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PrintableSureThing said: DexMSR said: You cannot be fucking serious!!!! "Whaaaaa"...I feel fat"....Whaaaaa" Throw away your "Cosmo's" "Vogues" and whatever else that is full of imagery that will make you feel this way and begin to let yourself know that your body has given life to such beautiful souls that they will not deserve to think less of themselves in a world so fucking backwards that the thought of any damn body type is cause for them shutting themselves in then lying about it which does even more damage then just loving all of life for what it is.....LIFE!! You muthafuckas KILL ME!! Your so cute. 
No, for serious though, I hear ya. I'd never let my daughter fall into that cycle. If your daughter is witnessing YOUR cycle....how much of that do you think you can erase?? The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: 1sexymf said: Damn Dex - chill out! We know you have a body to drool over, but many women just can't help feeling a little insecure sometimes. WHAP! Why? Why? Why on earth is there ever a reason to feel insecure about you body? Because of what? Pressures from whom? And if you are truly insecure with your body....THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT other than looking for some kind of pat on the back that does NOT change your body! I have the body type that I have from hard work and luck of the gene pool, and don't think there are not pressures in my world to keep it this way, but I didn't attain this body for personal reasons, just simple athletics period. Are you being poked, prodded and teased about how you look...FUCK THEM! Live for yourself! Are you being ignored and abused over how you look....get the fuck in line....and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Bottom Line is I would never ever allow how I feel about the way I look stop me from being true to myself and my friends PERIOD. I am going to stop being around people I cherish and adore because I feel FAT!!! FUCK THAT! I am going to cut myself OFF from all that makes me feel good in life because I am not the size I "used" to be.....Pffffft! Ok....NO MORE WORDS! Whap!! No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pantsa are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! | |
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If they are really your F R I E N D S you should go 
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PANDURITO said: If they are really your F R I E N D S you should go
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DexMSR said: SureThing said: Your so cute.
No, for serious though, I hear ya. I'd never let my daughter fall into that cycle. If your daughter is witnessing YOUR cycle....how much of that do you think you can erase?? I know. Your rite, I'm not gonna argue that. Me and my husband actually talked about this before we even got pregnant with our first. We were in Florida visiting a friend and she had a 7 yr old boy, a shitty relationship with a cheater, and an ugly eating disorder. The whole weekend I kept saying to Jer (husband) Did Jeremiah (little boy) eat today? Did Jackie (the mom) even offer him breakfast/lunch/dinner? So I would keep saying to Jeremiah, are you hungry honey? Want me to make you something? Cuz I figured since his mom was going through all this dramam with the boyfriend at the time, that she just wasn't coping with her son like normal. But he kept saying NO he didn't want anything cuz he didn't wanna get fat. A SEVEN YEAR OLD BOY was saying this. And he was a normal healthy SIZE! Then we ended up all coming back to PA together in the same car, cuz we were taking Jackie away from crazy boyfriend. I remember stopping at the resturaunt and Jeremiah order SALAD! What 7 yr old orders SALAD???? It was heart breaking.  | |
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SureThing said: CarrieMpls said: PS - I've also called in "fat" to social functions.
It's lame, but I know if I'm not feeling good about myself I'm not gonna have fun anyway and who wants a downer around at a party? REALLY????? So its completely normal then????? What a relief.  Dani, I think that's a reeally unhealthy way to think. You won't hang out with your friends because you're afraid you're the fattest? Have you ever considered that you might be the prettiest? You need to stop thinking this way, it's not good. | |
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1sexymf said: DexMSR said: Why? Why? Why on earth is there ever a reason to feel insecure about you body? Because of what? Pressures from whom? And if you are truly insecure with your body....THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT other than looking for some kind of pat on the back that does NOT change your body! I have the body type that I have from hard work and luck of the gene pool, and don't think there are not pressures in my world to keep it this way, but I didn't attain this body for personal reasons, just simple athletics period. Are you being poked, prodded and teased about how you look...FUCK THEM! Live for yourself! Are you being ignored and abused over how you look....get the fuck in line....and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Bottom Line is I would never ever allow how I feel about the way I look stop me from being true to myself and my friends PERIOD. I am going to stop being around people I cherish and adore because I feel FAT!!! FUCK THAT! I am going to cut myself OFF from all that makes me feel good in life because I am not the size I "used" to be.....Pffffft! Ok....NO MORE WORDS! Whap!! No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pantsa are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! Wait??? Didn't you say your a trainer. My prob is my hips, like ALL of a sudden. I don't know what happened to them? What do you recommend? | |
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SureThing said: DexMSR said: If your daughter is witnessing YOUR cycle....how much of that do you think you can erase?? I know. Your rite, I'm not gonna argue that. Me and my husband actually talked about this before we even got pregnant with our first. We were in Florida visiting a friend and she had a 7 yr old boy, a shitty relationship with a cheater, and an ugly eating disorder. The whole weekend I kept saying to Jer (husband) Did Jeremiah (little boy) eat today? Did Jackie (the mom) even offer him breakfast/lunch/dinner? So I would keep saying to Jeremiah, are you hungry honey? Want me to make you something? Cuz I figured since his mom was going through all this dramam with the boyfriend at the time, that she just wasn't coping with her son like normal. But he kept saying NO he didn't want anything cuz he didn't wanna get fat. A SEVEN YEAR OLD BOY was saying this. And he was a normal healthy SIZE! Then we ended up all coming back to PA together in the same car, cuz we were taking Jackie away from crazy boyfriend. I remember stopping at the resturaunt and Jeremiah order SALAD! What 7 yr old orders SALAD???? It was heart breaking. Dude, that's almost neglect.  | |
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1sexymf said: DexMSR said: Why? Why? Why on earth is there ever a reason to feel insecure about you body? Because of what? Pressures from whom? And if you are truly insecure with your body....THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT other than looking for some kind of pat on the back that does NOT change your body! I have the body type that I have from hard work and luck of the gene pool, and don't think there are not pressures in my world to keep it this way, but I didn't attain this body for personal reasons, just simple athletics period. Are you being poked, prodded and teased about how you look...FUCK THEM! Live for yourself! Are you being ignored and abused over how you look....get the fuck in line....and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Bottom Line is I would never ever allow how I feel about the way I look stop me from being true to myself and my friends PERIOD. I am going to stop being around people I cherish and adore because I feel FAT!!! FUCK THAT! I am going to cut myself OFF from all that makes me feel good in life because I am not the size I "used" to be.....Pffffft! Ok....NO MORE WORDS! Whap!! No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pantsa are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! Wow, I would love to be a size 4, but I'm a size 6, so I'm gonna have to be happy with that. Now if I could get rid of that little fat pocket that I have around my abdomen. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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SureThing said: 1sexymf said: No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pants are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! Wait??? Didn't you say your a trainer. My prob is my hips, like ALL of a sudden. I don't know what happened to them? What do you recommend? That is the Hardest place to take off weight - I hate to say it. I've had several say the same thing. "One day I looked at my hips and they were bigger. It happened without warning." Tae Bo and kickbxing is good for the legs and hips - especially side kick. anything you can do to lift you legs to exhaustion (the point where you literally can not do another rep). And good old fashioned leg lifts once in a while don't hurt either. Dancing is good too -anything that gets your hips swiveling. | |
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SureThing said: DexMSR said: If your daughter is witnessing YOUR cycle....how much of that do you think you can erase?? I know. Your rite, I'm not gonna argue that. Me and my husband actually talked about this before we even got pregnant with our first. We were in Florida visiting a friend and she had a 7 yr old boy, a shitty relationship with a cheater, and an ugly eating disorder. The whole weekend I kept saying to Jer (husband) Did Jeremiah (little boy) eat today? Did Jackie (the mom) even offer him breakfast/lunch/dinner? So I would keep saying to Jeremiah, are you hungry honey? Want me to make you something? Cuz I figured since his mom was going through all this dramam with the boyfriend at the time, that she just wasn't coping with her son like normal. But he kept saying NO he didn't want anything cuz he didn't wanna get fat. A SEVEN YEAR OLD BOY was saying this. And he was a normal healthy SIZE! Then we ended up all coming back to PA together in the same car, cuz we were taking Jackie away from crazy boyfriend. I remember stopping at the resturaunt and Jeremiah order SALAD! What 7 yr old orders SALAD???? It was heart breaking.  Awful. That scares me, they see, and copy EVERYTHING Rock n roll baby | |
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1sexymf said: DexMSR said: Why? Why? Why on earth is there ever a reason to feel insecure about you body? Because of what? Pressures from whom? And if you are truly insecure with your body....THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT other than looking for some kind of pat on the back that does NOT change your body! I have the body type that I have from hard work and luck of the gene pool, and don't think there are not pressures in my world to keep it this way, but I didn't attain this body for personal reasons, just simple athletics period. Are you being poked, prodded and teased about how you look...FUCK THEM! Live for yourself! Are you being ignored and abused over how you look....get the fuck in line....and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Bottom Line is I would never ever allow how I feel about the way I look stop me from being true to myself and my friends PERIOD. I am going to stop being around people I cherish and adore because I feel FAT!!! FUCK THAT! I am going to cut myself OFF from all that makes me feel good in life because I am not the size I "used" to be.....Pffffft! Ok....NO MORE WORDS! Whap!! No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pantsa are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! U know I love you girl.....but you also know I ain't taking your shit!! 
Whap! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: 1sexymf said: No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pantsa are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! U know I love you girl.....but you also know I ain't taking your shit!!
Whap! LOL. I love it when your're mean.
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gemini13 said: SureThing said: I know. Your rite, I'm not gonna argue that. Me and my husband actually talked about this before we even got pregnant with our first. We were in Florida visiting a friend and she had a 7 yr old boy, a shitty relationship with a cheater, and an ugly eating disorder. The whole weekend I kept saying to Jer (husband) Did Jeremiah (little boy) eat today? Did Jackie (the mom) even offer him breakfast/lunch/dinner? So I would keep saying to Jeremiah, are you hungry honey? Want me to make you something? Cuz I figured since his mom was going through all this dramam with the boyfriend at the time, that she just wasn't coping with her son like normal. But he kept saying NO he didn't want anything cuz he didn't wanna get fat. A SEVEN YEAR OLD BOY was saying this. And he was a normal healthy SIZE! Then we ended up all coming back to PA together in the same car, cuz we were taking Jackie away from crazy boyfriend. I remember stopping at the resturaunt and Jeremiah order SALAD! What 7 yr old orders SALAD???? It was heart breaking. Dude, that's almost neglect. Yup. I was so taken by the little boy, and that weekend is actually when I decided I wanted kids of my own, and what type of Mother I wanted to be. | |
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1sexymf said: DexMSR said: U know I love you girl.....but you also know I ain't taking your shit!!
Whap! LOL. I love it when your're mean.
Just kidding - WHAP! So you have a "Big Black Mean Man" fetish.....I KNEW IT!! WHAP WHAP!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: 1sexymf said: LOL. I love it when your're mean.
Just kidding - WHAP! So you have a "Big Black Mean Man" fetish.....I KNEW IT!! WHAP WHAP!! What about me???? I'm a size 4 and I feel FAT! Aren't ya gonna say how ya love me????? | |
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DexMSR said: 1sexymf said: LOL. I love it when your're mean.
Just kidding - WHAP! So you have a "Big Black Mean Man" fetish.....I KNEW IT!! WHAP WHAP!!  . My secret is out.  | |
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SureThing said: DexMSR said: So you have a "Big Black Mean Man" fetish.....I KNEW IT!! WHAP WHAP!! What about me???? I'm a size 4 and I feel FAT! Aren't ya gonna say how ya love me????? Scroll Up!!! Whap!!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: SureThing said: What about me???? I'm a size 4 and I feel FAT! Aren't ya gonna say how ya love me????? Scroll Up!!! Whap!!! I don't see it. | |
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SureThing said: DexMSR said: So you have a "Big Black Mean Man" fetish.....I KNEW IT!! WHAP WHAP!! What about me???? I'm a size 4 and I feel FAT! Aren't ya gonna say how ya love me????? Pardon me for saying...if you're a size 4 and you feel fat, then you've got a fucking screw loose.  | |
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gemini13 said: SureThing said: What about me???? I'm a size 4 and I feel FAT! Aren't ya gonna say how ya love me????? Pardon me for saying...if you're a size 4 and you feel fat, then you've got a fucking screw loose. I know, and this thread really isn;t about my size it's about the fact that I feel bad for lying.
I know a size 4 is small, but I'm jiggely. | |
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psychodelicide said: 1sexymf said: No one is telling me I'm fat and I know I'm not. I've gained at little bit of weight in the past 6 months. and I KNOW I'm going to catch hell for this, but I wanted to stay a 4 but now I'm a 6. I gained a lot in the butt and my pantsa are tight. I work out 5-6 days a week and am mostly proud of what I have built. Women in general, however, are just insecure once in while. I don't buy into the images in Cosmo and Vogue. They're airbrushed to perfection - even the models don't look that way in real life. WHAP! Wow, I would love to be a size 4, but I'm a size 6, so I'm gonna have to be happy with that. Now if I could get rid of that little fat pocket that I have around my abdomen. Don't feel bad, girl. i hear that all the time. We are just genetically predisposed to retain a little fat there. | |
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1sexymf said: psychodelicide said: Wow, I would love to be a size 4, but I'm a size 6, so I'm gonna have to be happy with that. Now if I could get rid of that little fat pocket that I have around my abdomen. Don't feel bad, girl. i hear that all the time. We are just genetically predisposed to retain a little fat there. Can you recommend any exercises to maybe tone it down a little? Sit-ups would probably be good. Anything else?RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Since you all are talking about bathing suits and body fat and stuff:
here's my confession: I have been dieting all week and doing real good and exercising every day, drinking slimfast eating salads and lean proteins and avoiding carbs..etc...etc... And what did I do last night I frickin ate the kids' lefover  cuz I was so starved
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SureThing said: gemini13 said: Pardon me for saying...if you're a size 4 and you feel fat, then you've got a fucking screw loose. I know, and this thread really isn;t about my size it's about the fact that I feel bad for lying.
I know a size 4 is small, but I'm jiggely. Lifting weights tighten you up. | |
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babooshleeky said: Since you all are talking about bathing suits and body fat and stuff:
here's my confession: I have been dieting all week and doing real good and exercising every day, drinking slimfast eating salads and lean proteins and avoiding carbs..etc...etc... And what did I do last night I frickin ate the kids' lefover cuz I was so starved
damn Leave it to one of my threads to turn into diet central.
Thats okay. If you indulge yourself once in a while you won't feel so starved. After a week of being good a little mac won't hurt. | |
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psychodelicide said: 1sexymf said: Don't feel bad, girl. i hear that all the time. We are just genetically predisposed to retain a little fat there. Can you recommend any exercises to maybe tone it down a little? Sit-ups would probably be good. Anything else?Crunches work mostly the upper abs. For lower, try reverse crunches, or place a ball between your knees and lower and lift your legs (that's a tough one, the ball should be no more than 6 pounds max). You can keep your knees bent or straighten your legs, the latter is harder (and place your hands under your butt to protect your lower back). You can keep your shoulders either off on on your floor. And, oh, planks are awesome - remember to keep your abs pulled in! | |
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1sexymf said: psychodelicide said: Can you recommend any exercises to maybe tone it down a little? Sit-ups would probably be good. Anything else?Crunches work mostly the upper abs. For lower, try reverse crunches, or place a ball between your knees and lower and lift your legs (that's a tough one, the ball should be no more than 6 pounds max). You can keep your knees bent or straighten your legs, the latter is harder (and place your hands under your butt to protect your lower back). You can keep your shoulders either off on on your floor. And, oh, planks are awesome - remember to keep your abs pulled in! 
Can you explain both the reverse crunches and planks please? Rock n roll baby | |
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SureThing said: Leave it to one of my threads to turn into diet central.
Thats okay. If you indulge yourself once in a while you won't feel so starved. After a week of being good a little mac won't hurt. When i'm trying to slim, i'm good all week, then eat what I want on a saturday. U still lose weight. | |
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