JustErin said: CalhounSq said: I'm sure she wouldn't actually punch them A little touchy feely is cool - hold my hand occassionally, a peck if we're in public... but a mf that is all over you all the time - arm around me, too much public affection, etc. THAT shit is annoying & clingy... Hahaha. Naw, I am more into verbal assault than physical assault. And yes, you can hold my hand, give me a kiss but a guy that wants to be all over me all the time (in public or in private) is a turn off. I also can't stand it when a guy wants to sleep in each other's arms. I simply can't do it. I just will not fall asleep. I have a hard enough time just sharing my bed for sleepy time, so being all up in my personal space is not something I can deal with. As much as it might sounds loveable, I just can't sleep like that. | |
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CortestheKiller said: On a first date, I always like to get a feel for whether not a guy reads books. I can't respect someone who won't read. To me, it screams out unintelligent.
Or blind. I can't read more than 3 lines without losing concentration. Might be because of bad eye sight. | |
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ItsOnlyMe said: JustErin said: Hahaha. Naw, I am more into verbal assault than physical assault. And yes, you can hold my hand, give me a kiss but a guy that wants to be all over me all the time (in public or in private) is a turn off. I also can't stand it when a guy wants to sleep in each other's arms. I simply can't do it. I just will not fall asleep. I have a hard enough time just sharing my bed for sleepy time, so being all up in my personal space is not something I can deal with. As much as it might sounds loveable, I just can't sleep like that. I like to snuggle up behind him until I get sleepy, then I usually turn butt to butt. Or I can be on my back w/ his hand on my stomach but DO NOT fucking stare @ me all night, close your fucking eyes I cant fall asleep in someone's arms or entangled in any way, the shit is uncomfortable | |
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ItsOnlyMe said: CortestheKiller said: On a first date, I always like to get a feel for whether not a guy reads books. I can't respect someone who won't read. To me, it screams out unintelligent.
Or blind. I can't read more than 3 lines without losing concentration. Might be because of bad eye sight. Heh heh, well, if that reason was specified, I would make an exception. Depending on whether or not you slurped your food or tried to babble on and impress me with things you knew nothing about. This one's for you. | |
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Ex-Moderator | JustErin said: I also can't deal with guys that are overly touchy feely or huggy huggy.
Guys that call me cute pet names are just begging for a punch in the mouth. Guys that keep saying that they love me or I am so this or that (meaning compliments) all the time make me wanna hurl. Also guys that do the sappy romantic stuff because they think it will make me happy need to get the hell away from me too. Hey, when you find those guys, just pass them off my way. [Edited 3/25/07 8:57am] |
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If he ever said.. and yes I am a musician..
I think I would run a 1000 miles if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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Ex-Moderator | CalhounSq said: retina said: A punch in the mouth for calling you a pet name? I'd say that's a pretty raw deal. I know what you're saying with most of it though, and totally understand that you don't want to make all the decisions. The type of guys that ask that of you are really lame. I am a bit touchy feely though sometimes. I'm sure she wouldn't actually punch them A little touchy feely is cool - hold my hand occassionally, a peck if we're in public... but a mf that is all over you all the time - arm around me, too much public affection, etc. THAT shit is annoying & clingy... oh, agreed. bleh. |
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REDBABY said: If he ever said.. and yes I am a musician..
I think I would run a 1000 miles Well, you're already thousands of miles away. You can stop running. | |
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ItsOnlyMe said: REDBABY said: If he ever said.. and yes I am a musician..
I think I would run a 1000 miles Well, you're already thousands of miles away. You can stop running. I mean in the opposite direction.. dunno what it is.. they seek me out, not the other way around, but I have had it with musicians.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: I also can't deal with guys that are overly touchy feely or huggy huggy.
Guys that call me cute pet names are just begging for a punch in the mouth. Guys that keep saying that they love me or I am so this or that (meaning compliments) all the time make me wanna hurl. Also guys that do the sappy romantic stuff because they think it will make me happy need to get the hell away from me too. Hey, when you find those guys, just pass them off my way. [Edited 3/25/07 8:57am] Deal! | |
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REDBABY said: ItsOnlyMe said: Well, you're already thousands of miles away. You can stop running. I mean in the opposite direction.. dunno what it is.. they seek me out, not the other way around, but I have had it with musicians.. I'll send the lovey doveys Carrie's way and you can send the hot musicians my way. Thanks. | |
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JustErin said: REDBABY said: I mean in the opposite direction.. dunno what it is.. they seek me out, not the other way around, but I have had it with musicians.. I'll send the lovey doveys Carrie's way and you can send the hot musicians my way. Thanks. Really.. Ok it would be a pleasure.. I will send you effs too.. but he only plays his organ grinder.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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ItsOnlyMe said: REDBABY said: If he ever said.. and yes I am a musician..
I think I would run a 1000 miles Well, you're already thousands of miles away. You can stop running. yeah us muscians are a curse huh | |
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REDBABY said: JustErin said: I'll send the lovey doveys Carrie's way and you can send the hot musicians my way. Thanks. Really.. Ok it would be a pleasure.. I will send you effs too.. but he only plays his organ grinder.. Good enough for me. | |
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IAintTheOne said: ItsOnlyMe said: Well, you're already thousands of miles away. You can stop running. yeah us muscians are a curse huh In my experience .. yes.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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JustErin said: REDBABY said: I mean in the opposite direction.. dunno what it is.. they seek me out, not the other way around, but I have had it with musicians.. I'll send the lovey doveys Carrie's way and you can send the hot musicians my way. Thanks. That's too funny, I was thinking, "I'd be intrigued by a musician" | |
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REDBABY said: IAintTheOne said: yeah us muscians are a curse huh In my experience .. yes.. well in your case i understand, but we're talking about "real musicians" | |
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CalhounSq said: JustErin said: I'll send the lovey doveys Carrie's way and you can send the hot musicians my way. Thanks. That's too funny, I was thinking, "I'd be intrigued by a musician" They arent all bad.. I have dated a couple who are really sweet and would write music for me and sing to me The other ones are far too up their own asses to even notice you, and just want you there as an emotional pillow, cos they havent made it big yet and they get so frustrated, they stop living in the real world.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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IAintTheOne said: REDBABY said: In my experience .. yes.. well in your case i understand, but we're talking about "real musicians" I am not just talking about that tranny. [Edited 3/25/07 9:11am] if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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REDBABY said: CalhounSq said: That's too funny, I was thinking, "I'd be intrigued by a musician" They arent all bad.. I have dated a couple who are really sweet and would write music for me and sing to me The other ones are far too up their own asses to even notice you, and just want you there as an emotional pillow, cos they havent made it big yet and they get so frustrated, they stop living in the real world.. I hear you. I don't think I would ever date one seriously though, they'd just be for play... hopefully! Unless I caught feelings & got goofy about it . [Edited 3/25/07 9:11am] | |
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CalhounSq said: REDBABY said: They arent all bad.. I have dated a couple who are really sweet and would write music for me and sing to me The other ones are far too up their own asses to even notice you, and just want you there as an emotional pillow, cos they havent made it big yet and they get so frustrated, they stop living in the real world.. I hear you. I don't think I would ever date one seriously though, they'd just be for play... Yeah for play is cool.. but not really for real.. unless you do have a proper connectiuon.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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Guys who constantly make references to my height the entire conversation, "Dude, I know I'm short, now let's move on."
Guys who "forget" to tell me they have a steady girlfriend, even after I ask their stupid asses, "So, do you have a girlfriend/wife?", to which they reply, "No." Then, I get an angry phone call from his chick who is yelling at me because I talked to her man. Bitch, you need to be yelling at his ass, because he seems to have forgotten that you two are together. Guys who constantly compare me to their ex-girlfriends. No, I'm nothing like that girl, so either go back to her ass or stop making comparisons. Guys, who after I tell them that I don't believe in marriage or children, make the comment, "But, God says be fruitful and multiple and marriage is what God wants us to do." I don't believe in marriage, because I don't believe in divorce and since he's stupid from the start of the conversation, than I'm not going to be taking any chances. Yeah, God said be fruitful and multiple to Adam and Eve and Noah and his sons, you know all those people who were the only ones left on the planet at that time. Have you seen the large amounts of traffic and the lines at the supermarket? Why would I want to add to that. Plus, I don't want any kids because they would have to interact with gaggles of stupid people. I'll pass. Guys who get mad at me when I tell them I'm not interested in them, so they call me a bitch. Yeah, I'm a bitch, who doesn't like your stupid ass, so bounce before I slap you. Guys who constantly tell me I have a J.Lo or Beyonce booty and then ask if they can touch it to see if it's real. No, muthafucka, you can't. Guys who just assume they know me because they've been around lots of girls. You know what they say about people who assume? Guys who expect me to cook for them and clean their house because we're together. I have my own house. R u going to come and clean my place? We don't live together, Sweetheart. Why would I cook for you, when I barely cook for myself. Do I look like Martha Stewart? I'm not your wife, your maid, or your mom, so let's start over from the beginning keeping those key points in mind. Man, now I totally see why I don't date. Prince Rogers Nelson
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Its a deal breaker on the first date if.....he beeps when he pulls up. | |
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It's a deal-breaker if during the FIRST FEW MONTHS: If the guy keeps bragging about all them money he makes or is about to make! If the guy brags about material things. I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.
"There are three types of women for a man. The woman he wants to marry, the woman he should marry, and the woman he ends up marrying". -Pedro Infante- Una Vez Y Otra Mas! | |
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Ex-Moderator | CalhounSq said: It's a deal-breaker if in the FIRST CONVERSATION: he manages to work in driving an expensive car/clothes/living arrangements - I'm outta there, no time for bitches like that... It's a deal-breaker if on the FIRST DATE: he's blatantly preoccupied w/ sex AND he doesn't make me laugh at all - there's nothing more boring to me... It's a deal-breaker if during the FIRST WEEK: he reveals completely unacceptable taste in tv/movies/music I wouldn't be able to respect that OR if he makes up lame reasons to see me, I'm just gonna think he's retarded. Be honest, say you wanna see me - I'd like that... unless I didn't like you It's a deal-breaker if during the FIRST MONTH: he's just so-so in bed AND has a name for his penis, either I'm gone or I'll smother him in his sleep... Shallow, of course your turn, bitches I'd agree with all of the above. Deal breakers for me also include being super religious and having polar opposite political beliefs. It just won't ever work. |
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IAintTheOne said: ItsOnlyMe said: Well, you're already thousands of miles away. You can stop running. yeah us muscians are a curse huh Yes. I think it's the ammount of passion that women can't handle. | |
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ella731 said: Its a deal breaker on the first date if.....he beeps when he pulls up.
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REDBABY said: CalhounSq said: I hear you. I don't think I would ever date one seriously though, they'd just be for play... Yeah for play is cool.. but not really for real.. unless you do have a proper connectiuon.. Im done dating musicians.Its to much hassle. | |
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ella731 said: REDBABY said: Yeah for play is cool.. but not really for real.. unless you do have a proper connectiuon.. Im done dating musicians.Its to much hassle. So you no longer dating yourself? | |
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i would have said smoking but then i went and found a smoker | |
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