I got a message and then a friend request from someone who just said

"found you again! "


And I looked all over the profile, and it certainly looks like someone I might know. But I have no freaking clue who it is.

So I sent a polite message saying, "forgive me... do I know you?"


And his reply was, "that's a dumb question"









Am I rude to not remember? Or is this person messing with me? I hate the thought that it's someone I met in my crazy clubbing days and was too smashed to remember.
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Yeah people do that all the time on myspace.

No, I don't think you're rude for not remembering who it is. It's hard...and I do know from experience. They might be just messing with you...I get similar notes from spammers. But I don't know for sure, so...

Protege said:

But the spammers are usually rather obvious. I don't think this one is.

In any case, I don't think I want to reply to someone who was rude.

CarrieMpls said:

I didn't either.

Lotta ho's wanna be my friend, but what else is new....

CarrieMpls said:

Thats strange
No Its not rude not to remember

Do they have a pic of themselves? Make sure they refresh your memory,ifyou really do "know" them

there are a couple of people playing the whole "wooo, i'm mysterious, don't you wish you knew who i was" game with me, so i play the "wooo, i'm deleting your ass" game right back.

if you cant tell me who you are before i add you?.. fuck you simple as that i dont have time for shit like that y'know?

I got one that said "you are pretty cute for a nerd" and my reply was "SHUT UP!!!"

i had a man in his forties ask if he could buy me for a night once.

no one really messes with me, though.

evenstar3 said:

once I got propositioned by a phillipino gent in his 50s, so I went and looked at the comments on his page and it was all his nephews and nieces saying "omg uncle ting tong is on myspace!" and "you are so cool now uncle ting tong"

I only recently bit the bullet and got an account and only because its a great way to keeping up on whats going on with the music you like. I don't use it for friends or to meet people or whatever. Thus far its been really helpful with the artist that I keep up with.

Dont talk to me about MySpace.

Anx said:

JDInteractive said:

ZombieKitten said:

well, 'ting tong' means crazy in Thai...

ZombieKitten said:

goodness gracious

CarrieMpls said:

No more drunk one night stands for YOU, missy!

Now give us his myspace page so we can spam him!

HamsterHuey said:

Goo!!!

CarrieMpls said:

Common, orgnote me!

Fauxie said:

and he was from phillipines, I am sure they know what it means

I had some guy in his early 30's tell me that we went to school together

Not yet! I cant wait!

A guy sent me this message:

i looking good a friend

Well I never answered his message .

And then there was that guy who wrote he was liking my pics and when I asked him why he hadn't at least one picture of himself he answered that he was divorced and doesn't want to be the target of his former wife .

And then there was a am a "romantic story writer" well I think you can imagine what kind of stories he was writing .

There were also some guys who wrote me in a very flirty way, but nothing really untasty .

But some people I haven't had any contact with for quite some time are now myspace friends of mine, so that's cool and I have also met some really nice people over there.

JDInteractive said:

I haven't had a single message/friend request from a person I didnt know since I made my profile private. Which I find rather surprising, considering my present profile picture! But hey

susannah said:

Its hot but I am new to MySpace so I didnt want to folks to think I a perv. Which I am but lets keep that hush OK?

JDInteractive said:

Thats ok JD, you're alright