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PrintableItsOnlyMe said: JustErin said: But unfortunately the sex is always amazing. Well, the physical part, yes. But sex can be amazing spiritually, too. Except the latter has an after effect too. I don't know about spiritually, but there is something very empowering about  somebody who worships you  | |
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ZombieKitten said: ItsOnlyMe said: Well, the physical part, yes. But sex can be amazing spiritually, too. Except the latter has an after effect too. I don't know about spiritually, but there is something very empowering about somebody who worships you What I meant is, when emotions are added to the sex. | |
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ItsOnlyMe said: ZombieKitten said: I don't know about spiritually, but there is something very empowering about somebody who worships you What I meant is, when emotions are added to the sex. Meh, I am not buying it, but then again if I've never had it I guess I can't comment on it. | |
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ItsOnlyMe said: ZombieKitten said: I don't know about spiritually, but there is something very empowering about somebody who worships you What I meant is, when emotions are added to the sex.  yeah, it can be moving | |
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JustErin said: ItsOnlyMe said: What I meant is, when emotions are added to the sex. Meh, I am not buying it, but then again if I've never had it I guess I can't comment on it. I think it's two different approaches to sex. Each rewards you differently. So it might depend on what you're looking for. | |
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eraclito said: Natisse said: um let me try and explain then... with Aaron (boy next door) from the minute I met him my heart jumped out and I felt like I was instantly connected with him forever. my Mum used to tell me he was my soulmate too... she saw it he passed away when we were both 19 but even his memory still makes me dizzy. I hopefully will find love one day but truthfully he'll never measure up to Aaron. I know that in my heart and in my mind if he hadn't done what he did we'd be together now in this life and in the same way I know one day we still will just NOT in this one.
The other crushes I've had over the years were merely that... there was still the racing heart etc but I haven't fell in love with any of them or even close to it really. there was no connection except platonic and that was always at the surface hope that helps a little... i am sorry to hear about Aaron, i know how hard it is to lose a soulmate the danger is in these situations, is that one can get stuck living in the past. life has a weird way of panning out, and we must embrace and move forward with it, otherwise we ourselves die, at least on a soul level. we cannot meausure new friendships based on the past and more often than not on nostalgic romantic memories. maybe thats why you only have crushes, and do not pursue a full on relationship. crushes are usually on people that are unnattainable, or unavailable one can very easily end up being alone, and that is not what life's all about.  for Natisse
I totaly agree with you, If I had let myself get all round up in the past I wouldnt be anywhere near where I am now,
Its way hard to get past the loss of a soulmate, but isnt there a small chance that there could be someone else out there? I may have been young at the time but you know when you know you pass when you pass. its not easy. Poppys, daisys life is crazy | |
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ZombieKitten said: ItsOnlyMe said: What I meant is, when emotions are added to the sex. yeah, it can be moving
I have had both and really there is no comparison and plus with someone you love and who loves you back you can have both. That beautiful slow gentle lovemaking and that wet wild crazy animial fucking that you do when it's just lust and passion. you can also have that oh ok well hurry up sex too. 
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butterfli25 said: ZombieKitten said: yeah, it can be moving
I have had both and really there is no comparison and plus with someone you love and who loves you back you can have both. That beautiful slow gentle lovemaking and that wet wild crazy animial fucking that you do when it's just lust and passion. you can also have that oh ok well hurry up sex too.
oldmarriedwomanedit You can also have gentle and soft and caring or hard and nasty with people you are not in love with. In my world sex and love have zero to do with each other. | |
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JustErin said: butterfli25 said:
I have had both and really there is no comparison and plus with someone you love and who loves you back you can have both. That beautiful slow gentle lovemaking and that wet wild crazy animial fucking that you do when it's just lust and passion. you can also have that oh ok well hurry up sex too.
oldmarriedwomanedit You can also have gentle and soft and caring or hard and nasty with people you are not in love with. In my world sex and love have zero to do with each other. Have you ever had lesbian sex, JustErin?  if sexy was a colour it would be red  | |
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REDBABY said: JustErin said: You can also have gentle and soft and caring or hard and nasty with people you are not in love with. In my world sex and love have zero to do with each other. Have you ever had lesbian sex, JustErin? No, however, I've had a couple of friends that wanted to mess around. I gave in but stopped it at kissing cuz I just wasn't into it. | |
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JustErin said: butterfli25 said:
I have had both and really there is no comparison and plus with someone you love and who loves you back you can have both. That beautiful slow gentle lovemaking and that wet wild crazy animial fucking that you do when it's just lust and passion. you can also have that oh ok well hurry up sex too.
oldmarriedwomanedit You can also have gentle and soft and caring or hard and nasty with people you are not in love with. In my world sex and love have zero to do with each other. Like I said before, everone is nobbing each other these days me dear.  | |
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JustErin said: REDBABY said: Have you ever had lesbian sex, JustErin? No, however, I've had a couple of friends that wanted to mess around. I gave in but stopped it at kissing cuz I just wasn't into it. Then you just havent met the right girl.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: JustErin said: You can also have gentle and soft and caring or hard and nasty with people you are not in love with. In my world sex and love have zero to do with each other. Like I said before, everone is nobbing each other these days me dear. I'm sorry. I don't really know what that means.  | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: JustErin said: You can also have gentle and soft and caring or hard and nasty with people you are not in love with. In my world sex and love have zero to do with each other. Like I said before, everone is nobbing each other these days me dear. Nobbing.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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REDBABY said: JustErin said: No, however, I've had a couple of friends that wanted to mess around. I gave in but stopped it at kissing cuz I just wasn't into it. Then you just havent met the right girl..
Awesome. Perhaps you are right. | |
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JustErin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Like I said before, everone is nobbing each other these days me dear. I'm sorry. I don't really know what that means. Let´s just have meaningless sex then eh? | |
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JustErin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Like I said before, everone is nobbing each other these days me dear. I'm sorry. I don't really know what that means. Just use your imagination.. its dirty enough.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: JustErin said: I'm sorry. I don't really know what that means. Let´s just have meaningless sex then eh? Ok, as long as it's rough. | |
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JustErin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Let´s just have meaningless sex then eh? Ok, as long as it's rough. Hes a bad boy.. our JD if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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REDBABY said: JustErin said: Ok, as long as it's rough. Hes a bad boy.. our JD So it seems.  | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: REDBABY said: Hes a bad boy.. our JD So it seems. Thats a compliment.. if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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REDBABY said: JDINTERACTIVE said: So it seems. Thats a compliment.. Yet it still doesnt quite cut the mustard eh?! | |
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ZombieKitten said: Has it happened to you?
Yes and I am going through it right now!!  I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.
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JDINTERACTIVE said: REDBABY said: Thats a compliment.. Yet it still doesnt quite cut the mustard eh?! I never cut mustard.. I just spread it..if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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Paradisekiss03 said: ZombieKitten said: Has it happened to you?
Yes and I am going through it right now!! sorry ..if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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REDBABY said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Yet it still doesnt quite cut the mustard eh?! I never cut mustard.. I just spread it..I dont like mustard but... | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: REDBABY said: I never cut mustard.. I just spread it..I dont like mustard but... ...but.. you would spread it?  if sexy was a colour it would be red | |
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REDBABY said: JDINTERACTIVE said: I dont like mustard but... ...but.. you would spread it? Depends on what you´re talking about. | |
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butterfli25 said: ZombieKitten said: yeah, it can be moving
I have had both and really there is no comparison and plus with someone you love and who loves you back you can have both. That beautiful slow gentle lovemaking and that wet wild crazy animial fucking that you do when it's just lust and passion. you can also have that oh ok well hurry up sex too.
oldmarriedwomanedit out of control..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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Its only REALLY happened once and the vixen in question thought that I was a much better long distance boyfriend than I was when I was home....She was the reason I got out of the military at the end of my first tour of duty...made all the plans....same college, live together, maybe get married....and then after I'd been home a month she decided that our relationship was easier to deal with while I was in New York and she was in New Orleans.....
...found out later on (after she and I became very good PLATONIC friends) that she'd started seeing someone else a couple of months before I got out and came home....but she couldn't tell me because she was afraid she'd hurt me....nevermind that I could've re-upped, stayed in the military, and been retired since 2004 at the tender age of 37.....BITCH!!!!! He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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