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Printablemissfee said: CalhounSq said: My take Threaddy: some women just do stuff b/c they CAN. She doesn't necessarily wanna go there w/ you, but she's vain enough to see if she CAN.
Then again if she figured you could be interested I don't know why she'd bother unless she was also interested, but the girlfriend made it "out of reach" so maybe that was her safety net... it's safe to flirt w/ a guy when you know nothing will ever come of it. Flirting is fun, people get bored. Yup, we can be downright annoying sometimes  Whatever you do, DON'T get on a plane to help her move & miss the meeting  (just ignore that if you've yet to see "I Think I Love My Wife")...
 (body part = lips)   hey i saw the movie!!! and the main reason why i liked the movie was because, IT ACTUALLY HAPPENS...i don't get how these grown women acting like little girls can get men who already have someone (whether its a wife or a girlfriend) to do what they want...pay their bills, help them move, yadda yadda yadda..... and these men fall for it so easily 
anyway back to the subject at hand, She doesn't necessarily wanna go there w/ you, but she's vain enough to see if she CAN.
if there's nothing else you don't know about women, know that if you have somebody they want to test you to see if you will actually do what they want you to do (whether its sleeping with them, going out with them, just hanging out with them as you said your friend was trying to do, or paying for outrageous items) it's all about manipulation my friend. They usually convince the poor guy that the woman they already have is boring or not "exciting" enough for them. This gets the weak fella thinking and then they are sold hook line and sinker to this conniving woman (or what she really is, which is a little girl who doesn't like something major about herself). it sounds like you didn't fall for her nonsense (at least from what you said, because you didn't say that you took her up on her offers to hang out) which is applaudable but unfortunately most men are as strong as you.
P.S. And you are right, so some women, men who aren't available are more attractive to them than those who are single.  x 1,000
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ThreadCula said: gemini13 said: Man, that sucks. Being a woman myself, I know there's nothing worse than a woman who doesn't repect boundaries. It's really bad. Exactly! I dont understand that. agreed. she's probably just threatened by his relationship with another woman.which is something she just has to respect and get over. kind of a power struggle that women tend to have in order to see how relevant they still are. it has less to do with really wanting him romantically and more about ego like everyone else said. | |
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brownsugar said: ThreadCula said: Exactly! I dont understand that. agreed. she's probably just threatened by his relationship with another woman.which is something she just has to respect and get over. kind of a power struggle that women tend to have in order to see how relevant they still are. it has less to do with really wanting him romantically and more about ego like everyone else said. Exactly. once the woman gets the fool to leave his woman/wife/gf, then she has no more use for him. the men get dropped just as fast as they dropped their significant other to be with this woman who just wanted to feed her ego. it's so ironic because once they have finally achieved their goal by getting the guy, then the guy is now looked at like he's weak. The woman doesn't even respect him anymore (as if she did in the first place)..that's why i always believe in "what comes around, goes around"....karma can be a real bitch. [Edited 4/2/07 18:40pm] I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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It's the hunt/chase.
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