Getting pregnant or having a kid to rescue your relationship or make a man stay with you is A STUPID IDEA. If you are thinking about or have done this, you need therapy in the biggest way. Oh, it's not fair to your kid either.

agreed

I also agree

Natisse said:

I won't tell anyone how you tried to trap Alun!

I knew

I know.. its crap.
[Edited 4/12/07 16:29pm]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

omg... that's so not funny it IS funny you wait till I see you!!

and Men u lay down with no protection u step up 2 the plate if a baby happens the child is the innocent 1 be a good father

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

CRAP

well, i guess i can always sell it on the black market...

I don't think I ever wanna get pregnant.....period. Kids as a pawn

Anx said:

Ebay

AnckSuNamun said:

Ebabybay

Anx said:

Ok.....that was just corny

AnckSuNamun said:

oopsies

I have never seen it work out for any of the girls I have known that did this type of thing.Always seemed like a really bad idea to me..

I feel sorry for the kids.

It takes 2 to tango.

And anyway, who does this?

CarrieMpls said:

Sadly- I have known a few girls that did it thinking it would keep the man around...sad really.

CarrieMpls said:

Unfortunately lots of women

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Ummm, where's this coming from??
As long as there's manipulative child bearing women and males who think birth control is up to the woman.....Voila!!
Me, I had a tubal ligation years ago, so I've found other creative ways to be manipulative. I generally withhold sex until I get what I want, and proceed to walk around in cutoffs and a tight tee...
.....then I slip a Viagra in the coffee
[Edited 4/12/07 16:32pm]

AnckSuNamun said:

Seriously??
Like, this is an epidemic?
I just don't understand how this could enter anyone's mind. Do they lie to the men they're sleping with? Do the men not even ask about birth control? How do you just decide to get pregnant without talking to the person your having sex with. It's so far from any kind of normal relations with anyone I simply can't fathom it.

katt said:

I don't believe a man should be forced to be a father if he's not willing. Better to not have a resentful man in the child's life.

CarrieMpls said:

You live in Utopiaville Growing up in the freakin ghetto you see this stupid shit all the time

xplnyrslf said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Both should take responsibility for contraceptives both should be using protection at all times there are no excuses either way.

katt said:

They should, yes. I think it's a horrid idea to fabricate a relationship from the fact a child is created. That is the worst excuse to stay together. Women who have children against the wishes of the man should take care of that kid themselves. It is their choice to have it.

katt said:

Well,
since all I can control is me,
I always pull out.

And being of Puerto Rican descent,
that some major physical, emotional & spiritual discipline right there, lemme tell you.

Illustrator said:

A good Catholic boy!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

We have a huge problem in the UK it seems young men and woman are not taken responsibility for there actions, we have a large percentage of 1 parent family’s where young men stay with the young woman for a short period during pregnancy or after giving birth then breaking up and not seeing or paying for the child they both produced. As much as I agree with you about woman who deliberately falls pregnant I do think men have 2 take some blame 2.