in Argentina!

So, sorry I can't help.

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Reply #5 posted 04/25/07 2:33pm

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Mach said:

omg was there a security camera ?



eek

you might get busted


I hadnt thought about that and I hope not. If it is the case then of cause I would explain what had happened and willingly return the money aslong as I knew it was being returned to the woman.
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Reply #6 posted 04/25/07 2:43pm

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U are SO gonna get busted!

Did u use the ATM with your card after her?
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Reply #7 posted 04/25/07 2:45pm

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The moral aspect: Of course you should return it. You realized it was someone else's money, and yet you still took it. That's stealing. The fact that you had her card and thereby her identity but didn't give the money back (to the bank) immediately anyway doesn't exactly make things better.

The legal aspect: Since you've stolen her money you've already incriminated yourself, so bringing the money back won't make that undone and you might get busted when you hand it over. On the other hand, if you don't give it back then it will be even worse if they do catch you.

It's your call.
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Reply #8 posted 04/25/07 2:48pm

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What I described in my previous post is kind of a worst case scenario though. Who knows, maybe she's rich and will never miss the money, or maybe if you give it back everybody involved will just be grateful and might even give you a reward. shrug
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Reply #9 posted 04/25/07 2:49pm

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What would I do? I know what wouldn't have done. I wouldn't have stolen the money in the first place (which is what you did).
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Reply #10 posted 04/25/07 2:51pm

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Place urself in another shoes how would u feel if that happened 2 u in my opinion Honesty is the best Policy.
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Reply #11 posted 04/25/07 2:54pm

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take the money back to the bank NOW.
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Reply #12 posted 04/25/07 3:21pm

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Go back to the bank and try to explain. Chances are, they may have someone who can translate to help you.
I would hope you won't get into any trouble over it, but at the same time you don't want it hanging over your head either.
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Reply #13 posted 04/25/07 3:26pm

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FLEE!!!

FLEE THE COUNTRY IMMEDIATELY!!!

FLEE BEFORE THEY COMMIT YOU TO DEATH BY THE FIRING SQUAD!!


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Reply #14 posted 04/25/07 3:32pm

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I would take the money back to the bank as soon as possible. Did you see the name on the card? Maybe you can just say that you need to deposit this money into her acount. I'm sure there is a way. This woman might be in real trouble by losing that much money.
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Reply #15 posted 04/25/07 3:36pm

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I feel really rotten about this. Id never steal from anyone. I will return the money in the morning.
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Reply #16 posted 04/25/07 3:37pm

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JDInteractive said:

I feel really rotten about this. Id never steal from anyone. I will return the money in the morning.



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Reply #17 posted 04/25/07 3:37pm

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OK, if you left the bank I don't think you should go back! lol That might be considered stealing, which it was spank

Do you know of anyone who can translate or who might know what to do to get that money back to the woman and her account?
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Reply #18 posted 04/25/07 3:40pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OK, if you left the bank I don't think you should go back! lol That might be considered stealing, which it was spank

Do you know of anyone who can translate or who might know what to do to get that money back to the woman and her account?


Yes, I will talk to the receptionist at our hostel in the morning. I feel sick, really sick. I hadnt even thought about the trouble Im potentially in.
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Reply #19 posted 04/25/07 3:43pm

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JDInteractive said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OK, if you left the bank I don't think you should go back! lol That might be considered stealing, which it was spank

Do you know of anyone who can translate or who might know what to do to get that money back to the woman and her account?


Yes, I will talk to the receptionist at our hostel in the morning. I feel sick, really sick. I hadnt even thought about the trouble Im potentially in.

Don't tell her it's you!!! lol Tell her your "friend" did this. They might be very Naziish about shit like this and sentence you to a life sentence lol Don't go to jail. If it turns out to be kind of impossible for you to return the money, make up for it by donating that amount of money to some cause or to someone nod
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Reply #20 posted 04/25/07 3:43pm

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JDInteractive said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OK, if you left the bank I don't think you should go back! lol That might be considered stealing, which it was spank

Do you know of anyone who can translate or who might know what to do to get that money back to the woman and her account?


Yes, I will talk to the receptionist at our hostel in the morning. I feel sick, really sick. I hadnt even thought about the trouble Im potentially in.


just tell them if they try to do anything to you, that you'll send for your friend SuperFunkyOrgangrinderSexy to do some Kung-fu in thier asses.


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Reply #21 posted 04/25/07 3:44pm

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MarieAntoinette said:

JDInteractive said:



Yes, I will talk to the receptionist at our hostel in the morning. I feel sick, really sick. I hadnt even thought about the trouble Im potentially in.


just tell them if they try to do anything to you, that you'll send for your friend SuperFunkyOrgangrinderSexy to do some Kung-fu in thier asses.


cowboy

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Good luck JD hug
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Reply #22 posted 04/25/07 3:51pm

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JDInteractive said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OK, if you left the bank I don't think you should go back! lol That might be considered stealing, which it was spank

Do you know of anyone who can translate or who might know what to do to get that money back to the woman and her account?


Yes, I will talk to the receptionist at our hostel in the morning. I feel sick, really sick. I hadnt even thought about the trouble Im potentially in.


I'm sure you can work something out. You're only trying to do the right thing.

Don't worry. hug
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Reply #23 posted 04/25/07 4:12pm

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CarrieMpls said:

JDInteractive said:



Yes, I will talk to the receptionist at our hostel in the morning. I feel sick, really sick. I hadnt even thought about the trouble Im potentially in.


I'm sure you can work something out. You're only trying to do the right thing.

Don't worry. hug


I agree with Carrie.

Go tomorrow to do what you can to rectify the situation. Doing the right thing isn't always the easiest or most comfortable course of action but, in the end, you'll be glad you did it - and you'll feel much better.

Also try not to think too much about what's already happened. What's done is done and cannot be changed. Focus now on how you're going to set things right, and be proud of yourself for doing that.

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Reply #24 posted 04/25/07 4:17pm

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OK, I think he should be worried about and considering whether or not walking away with that money knowingly constitutes a crime on his part. He needs to find that out before going to the bank.
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Reply #25 posted 04/25/07 4:24pm

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jd don't work yourself up into a tizzy
i understand how standing there with the money in your hand you couldn't have been sure that it would get returned to the woman's account not speaking spanish.

perhaps there is a consulate or something where you can find interpretive help to explain your situation with the bank. check into that hug
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Reply #26 posted 04/25/07 4:33pm

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emm said:

jd don't work yourself up into a tizzy
i understand how standing there with the money in your hand you couldn't have been sure that it would get returned to the woman's account not speaking spanish.

perhaps there is a consulate or something where you can find interpretive help to explain your situation with the bank. check into that hug

Yes! A consulate! You don't know the laws of that country so you better be sure about things before you go back.
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Reply #27 posted 04/25/07 4:38pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

emm said:

jd don't work yourself up into a tizzy
i understand how standing there with the money in your hand you couldn't have been sure that it would get returned to the woman's account not speaking spanish.

perhaps there is a consulate or something where you can find interpretive help to explain your situation with the bank. check into that hug

Yes! A consulate! You don't know the laws of that country so you better be sure about things before you go back.

nod that should be his first port of call if he's gonna hand it back.
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Reply #28 posted 04/25/07 4:40pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

emm said:

jd don't work yourself up into a tizzy
i understand how standing there with the money in your hand you couldn't have been sure that it would get returned to the woman's account not speaking spanish.

perhaps there is a consulate or something where you can find interpretive help to explain your situation with the bank. check into that hug

Yes! A consulate! You don't know the laws of that country so you better be sure about things before you go back.


send me a check for 2500.00$ and i'll see what i can do

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Reply #29 posted 04/25/07 5:21pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

emm said:

jd don't work yourself up into a tizzy
i understand how standing there with the money in your hand you couldn't have been sure that it would get returned to the woman's account not speaking spanish.

perhaps there is a consulate or something where you can find interpretive help to explain your situation with the bank. check into that hug

Yes! A consulate! You don't know the laws of that country so you better be sure about things before you go back.


Agreed. I think you should return the money, but know what you're getting into. nod
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