Is it just me?

On TOP DESIGN the guy who won was a big queen, but he was married and has a daughter.

On SHEAR GENIUS the biggest queen just said "I'm not gay or anything but that guy is gorgeous."

I just find it interesting. I have nothing against effeminate men, hello!!! Is it internalized homophobia? Has anyone else noticed?


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I sort of went out on a couple of dates with a guy like that When my (now) husband met him at a party he asked him straight out if he was gay and I was like but he said no, and I know he is now married and has a kid.

another variation on normal I guess, maybe a more unusual one.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

You need therapy, PRESTO!

ZombieKitten said:

Leo

PANDURITO said:

he gets away with it too! All the gay gays think he's hot

ZombieKitten said:

He'd be succesful over here then

PANDURITO said:

you want him too don't you!

ZombieKitten said:

Yeah He looks nice

Are we talking music now? I like that

oh, oh

PANDURITO said:

I'm booking it right now!



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I think I found my real issue with it. Are they really straight or are they just saying they are because they're on television.


M

I'm more confused by the macho gay men.

i haven't seen Shear Genius, but I LOVE Jaclyn Smith...

madartista said:

Yes Jaclyn Smith is gorgeous. I always wanted to be her when I played Charlie's Angels with my friends.....DID I SAY THAT OUT LOUD?


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coolcat said:

I'm usually attracted to masculine men but not HYPER-MASCULINE. The funny thing is that most masculine guys that I've been with are total bottoms, and that's quite okay. So see folks, there really are no rules.


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I thought he was gay too

How did I miss the finale of Top Design??

Effeminate straight men

i dunno. effeminate straight men rock.

i mean, women can get away with saying other women are hot, and they can even have "lesbian moments", yet they can still identify as straight with no problem.

why can't straight guys have gay moments or have some sugar in their shoes without abandoning their allegiance to mrs. va-jay-jay altogether?

yay queeny straight guys!

This thread speaks to me.

Imago said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Maybe they were raised by their mothers without a real male role-model?

Imago said:

this thread speaks FOR you.

Anx said:

you love me. SureThing doesn't stand a chance. You love me.

My husband is very feminine.

I like that about him.

Imago said:

Whatever!

I started him a thread in Music Non Price.

So there!

Imago said:

anyone who can tell the difference between a turkey and a screen door is instantly doable in my book.

SureThing said:

maybe i'm a heteroish homosexual.

Anx said:

OMG

WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????

I DO have a chance!!!!!

Tell me.....who thinks i am feminine in some ways?

SureThing said:

i just saw the thread you started.

no, i'm definitely queer as a catfart.