shausler said:

lol

I used to suggest discussing it over a plate of STEAMY HAWT SEX and then tell them to piss off.....


....but now I just tell them I'm married and that they should invest their feelings in someone that can return them.....

Paradisekiss03 said:

As is usually the case, you will find someone much better.....much more deserving of you.....

reneGade20 said:

Yeah. Thanks. I am already starting to kinda' like someone else.

reneGade20 said:

PANDURITO said:

I'm in love with an Orger and it sure in the fuck ain't you.

Stymie said:

yeah, that's kinda messed up.

Stymie said:

Stymie said:

what part??
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this thread is why i don't tell people when i have major crushes on them unless i know it's unmistakably mutual.

unless i'm drunk, in which case if it's NOT mutual i can just drink more and then either not remember the next day or hopefully have even worse incidents to regret.

Anx said:

Anx said:

Fauxie said:

I did indeed see Van live, he fuckin' rocked it

Dunno what other thread you speak of, just glad to get some love

Anx said:

Interesting theory!

Anx said:

I tell them I'm not interested, but it was one of my friends. So it got dramatic...

We argued and I got told that "I led them on." Then, started making romantic things out of things that weren't romantic, got jealous of other people around me, has bouts of silence when we talk on the phone, etc.

It's so bad, to this day I still don't like wearing anything perceivably "attractive" in front of this person. Like showing my legs or arms or possibly accentuating anything -- yes, it's that bad!

Even the text messages I get sent are weird and they seem like love msgs instead of someone being friendly. When I get the "Good night" and "I miss you" text it's kinda gross and just delete them.

It's very fucked up and emotionally exhausting.

Mara said:

that's totally gross and unacceptable and i want you to know you're extremely special to me.

Anx said:

Thank you, Anx!!

Mara said:

He's so not over you. How long has this been going on? It may never stop, you know...

"I beg your pardon? I'm married! For Christsakes get a GRIP!"
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Stymie said:

Oh this has happened to me before, and I was honest with the guy, I didn't think it would work with us being together. (recap) We had dated for a month and it wasn't going anywhere, i realized i was trying to make myself like him, and he was smothering me, so i got honest with him and told him that it would be best if we were just friends. he agreed, and one day he called just wanting to hang out, i said okay.....(this was my mistake, shouldn't have hung out with him)

little did i know the whole time we were hanging out in a park (playing tennis), he kept trying to kiss me and stuff, it was like he wasn't accepting no for an answer. When i asked him to stop coming on to me, he turned into a monster. He called me all kinds of names out in public, cursing me out, and i think people were even looking at us. I was thinking to myself, what in the hell is going on here? So since I was the one who had driven us to the park in the first place, while he was ranting and yelling, i kindly fast walked to the car and took off.....without him.

missfee said:

Good for you, you did the right thing. That guy sounded like a psycho.
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reneGade20 said:

That my crush on you is unrequited.

ItsOnlyMe said:

Stymie said:

....I've been a bad boy recently, so I gotta be good....

missfee said:

Damn, that's awful He was a total asshole. I hate men who pretend to be your friend & then have the NERVE to be upset when they can't turn it into something more & you've already told them they don't have a shot in hell. They just don't wanna believe it, fucking spoiled brats. Don't get me started on the saga I went through



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CalhounSq said:

thanx for the hug. Hell yeah that guy was psycho. I had gotten sort of scared for my life when he started picking up tennis balls. i was afraid that he was going to throw them at my car and break my windows out so i took a different way home that night. I remember calling my mother frantic while i was driving because I wasn't sure if i did the right thing. she just said "Just as long as he isn't no where near you, you are okay. Just come on home baby".

Yeah and they say women can get "fatally attracted" to men, shucks with men being more emotional than women are (yeah i said it, men are more emotional, they just don't show it or talk about their feelings like females do) they are more dangerous when they can't have what they want.

A man with a damaged ego is a dangerous one.

I forgot what I was going to type.
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Oh, I date them for, like, 6 months.

Used to.