I hate secrecy, especially when I should be in the know

now dont get me wrong I am no nosy parker.. well lol maybe sometimes, but I do like to ask questions, cos you dont get anywhere if you dont ask.. if its really not my business I will butt out

But anyway where as usual me and my sister share everything.. seems she is being really secretive about her private life all of a sudden..

I mean before we would discuss everything!!! .. now I hear second hand she is jetting off at weekends to spend with a *friend*


I am happy for her but.. I dont like it..

:fL I am sure it will all come out in the wash and you'll understand why

Mach said:

hmm I mean it doesnt effect me, but before she would confide in me and this friendship has esculatated, and I didnt have a clue!

Do you have a record of stealing her boyfriends?

I think I hit the nail on the head

PANDURITO said:

NOOO!!!!

REDBABY said:

I know what you mean. It can almost seem like a betrayal when people who were previously close to you suddenly stop sharing. But there's probably a good reason. And she'll come around when she's ready.

CarrieMpls said:

Yeah but someone in a different town knew where she was this weekend and even I didnt know!!!!

grr I am mad now..

deep breaths deep breaths.. I am going to stay with her for about 3 nights and wont be able to hold my tongue..

Well, it sounds as if she's definitely hiding something.

It might be something important and it might be nothing.

Just have to wait, I guess.

gemini13 said:

hmm maybe she feels ashamed or embarrased cos last time she was at home she was texting like mad and I told her off for it.. so now she cant confide in me

dunno..