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My girly crush update! UPDATE 4/19 Ok then, for those that don't know, I have developed a girly crush on a co-worker. Annnnnywho, I recently walked out of the office and noticed that car's her license plate has vanity tags on it.... her tag says LWYSL8.
Now then. So anyway. I am in the ladies room. And uh, She is again in there changing so she can go straight to the gym afer work. Again, I am getting exposed to the gorgeous stupendous breasts. stooooopenduss. Anyway. I'm trying to resist the temptation to try a little girl on girl action but, what can i DO? I mean this time I am viewing the total.....totally naked body of this woman. And it is killing me!!!!! I am worried that she'lol catch me looking and I promise you that I don't just "happen" to show up when she is in there. I need to hear from heteros and homos alike. I wanna dooooo this woman in the worst way. I have never done that in my life. Do you think that being celibate for almost 5 years has caused this? Should I just sleep with some random male to rid of my lust? I really this girl's friendship but I swear I wanna suck her clit until she screams my name!!! Please please please help me!!!! What can I do? I know she does not swing that way and I really didn't think I did, shit I am 34 years old... she is a devout Christian. What to do, what to do? [Edited 4/19/07 14:53pm] | |
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alwayslate said: Ok then, for those that don't know, I have developed a girly crush on a co-worker. Annnnnywho, I recently walked out of the office and noticed that car's her license plate has vanity tags on it.... her tag says LWYSL8.
Now then. So anyway. I am in the ladies room. And uh, She is again in there changing so she can go straight to the gym afer work. Again, I am getting exposed to the gorgeous stupendous breasts. stooooopenduss. Anyway. I'm trying to resist the temptation to try a little girl on girl action but, what can i DO? I mean this time I am viewing the total.....totally naked body of this woman. And it is killing me!!!!! I am worried that she'll catch me looking. and I promise you that I don't just "happen" to show up when she is in there. I need to hear from heteros and homos alike. I wanna dooooo this woman in the worst way. I have never done that in my life. Do you think that being celibate for almost 5 years has caused this? Should I just sleep with some random male to rid of my lust? I really this girl's friendship but I swear I wanna suck her clit until she screams my name!!! Please please please help me!!!! What can I do? I know she does not swing that way and I really didn't think I did, shit I am 34 years old... she is a devout Christian. What to do, what to do? | |
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Let's have sex. | |
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IAmNotSpats said: Let's have sex.
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alwayslate said: Ok then, for those that don't know, I have developed a girly crush on a co-worker. Annnnnywho, I recently walked out of the office and noticed that car's her license plate has vanity tags on it.... her tag says LWYSL8.
Are we supposed to know what that means? 
I have no idea and depending on what I say, this could end up in politics and religion.  | |
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alwayslate said: Ok then, for those that don't know, I have developed a girly crush on a co-worker. Annnnnywho, I recently walked out of the office and noticed that car's her license plate has vanity tags on it.... her tag says LWYSL8.
Now then. So anyway. I am in the ladies room. And uh, She is again in there changing so she can go straight to the gym afer work. Again, I am getting exposed to the gorgeous stupendous breasts. stooooopenduss. Anyway. I'm trying to resist the temptation to try a little girl on girl action but, what can i DO? I mean this time I am viewing the total.....totally naked body of this woman. And it is killing me!!!!! I am worried that she'lol catch me looking and I promise you that I don't just "happen" to show up when she is in there. I need to hear from heteros and homos alike. I wanna dooooo this woman in the worst way. I have never done that in my life. Do you think that being celibate for almost 5 years has caused this? Should I just sleep with some random male to rid of my lust? I really this girl's friendship but I swear I wanna suck her clit until she screams my name!!! Please please please help me!!!! What can I do? I know she does not swing that way and I really didn't think I did, shit I am 34 years old... she is a devout Christian. What to do, what to do? talk to her. say hello. see if she likes you back | |
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alwayslate said: Ok then, for those that don't know, I have developed a girly crush on a co-worker. Annnnnywho, I recently walked out of the office and noticed that car's her license plate has vanity tags on it.... her tag says LWYSL8.
Now then. So anyway. I am in the ladies room. And uh, She is again in there changing so she can go straight to the gym afer work. Again, I am getting exposed to the gorgeous stupendous breasts. stooooopenduss. Anyway. I'm trying to resist the temptation to try a little girl on girl action but, what can i DO? I mean this time I am viewing the total.....totally naked body of this woman. And it is killing me!!!!! I am worried that she'lol catch me looking and I promise you that I don't just "happen" to show up when she is in there. I need to hear from heteros and homos alike. I wanna dooooo this woman in the worst way. I have never done that in my life. Do you think that being celibate for almost 5 years has caused this? Should I just sleep with some random male to rid of my lust? I really this girl's friendship but I swear I wanna suck her clit until she screams my name!!! Please please please help me!!!! What can I do? I know she does not swing that way and I really didn't think I did, shit I am 34 years old... she is a devout Christian. What to do, what to do? LWYSL8? Always late? What does that have to do with anything? (edit: oh, wait, I just noticed your screen name. . .I'm slow sometimes  )
Look, you're somewhere on the bisexual part of the spectrum. It's not a big deal unless, you know, it is to you. 
Why are you sure that she's straight? Get her out for drinks and start a conversation about how you might do the right chick (Angelina Jolie is always a safe bet  ) and see how she reacts. If she's into you too, she'll take that opportunity to open a door. If she does, fuckin' walk through it. You only live once.  [Edited 4/16/07 17:30pm] oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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XxAxX said: IAmNotSpats said: Let's have sex.
IAmNotSpats Seriously, I'm NOT. | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: LWYSL8? Always late? What does that have to do with anything? (edit: oh, wait, I just noticed your screen name. . .I'm slow sometimes )
Look, you're somewhere on the bisexual part of the spectrum. It's not a big deal unless, you know, it is to you.
Why are you sure that she's straight? Get her out for drinks and start a conversation about how you might do the right chick (Angelina Jolie is always a safe bet ) and see how she reacts. If she's into you too, she'll take that opportunity to open a door. If she does, fuckin' walk through it. You only live once.
[Edited 4/16/07 17:30pm] what are the odds of her vanity tag being my screen name? Plus I feel like I am being punished for being so judgemental against homosexuals by having this lust for her put on me. | |
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I do think you might have to spend some time with her outside of work. To sort of feel her out...so to speak.
I had a similar situation about 7 years ago- though I knew she was into women- it was some thing new for me shall we say. Since you are not sure about her attraction preferences- you should find that out first. | |
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Shanti1 said: I do think you might have to spend some time with her outside of work. To sort of feel her out...so to speak.
I had a similar situation about 7 years ago- though I knew she was into women- it was some thing new for me shall we say. Since you are not sure about her attraction preferences- you should find that out first. Well, I have never been with a woman. ever. never even been attracted to women before. I feel like I would be in major trouble if I made any kind of proposition. If she was agreeable it would still be bad. spiritually I mean. God I wish I could grow a dick for like 4 weeks.She is soooo fucking beautiful. | |
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I had never ever been with a women either- I had never been attracted to a women before her. I am spiritual but not in a religious way so when I started feeling those things for her I did not feel any conflicts in that respect. I was taken by surprise that I had those feelings for a women but we formed a friendship outside of work and then took it from there. I have no regrets- it was pretty amazing. Though I think both ppl have to be aware of the situation and feel comfortable with it. | |
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alwayslate said: Shanti1 said: I do think you might have to spend some time with her outside of work. To sort of feel her out...so to speak.
I had a similar situation about 7 years ago- though I knew she was into women- it was some thing new for me shall we say. Since you are not sure about her attraction preferences- you should find that out first. Well, I have never been with a woman. ever. never even been attracted to women before. I feel like I would be in major trouble if I made any kind of proposition. If she was agreeable it would still be bad. spiritually I mean. God I wish I could grow a dick for like 4 weeks.She is soooo fucking beautiful. Oh. 
Yeah, is it possible that you could look at this, rather than a curse, as an opportunity for growth? Greater understanding of people who are more like you than you thought? What kind of God would be fine with you having meaningless sex for a few weeks with this person as a man, but really pissed if you did it as a chick? I mean. . . seriously. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: alwayslate said: Well, I have never been with a woman. ever. never even been attracted to women before. I feel like I would be in major trouble if I made any kind of proposition. If she was agreeable it would still be bad. spiritually I mean. God I wish I could grow a dick for like 4 weeks.She is soooo fucking beautiful. Oh.
Yeah, is it possible that you could look at this, rather than a curse, as an opportunity for growth? Greater understanding of people who are more like you than you thought? What kind of God would be fine with you having meaningless sex for a few weeks with this person as a man, but really pissed if you did it as a chick? I mean. . . seriously. Exactly...I felt blessed not cursed. If you look at it as a curse or a bad thing then you will not appreciate or grow from the experience. I learned a lot about myself through that relationship. I guess it is all in how you look at it really. | |
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i thought you just really admired her tits!
lmao i didn't realize the rest of her anatomy was playing a part at all
ahhh perhaps you feel comfortable expressing these thoughts either because you are comfortable with her or because you see her as someone impossible... therefore you don't have to deal with these feelings but it doesn't sound like they are going anywhere anytime soon. i think you should explore these attractions honestly and get comfortable with them!! and keep us updated  She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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I have absolutely no advice whatsoever, this is so not something I can relate to at all....
but I do find it very interesting and wanted to post so I could continue to read what others have to say and how things turn out for you.  | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: What kind of God would be fine with you having meaningless sex for a few weeks with this person as a man, but really pissed if you did it as a chick? I mean. . . seriously. She said what I came here to say.  The Normal Whores Club | |
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Is this girl married or does she have a boyfriend? If so, it wouldn't be so great for you to break them up to find yourself. You could try to hang out with her and see if you can find out something, but it just sounds like a hopeless crush to me, with no reason to expect anything positive. | |
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you're gonna' have to send pictures! | |
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SCISSOR!!! "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." |
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thedribbler said: you're gonna' have to send pictures!
totally. I wanna see pictures!  | |
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If it is just a crush and you are going to feel bad about acting on your feelings then I would not pursue any thing with her. | |
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You must post a picture of her before anybody here can give you any further advise. Use your camera phone. | |
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JustErin said: I have absolutely no advice whatsoever, this is so not something I can relate to at all....
but I do find it very interesting and wanted to post so I could continue to read what others have to say and how things turn out for you. ditto I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09  | |
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PurpleRighteous1 said: JustErin said: I have absolutely no advice whatsoever, this is so not something I can relate to at all....
but I do find it very interesting and wanted to post so I could continue to read what others have to say and how things turn out for you. ditto that's what i should've gone with.  | |
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Doing my usual lunch time stroll. Homegirl decides to join me. I was nervous so I invited another co-worker and she was like, "No y'all go ahead."
So I am alone with this girl. Usual chit chat and me being my usual light hearted funny self. She is talking about her problems finding a decent guy. I agree that good men are hard to find. But she mentions some lady she knows at her gym that has been 'hitting on her' lately and how it's making her uncomfortable. She says, "I mean, I just don't swing that way." And she asks me if I have ever been attracted to another girl before. WTF?! I say, "uh, no, not before." I was wondering if I over emphasized "beeefore" and if she picked up on that. Am I in trouble? Oh Lord, anyway,being the punk ass bitch that I am I quickly changed the subject. I realized that I can't do it. Even if she was to pull a Purple Rain move like "We have to go your place" I would be all Apollonia about it like, "No, we can't." I think admiring from afar the best thing now. But d'you think she was feeling me out for something? Did I kill a grand experiment? Does she think I am gay or something? Forget it. Thanks for listening. | |
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Sounds like she's noticed that you've probably been checking her out and wanted to verify if that was really the case. And you seem to have given her the answer she was looking for, so now you'll just have to see what that might lead to. The whole "I just don't swing that way" thing doesn't make it sound too promising of course, but it could be a smokescreen to protect herself against any potential disgust on your part in case you hadn't been interested at all. | |
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retina said: Sounds like she's noticed that you've probably been checking her out and wanted to verify if that was really the case. And you seem to have given her the answer she was looking for, so now you'll just have to see what that might lead to. The whole "I just don't swing that way" thing doesn't make it sound too promising of course, but it could be a smokescreen to protect herself against any potential disgust on your part in case you hadn't been interested at all.
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Was she actually talking about you? | |
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live4lust said: Was she actually talking about you?
no! at least i don't think so. lol. oh brother. she said this lady has been complimenting her a lot on her physique and lately even asked her for her number. I never did that. Now that you mention it, she could have just made it up to let me know in an indirect way that she ain't havin' it. But then why would she ask to tag along with me on my walk? | |
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